re: Serious Question. I need help

Find out what she needs and go get it for her. Don't give cash if she's still using.

Just remember that your gift can't have strings attached...she is not suddenly going to change and start making smart decisions (even though you really want her to).

Yeah, $1,000 plus some Walmart gift cards. (But let her know that Walmart is out of Christmas candy. No reason for her to search needlessly.)

Cash is just going to her habit. Idk dude. She's your sister but she sounds like a lost cause. Give her some gift cards and just hope for the best.

I honestly wouldn't do gift cards either, I'd call her up and offer to buy her a new bed or something specific.

Was she renting or own a house? If she owned she should of had insurance right?

Does she still do drugs? While gift cards are a good idea and much better than cash, there's still plenty of ways to turn them into cash. If you buy her something specific like a bed she needs at least she'll have to think real hard about having to sleep on the floor.

Maybe this will be an opportunity for her to realize how real sit can get, offer her rehab n then help her after.

I think I would buy her stuff to replace what was burned, not just give money, especially if she's still using/not responsible with money. Surely she had some kind of insurance that will help out with possessions and contents of the house? Good luck- I have an estranged sister and another sister who died 5 years ago- needless to say, the family dynamic is less than perfect these days. :Merrychristmas:

Go out and do gift cards and let her stay with you for a little bit. Do whatever you can to help her out my dude

Has she reached out to you? Did she own the house, she should have insurance?

You could reach out to her and see if she needs anything.