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re: Thoughts on Dad/Daughter & Mom/Son Dates

Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:28 pm to
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:28 pm to
quote:

It's strange to characterize it as a "date" - even more so when people publicize it for facebook approval. A "date" implies that there's a romantic aspect.


Sorry for the downvote. Meant to upvote.

It does sound a little weird because of the romantic implication, but what it comes down to is just a cutesy way to say it. More cute than I would be and it's presented too much like trying to make a statement when it's just spending time with family but whatever.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18810 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

Why?



just sounds weird to me. date implies a romantic element is involved.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9661 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:32 pm to
I see nothing wrong with it.

I do see it as attention whoring if you have to put it on facebook.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18810 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:35 pm to
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My daughter is 16 months and I may take off work to take her for a daddy/daughter lunch tomorrow


can we just call i lunch. this "daddy/daughter" everything is fricking stupid.

it's like man this, man that. it's not a fricking "man bun," it's a goddamn bun no matter what sex of the person wearing it.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:37 pm
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
So how much attention did your parents not pay to you for you to be the miserable person you clearly are?

Need a hug?
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
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You have two sides on this one...obviously the side that likes the idea and the others who are morons


FIFY
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
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can we just call i lunch. this "daddy/daughter" everything is fricking stupid.



had this one chick call me daddy while we were knocking boots...instantaneously thought "yup she had daddy issues. this is gonna be great secks"
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:39 pm to
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These pathetic people do it more for the "kudos" and credit they get from other facebook losers, instead of the actual joy of their children.

Some of you take Social Media way too seriously, and I'm no talking about the father in the OP.


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My kids have the best life, and nobody is posting all of the great shite we do all the time....because we don't give a frick about impressing the jones'....
Many do it so grandparents and other family members can see pictures of their grandkids/relatives.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:41 pm
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:40 pm to
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I’d like to take this moment to remind everyone that being treated ‘like a princess’ would actually involve being married off at the age of 12 to a man you’ve never met to secure a political alliance.

Also, if you want to raise a woman who has a healthy attitude towards men, giving her one afternoon a month where she has to look pretty before she’s given treats? Not the way to do it.

But there’s a bigger issue at play here than playing fast and loose with the concept of ‘dating’ and that’s the people who are queuing up to congratulate a man for spending some time with his kid. Think about that.

Do we see mothers getting 89 thousand Facebook likes for mopping up sick and doing the school run?
Of course not.

What do we go nuts for fathers spending time with their kids? Why do we call it ‘babysitting’ when a dad is active in childcare? Why are we surprised that the person who helped create the child then deigns to spend time with it?



Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:41 pm to
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It's fricking weird to say you're taking your child on a date.

Only to the weirdo who thinks of it in "that way"
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261167 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:51 pm to
quote:



can we just call i lunch. this "daddy/daughter" everything is fricking stupid


You've got issues.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15527 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:55 pm to
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we REALLY need everyone to quit being so hypersensitive and bitching about every nice, innocent thing someone does. You sound like an SJW. Only instead of bitching about repressed feminism, you're bitching about a parent not doing enough. Its a nice gesture. Say something positive about it or STFU.


I was responding to someone saying it could make society better. This doesn't really improve anything. Just gives you facebook likes...

This is a discussion forum, if everyone STFU that didn't agree with your position, it would be incredibly boring. DWI

quote:

Only to the weirdo who thinks of it in "that way"


When people use this argument, it reminds me of Randal on Clerks 2 trying to repurpose a racist term. You are taking back dating.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:57 pm
Posted by dtmb
Member since Mar 2013
663 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:01 pm to
I see it differently. There's obviously not a romantic component to a dad taking his daughter out for ice cream, so why use a term that carries that implication? I get that it's "cutesy" and such, but it still sounds strange to me to some extent.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111092 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:05 pm to
quote:

I see it differently. There's obviously not a romantic component to a dad taking his daughter out for ice cream, so why use a term that carries that implication? I get that it's "cutesy" and such, but it still sounds strange to me to some extent.

I just think that's overthinking it. They just call it a daddy/daughter date, that's it. No biggie.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:13 pm to
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They just call it a daddy/daughter date, that's it. No biggie.


Oh no, it's a biggie to somebody, somewhere, in this loony bin we call a country
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

This doesn't really improve anything. Just gives you facebook likes...



so a parent spending individual time with a child doesn't improve anything. not for the child. not for the parent. not for anyone. got it.

glad my dad doesn't know how much time he wasted taking me hunting and fishing.
Posted by Itismemc
LA
Member since Nov 2008
4721 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:27 pm to
That's their teachers job.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261167 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:34 pm to
quote:

was responding to someone saying it could make society better. This doesn't really improve anything. Just gives you facebook likes...



Not everyone who uses Facebook is trying to rack up likes. There is a lot of peojecting in this thread.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15527 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:34 pm to
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so a parent spending individual time with a child doesn't improve anything. not for the child. not for the parent. not for anyone. got it. glad my dad doesn't know how much time he wasted taking me hunting and fishing.


Not if they are a shitheads the rest of the time. Ask the kids of divorcees who had parents who just showed up when it was time to buy them off.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
84256 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 2:36 pm to
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Not everyone who uses Facebook is trying to rack up likes. There is a lot of peojecting in this thread.


It's not just this thread.
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