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re: Why are these questions taboo/rude to some people?

Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:51 pm to
Posted by Halftrack
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:51 pm to
Want to be rich white people R

Very Rich white people D
Posted by Peazey
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:52 pm to
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Who are you voting for?


Political views are a very personal thing about which people tend to have strong views. When people disagree it can lead to tension. In some contexts discussion is appropriate. In most it should be left alone to avoid needless friction.

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How much money do you make?


Purposely displaying that you make more money than some one else can be a way to show that you think you are better than some one. This is a-hole behavior. Moreover there is in most instances no need for you to need to know. It has no effect on you. It is intrusively examining the personal life decisions of another.

quote:

How much did you pay for X?


This can just be an off shoot of the second question. Sometimes it is appropriate.
This post was edited on 11/19/15 at 4:00 pm
Posted by LSUcjb318
Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:53 pm to
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Does your wife/girlfriend take it in the arse?

Have you been sued?

Do you lease or buy your cars?

Do you take any prescription drugs?

How often do you have diarrhea?



All of these are legit questions.

Posted by MorbidTheClown
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:53 pm to
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Poor white people R

Poor black people D


well , at least i know which way to vote now.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:54 pm to
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Purposely displaying that you make more money than some one else can be a way to show that you think you are better than some one. This is a-hole behavior. Moreover there is in most intakes no need for you to need to know. It has no effect on you. It is intrusively examining the personal life decisions of another.
That's a lot of BS for a simple answer.

My close friends and I talk about what we make... bonuses... job offers. Pretty much everything is on the table because we just don't give a shite what the others think and won't feel judged no matter what we say. It'd be nice if the whole world was that way, but PC/SJW.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:57 pm to
Which way do wealthy black people vote?



Never mind
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:59 pm to
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Most of the poor people I know vote R.

Me too, but many of the wealthiest people i know vote R
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 3:59 pm to
Sometimes I think I love you.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

My close friends and I talk about what we make... bonuses... job offers. Pretty much everything is on the table because we just don't give a shite what the others think and won't feel judged no matter what we say. It'd be nice if the whole world was that way, but PC/SJW.



There are contexts where it is appropriate. I assume you and your buddies are just trying to get a feel for the market, and you feel comfortable with each other to talk about it. Maybe you give advice to each other. I have some friends with whom I do this. But acting like some people wouldn't frame this sort of discussion as a way to show that they are better people, more successful in life, and better providers for their families is plain ignorant.

And LOL at acting like this has anything to do with PC/SJW. It's simple manners to try to recognize people's comfort level with you.
This post was edited on 11/19/15 at 4:06 pm
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:06 pm to
People don't like it when you ask how their wife shaves her vag. I don't get that one.
Posted by LSUcjb318
Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:08 pm to
I know.


Gotta go small runway.


Bald is creepy
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:08 pm to
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people's comfort level
You mean their insecurities and feelings.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:09 pm to
how much do you make?
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:11 pm to
I'll make 92k this year.

ETA: And I've made as little as 32k when I first entered the workforce.
This post was edited on 11/19/15 at 4:14 pm
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:11 pm to
I already know how most of your wives shaves their vag
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:14 pm to
Go around asking everyone how much they weigh and their sexual proclivites, and when it goes poorly for you you can blame that on PC too.
This post was edited on 11/19/15 at 4:14 pm
Posted by LSUcjb318
Member since Jul 2008
2364 posts
Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:17 pm to
I think that's my point.

Money and politics is just as sensitive as your wife's vag.

you know what I mean.
This post was edited on 11/19/15 at 4:18 pm
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
84966 posts
Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:17 pm to
I'm not saying go around asking those types of things. We're talking about taboo conversation. Something that's actively avoided. If it comes up, it comes up. People who don't want to talk about it are either insecure or know it's a taboo and don't want to make others feel insecure.

Like I said... I talk about these things with friends.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 11/19/15 at 4:28 pm to
Fair enough. Maybe the nuance is that it is taboo because people know that they are subjects about which some people will be insecure and sensitive, and it is best to just avoid it to keep from causing waves.

Just have that as the simple catch all to describe all taboo subjects.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30547 posts
Posted on 11/19/15 at 5:17 pm to
quote:

don't know your parents well?

Should probably rephrase my answer. I wouldn't ask my parents or anyone of their generation bc it's much more of an insult to them than it is for us. It's considered disrespectful to them, and as they are my elders and I want to respect them, I wouldn't ask them. My generation on the other hand, I would feel ok to ask if I knew them well
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