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Straight Guys that Rub your Back in public

Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:19 am
Posted by tigerpawl
Can't get there from here.
Member since Dec 2003
22318 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:19 am
I'm a guy. There's a male department head that I do work for that has a very annoying habit of rubbing my back, not quite in a gay way, but more as a gesture of encouragement or endearment. However, it is definitely the "slow hand" variety. He's married with kids; very smart and otherwise pleasant to be around. Sometimes it's my bicep while we're shaking hands. It's always in public and in plain sight of other people. He also does it to other men in his department and he seems to be comfortable with it. The others don't object but I'm guessing they're having the same thoughts as me. He did it again to me yesterday. I made up my mind that if he does it again, I'm calling a time-out, pull him aside and politely tell him I would prefer he not do that.

I know some people grow up in families that could be described as "huggers" or "touchers" and develop these habits in their formative years, but I think it's very inappropriate simply because 1) he doesn't have my permission and 2) it's a major invasion of my personal space. I also think this is a classic trait of con artists and/or a method of manipulation.

This ever happen to you? What do you think his motives are? What would you do?
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:21 am to
Next time he does it jump back and remark loudly, "Quit rubbing me ya queer!"

That'll set him straight.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:23 am to

Posted by Pectus
Internet
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67302 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:23 am to
Posted by Konkey Dong
Member since Aug 2013
2164 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:23 am to
After reading this, I think you are the closet fig
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16745 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:24 am to
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because 1) he doesn't have my permission


This is funny to me bc what's the opposite? Signing an agreement to touch?

You're a grown arse man. Tell him you don't like it.
Posted by zmanthetigerfan
Prairieville, LA
Member since Oct 2015
889 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:25 am to
quote:

Sometimes it's my bicep while we're shaking hands

This is a power thing. He has now established dominance over you beta.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48853 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:26 am to
quote:

, I'm calling a time-out, .


He's gonna put his weiner in you and a 30 second time out is all he needs.
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27994 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:26 am to
find a different job,quick.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:26 am to
Posted by tigerpawl
Can't get there from here.
Member since Dec 2003
22318 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:27 am to
quote:

This is a power thing. He has now established dominance over you beta.

Bingo. That was my first thought.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57493 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:28 am to
"Hey, while I have you in my personal space and everything, let me tell you to back to frick off"

Fun fact: Matt Hoffman holds his own forearm when shaking people's hands to prevent anyone from pulling his elbow out of socket. He's done so much damage to his arm over the years that it can be pulled out just from the slightest bit of strain
This post was edited on 11/30/15 at 6:31 am
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17222 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:47 am to
quote:

Fun fact: Matt Hoffman holds his own forearm when shaking people's hands to prevent anyone from pulling his elbow out of socket



Fun fact: I have no idea who Matt Hoffman is
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30580 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:50 am to
I bet he'll give you a raise if
you show him your stink hole
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
57493 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:25 am to
You should take some time and read up on him, he's the man
Posted by Python
Member since May 2008
6286 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:40 am to
quote:

he's the man

Then why don't we know who he is?
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134865 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:40 am to
You should start moaning and groaning when he does it to you. Say stuff like "oh my God, that's the spot" and "oh yeah, don't stop". Say it loud and in a very sexual way and see how he reacts.
Posted by tigerpawl
Can't get there from here.
Member since Dec 2003
22318 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:45 am to
quote:

You should start moaning and groaning when he does it to you. Say stuff like "oh my God, that's the spot" and "oh yeah, don't stop". Say it loud and in a very sexual way and see how he reacts.

I have my limits.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
28900 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:52 am to
Posted by Spilled Milk
Member since Mar 2015
1075 posts
Posted on 11/30/15 at 8:04 am to
Send him my way, I enjoy a good back rub...I don't care who it comes from
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