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re: The Nightmare Mother in law

Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:13 pm to
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

You don't get a cookie for taking care of your kid. It's what you're supposed to do.


This.

Chris Rock did a joke about this:

quote:

I take care of my kids!


What do you want, a cookie?

quote:

I've never been arrested.


You're not supposed to, you ignorant mother fricker.
Posted by knight_ryder
XTC cabaret
Member since Jan 2015
3356 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:13 pm to
I'll take a seat.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:15 pm to
How is accepting a free vehicle and land and money "stepping up"?


That's like saying welfare queens living off the government are taking responsibility for their actions.
Posted by DesertTiger44
Fayetteville, NC
Member since Mar 2011
227 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:16 pm to
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:17 pm to
Post pics of DIL and MIL. It will help to visualize the type of people they are.


In the olden days you could just stick the MIL head on a stake outside the new property as a message to the DIL about acceptable behavior in her new family.
Posted by Panny Crickets
Fort Worth, TX
Member since Sep 2008
5596 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:20 pm to
quote:

She messed up (likely on purpose)


So blind.
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20443 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:20 pm to
quote:

Son has a decent job, gets paid $$$,


For now. Just wait until the divorce from the wedlock marriage and child support that follows.

That $$$ will turn to $ real quick. My advice, tell him to wait on marriage for at least five years.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:24 pm to
If he makes $$$, why do you have to buy him a car and land and build his house ?
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

Nothing you really can do, she'll be in your life from now on


Kinda how I see it. It seems like it's only words anyway though. You just have to learn to ignore it. What you have to worry about is if she finds a way to leech money and property off of you through her daughter.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:27 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/6/15 at 2:54 pm
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20443 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:28 pm to
They may as well stop everything and just give her 50% of the value now.

And alimony for two years. And child support.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:30 pm to
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They are all hardworking and successful kids.



I wouldn't call knocking up a high school girl when you are in your mid 20s a "success"
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98178 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

What you have to worry about is if she finds a way to leech money and property off of you through her daughter.


Which will happen if you let the kid control his own finances. It's a paradox, because that cuts against the grain of him "taking adult responsibilities." But otherwise MIL, and probably other relatives/hangers on will see this as a meal ticket for the forseeable future.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

That $$$ will turn to $ real quick. My advice, tell him to wait on marriage for at least five years.




Might be solid advice. In today's world a baby isn't enough reason to get married. Marriage doesn't automatically make a difficult situation better. It just raises the stakes.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:33 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/6/15 at 2:55 pm
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80215 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:34 pm to
You don't. Mom and daughter are trashy and ignorant and you can't argue with ignorance.

Posted by Panny Crickets
Fort Worth, TX
Member since Sep 2008
5596 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

she was 19 when she got pregnant. She was NOT in highschool


You're trolling us, aren't you? Gotta be.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

Stepson in his very early 20's

Mid 20s and very early 20s are two different things though



You said he was mid 20s in first post.
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:36 pm to
You need to confront her on FB and expose her lies to the public. Then she'll learn not to frick with you.
Posted by DesertTiger44
Fayetteville, NC
Member since Mar 2011
227 posts
Posted on 6/6/15 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

So even if stepson and gf marry and he were to die or they divorced, the property and house would NOT be be hers. She could live there though until she married again (and she cannot have a live-in bf on the place if she chooses to stay there.)


So let me get this straight. Your son marries the mother of his child and your granddaughter. Your son dies and you think she doesn't deserve the home they shared? I have to be honest - you sound fricking crazy.

I wonder if the other MIL is starting a "crazy MIL" thread about you somewhere.
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