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re: So I'm suppose to help a woman move UPDATED #6
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:38 pm to Langland
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:38 pm to Langland
Been there. Done that. One sex ain’t worth it.
If she is really a friend the tell her exactly when you are available. Like “ Wednesday from 5-9”.
If she says ok do exactly that.
If she tries to change that, let HER figure something else out.
If she is really a friend the tell her exactly when you are available. Like “ Wednesday from 5-9”.
If she says ok do exactly that.
If she tries to change that, let HER figure something else out.
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Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:39 pm to Rosenblatt
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Do you want to bang her?
I have fantasized about it over the years, but in reality no. Talking to her is exhausting. I like to minimized my time with her. She's the type of person where most jokes go over her head. She smart but she's kind of stupid smart if you know what I mean. She older now, but she dresses really well and not bad looking. Most guys would hit it. Probably the most I'd get out of her is a handjob, but I don't think she would handle it well mentally, because she would feel very, very guilty about it. I'm pretty sure something happened to her sexually a while back and it took her a very long time to get over it. She has a religious vibe that's almost a turn off. We're both Christians but she took it to another level when she was going thru her shite.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:41 pm to Langland
She has both her parents and both of your parents to help.
If I’m going I’m dragging her pop, yours as well.
If I’m going I’m dragging her pop, yours as well.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:42 pm to Saint Alfonzo
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Ghost her. Problem solved.
I did, but my parents haven't. I removed her from my contacts, but she still has my number, and if I don't reply she will contact me thru my parents.
This is why I feel I may need to get real with her so she knows I'm not her personal moving service.
This post was edited on 7/14/19 at 8:44 pm
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:42 pm to Sentrius
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Text her "Sorry, but just in case you misread this, I'm not available tomorrow, Wednesday through Friday is when I'll be available. If that's not soon enough for you, here's the number for two guys and a truck, I hear they're quite capable".
Yep. Except you really should actually respond. This passive aggressive waffling waiting hours to give a simple response is also pretty beta.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:43 pm to FightnBobLafollette
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She has both her parents and both of your parents to help.
If I’m going I’m dragging her pop, yours as well.
Her parents live out out of state and my parents are too old.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:43 pm to Langland
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We're both Christians but she took it to another level when she was going thru her shite.
You’re going to royally frick this golden opportunity up.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:45 pm to Volvagia
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two guys and a truck, I hear they're quite capable".
My experience with them was pretty awful.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:45 pm to Impotent Waffle
quote:maybe you should have given them a handy
My experience with them was pretty awful.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:46 pm to Langland
I'm a little baffled by this
I mean, you committed to a time frame and she gave you a different one.
"Sorry, I don't free up until Wednesday at (narrow time frame). Could also do (another narrow time frame within your original window)."
Then close the door on next week. Give her no where to go and don't make this mistake again.
I mean, you committed to a time frame and she gave you a different one.
"Sorry, I don't free up until Wednesday at (narrow time frame). Could also do (another narrow time frame within your original window)."
Then close the door on next week. Give her no where to go and don't make this mistake again.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:49 pm to Langland
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Her parents live out out of state and my parents are too old.
Your pop is there to supervise. ;)
If I’m intuiting correctly, you don’t want to cause friction w your parents, and hers (mostly yours).
Between all 5 of you it shouldn’t be hard to find 2 day labors. Hundred solves your problem.
38 is WAY to old to be asking people for help that aren’t super close.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:49 pm to Langland
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if I don't reply she will contact me thru my parents.
That's why you need to tell your parents, straight up, that you don't like feeling obligated to help her because of their friendship with her.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:51 pm to Langland
Are you 14 bro?
I'm really not understanding why you even feel obligated/want to be this woman's free labor especially when shes using you and obviously has no respect for your time.
There is great power in saying no.
I'm really not understanding why you even feel obligated/want to be this woman's free labor especially when shes using you and obviously has no respect for your time.
There is great power in saying no.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:57 pm to Langland
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I have fantasized about it over the years, but in reality no. Talking to her is exhausting. I like to minimized my time with her. She's the type of person where most jokes go over her head. She smart but she's kind of stupid smart if you know what I mean. She older now, but she dresses really well and not bad looking. Most guys would hit it. Probably the most I'd get out of her is a handjob, but I don't think she would handle it well mentally, because she would feel very, very guilty about it. I'm pretty sure something happened to her sexually a while back and it took her a very long time to get over it. She has a religious vibe that's almost a turn off. We're both Christians but she took it to another level when she was going thru her shite.
This little bit just convinced me you’re a huge, and I mean gigantic, poonaner baw. Just go ahead and help her move.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:58 pm to Langland
How’s her head game?
Posted on 7/14/19 at 8:59 pm to GoodOlBaw
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really not understanding why you even feel obligated/
Because it is a family/parents friend.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 9:01 pm to FightnBobLafollette
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Because it is a family/parents friend.
Who cares, he gave her his availability. If that doesn’t fit her needs then she can get fricked imo. This guy obviously is a massive pussy if he can’t figure this out on his own and comes here seeking guidance
Posted on 7/14/19 at 9:03 pm to LSU-MNCBABY
Imagine being an adult feeling obligated to help another adult (you’re not directly related to) move
Posted on 7/14/19 at 9:04 pm to FightnBobLafollette
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Because it is a family/parents friend.
My parent's friends arent constantly texting me to do their shite for them and not respecting my time. Know why? Cause I'd tell them to frick off unlike the OP.
Posted on 7/14/19 at 9:07 pm to Langland
I'll take your man card now
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