re: What yall know about engagement rings?

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I gladly told each of them it wasn’t a diamond and they were all shocked.

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Not for the reason(s) you think.

And slow down there, Mr Rockefeller: save some pussy for the rest of us.

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popping the question

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Don't feed her wedding cake

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I bought the diamond by itself and then had it set in a ring.

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This is the way.

Online sites are legit these days and if you aren't satisfied you can return it. You'll easily save 15-20%.

Setting it in a local shop gives you a little better quality setting and the opportunity to develop a relationship with someone local if you want to make changes.

The natural vs lab grown debate really depends on your budget, size preference and how much value you want it to hold.

I always heard it should be you monthly income x 3… for purchase price

I worked in fine jewelry for years, I’ll be glad to answer any questions you have!

Spend at least 3 years salary on the ring

I know I wished I had the money I spent on those three I gave out, lol!

From a girl: my jeweler just told me that standards were recently changed: a lab-grown can now be marketed as a “diamond”. This has (for now anyway), tanked resale diamond prices…. Thankfully that part is not your concern, but still good to know as you shop around.

What I prefer are “old mine-cut“ diamonds. Well before this new development, I’ve admired their elegant beauty. They have a deep sparkle from within, & are a slightly darker white.

You can find them on places like eBay, even set in old rings etc., & have re-set. Of course, your bride’s opinion is crucial! Plus you need a trusted jeweler’s guidance.

Just thought I’d present this option.

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Thinking about getting a ring and popping the question.

Besides the don’t do it advice…. What yall know about diamonds and rings? Any tips?

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Small ring. Small wedding. Put the saved money as a down payment on a house.

Do not listen to any of these idiots. Get a real diamond. Find a GIA certified dealer. Most of them will do what is called a grow a diamond program. Basically if 5 years down the road she wants a bigger one you can bring it back at the price you bought it for a an upgrade you just pay the difference. Women do not want a lab grown diamond.