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This police file shows why you should keep up with what your kids do online.

Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:59 pm
Posted by prplhze2000
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Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:59 pm
I can't believe some of the comments made on another thread about a parent wanting to keep tabs on what his 14 year old daughter does with a computer. Some of you are friggin clueless and are a bunch of limp wristed limp dicks who don't even know how to stand up to your own kid.

This link is to a police file on a case in Mississippi. The teen was seduced by her softball coaches. This file is the raw police file and shows exactly how this stuff happens. It started when she was 13 but the sex stuff started at age 14 or 15. They were working on her the whole time- both the husband and wife. They are in prison now serving time.

This file shows exactly how this stuff takes place and frankly, some of you morons need to wake the hell up. Dumbasses.

You clowns wouldn't let a 13 or 14 year old shoot a gun or drive a car but will just give her uncontrolled and unmonitored access to a computer and trust her to do the right thing.

LINK
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 10:02 pm
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18670 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:01 pm to
BUT I WANT TO BE A COOL PARENT!!!!

This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 10:03 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77987 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:01 pm to
Not installing an app just to read that.
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39211 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:02 pm to
there's no need for name calling
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68314 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:02 pm to
Fwiw, m9st of the people who post here have never changed a diaper. Much less have 14 year old girls to worry about
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
51424 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:02 pm to
You shouldn't have to. Might need flash if you are on an apple product.
Posted by lighter345
Member since Jan 2009
11865 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:04 pm to
Do teachers seduce children in school? I mean where does it stop? Everyone wants their kid to be in a bubble but you have to let them live to extent or they won't experience life.
Posted by Choupique19
The cheap seats
Member since Sep 2005
61880 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:07 pm to
So one has to surf the internet in their room alone at 14 years old to experience life? Got it.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77987 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:07 pm to
quote:

Do teachers seduce children in school? I mean where does it stop? Everyone wants their kid to be in a bubble but you have to let them live to extent or they won't experience life.



I agree. You can't protect them 100% of the time no matter how bad you want to. All you can do is raise and educate them the best you can and hope you did a good enough job that they make the right choices.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 10:08 pm
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7653 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:08 pm to
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bunch of limp wristed limp dicks who don't even know how to stand up to your own kid.


It isn't that. It is more about the fact you have to start giving kids some space at a certain point. So they can feel like they have some control over at least a small aspect of their life. If they are responsible with that, you give them more.

Not so simply put, if kids don't gradually learn how to control situations as they arise in relation to the small responsibilities parents give them, they will be fricked in the real world when everything gets dropped on them at once.

The case you are trying to use as an example is one that could have happened even with a parent heavily involved. Why? Because it was two adults the parents regularly trusted their kids with, a coach.

Edit: My first child wont be born until September. However, I am a Youth Pastor, and I do as much raising as half my kid's parents. Overly sheltered kids do not do well, in my experience, when trying to leave the nest.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 10:11 pm
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30580 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:10 pm to
I'm locking my daughters away (if I ever have any)
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18670 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:13 pm to
quote:

experience life.


So let me get this straight. You are arguing that you should let your kids....experience LIFE....through the internet...when they should be sleeping?

They can experience life outside during the day time. I'm not trying to keep my son in a bubble, but there is a lot out there that he doesn't need to be exposed to as a child. I realize kids hear all kinds of things from kids at school, but that doesn't mean I need to just let them do whatever the hell they want.
Posted by prplhze2000
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51424 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:14 pm to
Just read the file.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77987 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:14 pm to
quote:

 but that doesn't mean I need to just let them do whatever the hell they want.


I don't think anyone is suggesting that.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18670 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:21 pm to
quote:

I don't think anyone is suggesting that.


It's called hyperbole.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:26 pm to
quote:

You clowns wouldn't let a 13 or 14 year old shoot a gun or drive a car


I did both of those before I was 14 and I'd let my kid do both before it was 14.

Also, who would read a 14 year old seduction plan? That's psychotic if you ask me.
Posted by Evolved Simian
Bushwood Country Club
Member since Sep 2010
20530 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:44 pm to
quote:

they won't experience life


That's some stupid shite right there.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5161 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 11:33 pm to
I have a 14 y.o. boy, 11 and 2 y.o girls and a boy on the way.
House rules
No social media (negatives far outweigh the positives)
I'm the last one to bed during the week during school. (14 y.o. can stay up to midnight otherwise unless he has games/practices the next day)
No phones/iThings/laptops in the room
School first, school first, school first

Also, both older kids hunt, fish, and are very active.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
51424 posts
Posted on 7/31/15 at 8:58 am to
Proved my point.

Funny how people will look at how predators operate and learn nothing.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 7/31/15 at 9:10 am to
quote:

Everyone wants their kid to be in a bubble but you have to let them live to extent or they won't experience life.


not letting your kids keep an obvious distraction in their rooms at night = not allowing them to experience life

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