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Sibling day spinoff thread: anyone have a sibling they don't speak to?

Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:06 pm
Posted by CenlaMikePA
Member since Jul 2009
1027 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:06 pm
I have one sister who hasn't spoken to any of her family in 4 years. She was married to a guy for 12 years, they divorce and she marries a chick. Ok whatever. I personally don't agree with it but still love her. As time goes on she gets more distant until now she won't answer the phone and sends gifts back. She has a daughter, my niece, that has been cut off from us too.

Sorry for the family drama rant. Anyone else with similar drama?
Posted by poncho villa
DALLAS
Member since Jul 2010
17703 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:07 pm to
Pics of sister?
Posted by Tuscaloosa
11x Award Winning SECRant user
Member since Dec 2011
46613 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:08 pm to
A couple of my sisters are dead. So, yeah.
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
3745 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:09 pm to
Damn dude that's sad. I hope that somehow in the future y'all can come together and heal no matter the issue. Best of luck to you and your family
Posted by Uncle Stu
#AlbinoLivesMatter
Member since Aug 2004
33659 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:11 pm to
I have a much older half-brother that's still into scientology. my folks bailed and he disconnected a long long long time ago
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:14 pm to
quote:

I personally don't agree with it but still love her.


If you love her then pick up the phone and reach out.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48847 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:15 pm to
Pics of sisters wife?
Posted by ldts
Member since Aug 2015
2677 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:17 pm to
Have two I don't speak to. Haven't talked to my sister in almost 10 years. It's been about 3 since I've talked to my brother.
Posted by ABearsFanNMS
Formerly of tLandmass now in Texas
Member since Oct 2014
17462 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:23 pm to
I don't talk to my older brother. He is real condescending and borderline narcissistic. He was the brainiac who scored a 34 on the ACT while I was the jock black sheep of the family to score a 29. He went to Boston U and became a super liberal while I went to The Citadel and earned a Marine NROTC scholarship. I tried for years to build a relationship and every phone call was about him, his wife, his kids or his opinions on things. Never inquiring how me or my family was doing. So I finally said enough is enough and if he ever wants a relationship he would have make a move. That was 5 or 6 years ago and we haven't talked since.
Posted by DownSouthCrawfish
Simcoe Strip - He/Him/Helicopter
Member since Oct 2011
36363 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 10:57 pm to
Don't talk to my younger sister much outside of Thanksgiving/Xmas. She's one of those weird, socially awkward, completely obsessed with anime types. Kinda sucks tbh.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 11:00 pm to
Older sister I haven't spoken to since 1993. Bitch is bat shite crazy. No loss, no regrets.
This post was edited on 4/10/17 at 11:01 pm
Posted by MaHittaMaHitta
Member since May 2014
3182 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 11:06 pm to
I have a brother who doesn't speak to the family. He lives in the same small city too. He despises my mom for some reason. Lot of anger problems so I stay away too. Prob talked to him once in the past 3 years. I'm 25 and he is 27.
This post was edited on 4/10/17 at 11:08 pm
Posted by jlntiger
Member since Feb 2011
1440 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 11:13 pm to
I don't speak to one of my siblings. I won't go into details but they still speak to my parents just not the other siblings. I don't think this will change anytime soon.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 4/10/17 at 11:56 pm to
SO has two shite brothers. She was the primary caregiver for her parents with almost no help. When it's time to divide up the sizable estate, they come swooping in wit their lawyers. She is not on speaking terms with them and may never be. I dint blame her.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:01 am to
i have 3 siblings. I have a 26 year old brother, a 16 year old sister and a 17 year old brother. The sister is my full sister, the two brothers are half brothers.

I talk to my sissy damn near daily that's my pride and joy both her dad and our mom are in their 50's and i'm 33 so i'm like the one she turns to for advice and shite


I have not talked to the the oldest brother since.... he graduated from high school in 2008. my dad had an affiar with his mom when he was married to my mom so he is the reason my parents split and while that's not his fault that's just how i see him.

the 17 year old brother i've never seen him or talked to him. wouldn't know what he looked like if i saw him though i'm pretty sure like me. i actually pl.an to go back home for his graduation i have nothing against him i was grown when he was born and left the state. my dad and i aren't that close and really don't keep in touch so i never have been able to get ahold of him.
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
13139 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:24 am to
Damn. Read every post. What a bunch of sad shite.

I think family members should be close but I have a brother that I pretty much dont have any relationship with. Ive tried but hes got some kind of unknown issue with me that no one in the family can figure out and getting his opinion on anything is squeezing turnips but if he ever has any kids(my niece/nephew) I WILL have a relationship with them and he can go frick himself if he wants to act weird about it..
Posted by vidtiger23
Member since Feb 2012
4773 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:28 am to
This is sad. I come from a very close family. It's weird if my and sister and I go a few weeks without hearing from each other. Hope it works out for y'all.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:34 am to
quote:

I have a brother who doesn't speak to the family. He lives in the same small city too. He despises my mom for some reason. Lot of anger problems so I stay away too. Prob talked to him once in the past 3 years. I'm 25 and he is 27.
is he the oldest?

i'm the oldest and i can vouch there is always some shite wiht the oldest child. I love my mom to death and we get along now but we are better off as far apart from each other as we can be. she did some shite i will never forgive her. we are on speaking terms today and she's about to have her first grandchild but there were years we didn't say a word to each other.

it tooks years for me to come to terms that she was just doing the best she could at the time with what god gave her.
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 12:35 am
Posted by PhilipMarlowe
Member since Mar 2013
20499 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:50 am to
quote:

I personally don't agree with it


I have a feeling it's been made clear to her that you and other members of your family "don't agree with it" so she probably said frick all y'all and has decided to live her life without the drama. Is she a good person? Has she tried to raise her child right? Does she love her partner, and are they good to each other? If so I say embrace her, Honestly what else is there?

Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5700 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 12:55 am to
No, but my two siblings don't speak to each other, and haven't in years.
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