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Thoughts on Dad/Daughter & Mom/Son Dates

Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:46 pm
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:46 pm
See a lot of this being posted on the facebooks and such.

EX: like this one that went viral a few months back...

*probably discussed here at the time

You have two sides on this one...obviously the side that likes the idea and the others who think its a gender classifying misogynistic act that puts girls in their place at young age (SJW school of thought).

For example this one SJW wrote the following:
quote:

I’d like to take this moment to remind everyone that being treated ‘like a princess’ would actually involve being married off at the age of 12 to a man you’ve never met to secure a political alliance.

Also, if you want to raise a woman who has a healthy attitude towards men, giving her one afternoon a month where she has to look pretty before she’s given treats? Not the way to do it.

But there’s a bigger issue at play here than playing fast and loose with the concept of ‘dating’ and that’s the people who are queuing up to congratulate a man for spending some time with his kid. Think about that.

Do we see mothers getting 89 thousand Facebook likes for mopping up sick and doing the school run?
Of course not.

What do we go nuts for fathers spending time with their kids? Why do we call it ‘babysitting’ when a dad is active in childcare? Why are we surprised that the person who helped create the child then deigns to spend time with it?



What are y'all thoughts on daddy/daughter and mom/son dates?

I for one have no problem with it and don't mind treating my daughter to a nice time out on the town. They don't stay little for long and even so they grow out of wanting to be around you even quicker. I see it as spending quality time with your kid not some gender demeaning activity that will suppress my daughter in the long run.

Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32543 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:48 pm to
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What are y'all thoughts on daddy/daughter and mom/son dates?

It is important to take your daughter out without your wife or other family members or she will grow up and write shite like this:
quote:

I’d like to take this moment to remind everyone that being treated ‘like a princess’ would actually involve being married off at the age of 12 to a man you’ve never met to secure a political alliance.



You cannot win with SJWs. If a man spends time with his daughter, he is confirming gender norms on her. If he does't then he is a low down dead beat piece of shite.

I would rather confirm gender norms on my little girl than have her end up an SJW or on the pole.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 12:49 pm
Posted by LigerFan
Member since Jan 2014
2711 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:49 pm to
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What are y'all thoughts on daddy/daughter and mom/son dates?


Would they do all of this is they couldn't post about it on Facebook?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35151 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:49 pm to
Hang on. Let me pornhub it real quick.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

What are y'all thoughts on daddy/daughter and mom/son dates?


Would they do all of this is they couldn't post about it on Facebook?



Are they from Alabama? If so...yes.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58132 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:50 pm to
I don't see the problem here. Oh wait, never mind. This is the OT. Everyone needs something to bitch about.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57310 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:50 pm to
quote:

I’d like to take this moment to remind everyone that being treated ‘like a princess’ would actually involve being married off at the age of 12 to a man you’ve never met to secure a political alliance.

Also, if you want to raise a woman who has a healthy attitude towards men, giving her one afternoon a month where she has to look pretty before she’s given treats? Not the way to do it.

But there’s a bigger issue at play here than playing fast and loose with the concept of ‘dating’ and that’s the people who are queuing up to congratulate a man for spending some time with his kid. Think about that.

Do we see mothers getting 89 thousand Facebook likes for mopping up sick and doing the school run?
Of course not.

What do we go nuts for fathers spending time with their kids? Why do we call it ‘babysitting’ when a dad is active in childcare? Why are we surprised that the person who helped create the child then deigns to spend time with it?

I swear some people just like to be miserable.



I think it's a cute idea and see absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Posted by RGJ18
Collierville, TN
Member since Feb 2010
8679 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:51 pm to
I see both sides to this. I don't really like the idea of "going on dates" with your daughter. I'm about to have a daughter and sure I'll go to the daddy/daughter dance but will I take her out on "dates" once a month, nah. I'll just spend time with her without trying to draw attention to myself.

eta: i don't care if others do it. Do what you want.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:14 pm
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
19691 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

I would rather confirm gender norms on my little girl than have her end up an SJW or on the pole.


or worse, a SJW on the pole
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124433 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:52 pm to
Just a tad over the top

Husband is a bitch. Wife is a whore
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:52 pm to
quote:

You cannot win with SJWs.


Same thought as well. I was like well if he didnt spend time with her then he's a deadbeat when he does spend time with her he is suppressing her feminism or some BS. frick this world we live in today.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57699 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:52 pm to
I'm sure SJW hate it because the kids can't be genderqueer or whatever else.

I think it's definitely good for the dad/daughter. Show her how to be treated. Mom/son is kind of weird to me IMO.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

Would they do all of this is they couldn't post about it on Facebook?


Stuff like this absolutely happened before Facebook, so the answer is yes.
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19351 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:54 pm to
Thought this was like an Oedipus/Elektra complex thread. Consider me out. I have no opinion on the OP's post.
Posted by bubblehead26
Temecula
Member since Apr 2012
333 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:56 pm to






Where's the wooden plow picture?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:56 pm to
Spending one on one time with your daughter is perfectly normal and a good thing.

Calling her a princess and saying she deserves to be treated like one and posting on facebook about it is weird. Just spend time with your daughter without trying to collect internet points
Posted by barry
Location, Location, Location
Member since Aug 2006
50346 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:56 pm to
Sounds like he's creating some lofty goals for her future boyfriend.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:57 pm to
quote:

Calling her a princess and saying she deserves to be treated like one and posting on facebook about it is weird. Just spend time with your daughter without trying to collect internet points



Now I do get this part of it. No reason to post it on social media.
Posted by Fewer Kilometers
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
36058 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:57 pm to
Other things that SJW would have a problem with:

Coaching kids' sports
Teaching your daughter to cook
Letting your son learn martial arts
Prayer
Giving pets gender specific names
Milk
Velcro
The color pink
Posted by Balloon Huffer
Member since Sep 2010
3421 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:58 pm to
These pathetic people do it more for the "kudos" and credit they get from other facebook losers, instead of the actual joy of their children.

My kids have the best life, and nobody is posting all of the great shite we do all the time....because we don't give a frick about impressing the jones'....

We already know they are impressed....
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:05 pm
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