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re: What a shock. Going to doc and told you will have four kids.

Posted on 5/9/16 at 1:37 pm to
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17216 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 1:37 pm to
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Actually.....you go to an urgent care for abdominal pain....chances are they may send you to the ER to rule out appendicitis.


We had a guy come in 3 times in 24 hours the other day because he thought his liver was failing due to him taking 3 Tylenol P.M. after reading that recommended dosing was 2 caplets. He was pretty insistent that his body was shutting down...

That was awesome...
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:02 pm to
If you have insurance that covers any part of IVF consider yourself really lucky. Seems like most insurance companies want no part in covering IVF.

However, they do have companies that provide special loans with supposed low interest rates for couples wanting to do IVF. (Average cost PER cycle is around 15k....if you want to do genetic prescreening of embryos to check for stuff like Down's, etc....that adds another 5k per cycle). And....those costs usually have to be paid upfront before they start treatment.

And I think there are programs that couples can apply for financial grants/loans for adoption.

Just really sucks that so many people struggle with fertility (more than you think, and many not necessarily because of age).....and then you see some of the trashiest people having kid after kid after kid and taking all the handouts they can get because of it.
This post was edited on 5/9/16 at 2:11 pm
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57244 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:17 pm to
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(Average cost PER cycle is around 15k....if you want to do genetic prescreening of embryos to check for stuff like Down's, etc....that adds another 5k per cycle)

That's so expensive for something that has like a 60% success rate.
Posted by colorchangintiger
Dan Carlin
Member since Nov 2005
30979 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:21 pm to
Good luck! Hope you don't have more than you can handle. Although it would be pretty cool to have an octo-mom on the OT.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:28 pm to
Exactly!

And you have to factor in the emotional costs as well. Imagine going into debt for that and it doesn't work? What kind of toll does that take on a marriage? On a person in general? Also....for some it poses ethical questions they have to deal with (regarding embryos and what are done with the "extra" ones). It is certainly an option, and for some the only one to get pregnant ....but one that needs some serious consideration by the couple before they decide.

Posted by tigerjjs
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2006
1238 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:28 pm to
600 lbs?! Seriously, who is gonna screw that?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11215 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:30 pm to
I don't understand how someone who is nearly too fat to walk pushes out a baby.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80876 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:32 pm to
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600 lbs?! Seriously, who is gonna screw that?
a very very desperate man
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:32 pm to
Thank you color and to anyone else in this thread that wished me luck (shift I know was one).

Posted by torrey225
Member since Mar 2015
1437 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:33 pm to
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Completely disagree. There are so many kids in this country that could use a good home.



Very expensive to try to adopt and the mother can back out at any moment. Adoption agencies can deny you for an older kid as well. You do not get your money back. My friend lost $50k on a USA adoption before she adopted overseas.
This post was edited on 5/9/16 at 2:38 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:40 pm to
I can see why many go the international route for adoption. Less red tape and usually the baby/child is a true orphan so there isn't much risk of any bio family protesting the adoption.
Posted by Hu_Flung_Pu
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2013
22163 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:45 pm to
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I'm about to start fertility treatments.

Stuff like this freaking terrifies me


When our twins were in the NICU, a woman that did fertility treatments had quads. Good luck. Thought I'd mention that.

We went back for a "reunion" and she looked like she aged at least 20 years.
This post was edited on 5/9/16 at 2:46 pm
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57244 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:52 pm to
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a woman that did fertility treatments had quads.

Posted by CE Tiger
Metairie
Member since Jan 2008
41584 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 2:55 pm to
Good luck. My little girl turns one on Wednesday and we had to go through several months of fertility treatments. It's a miserable time but the reward is so worth it.
Posted by etm512
Mandeville, LA
Member since Aug 2005
20740 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:14 pm to
quote:

I'm about to start fertility treatments.

Stuff like this freaking terrifies me


Good luck. Father of triplet girls here. Had to give the wife fertility injections (insert dirty joke here). Forget the name of the medicine we used though.

In all from first early loss pregnancy it took us about 2.5 years after that with several miscarriages to have the pregnancy stick. A very emotionally draining process. Best wishes.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16459 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:15 pm to
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That's so expensive for something that has like a 60% success rate


My wife and I are going through this. She just did her second round of IVF about two weeks ago. It's $15K only for the first time because of the egg retrieval, but it's around $3K-$5K for successive rounds as long as you still have good eggs and don't have to do another retrieval. After several failed IUI's, miscarriages, and one failed IVF, we were elated that this second IVF has worked so far, still a long way to go. They put in two on the second IVF, so we now have a pretty high chance of twins
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57244 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:17 pm to
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we were elated that this second IVF has worked so far, still a long way to go.

Good luck!!
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:19 pm to
I hope she has the happiest birthday a one year old can have

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:21 pm to
Good luck
Posted by msflower
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2011
470 posts
Posted on 5/9/16 at 3:33 pm to
Good luck I wish you all the best and say prayers for all gals struggling with fertility problems. I did it for many years and finally ended with one child ! He's the best so it's all worth it. When teasing him sometimes we tell him he was expensive to make lol
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