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re: Parents of the OT: Did you tell your kids the truth about Santa and if so, at what age?

Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:58 pm to
Posted by Quintona
Member since Mar 2019
739 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:58 pm to
Same. I"ll take it further and add that our kids never believe in the tooth fairy, or easter bunny either but that doesn't mean we don't do something around both events w/o inserting mythical content though.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 5:00 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48835 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:59 pm to
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Welp it didn't go as planned....he wasn't ready and started crying. It was like I destroyed part of his innocence that day. Nervously, I blurted out "but the Easter bunny is still real." Don't think he believed me.

My dad told me when I was very young, way younger than your son. It pisses my mom off to this day
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48954 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:02 pm to
Same. I do treats for all my nieces and nephews also. Just like birthdays. Fun without creatures sneaking in your house
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
31980 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:04 pm to
Those of you who never let your kids believe in Santa, was it for religious reasons?
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3756 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:07 pm to
No, I simply wanted to tell my kids the truth. I’m very Catholic and my wife is atheist and we agreed on this matter 100%.
Posted by TidenUP
Dauphin Island
Member since Apr 2011
14448 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:07 pm to
My daughter(now 12) came home from school in the 4th grade and asked me straight up about it. She said other kids in school were telling her there was no Santa. I told her the truth about it and I think it took away some of her joy at Christmastime.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:07 pm to
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Did you tell your kids the truth about Santa

What truth about Santa?!
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7689 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:11 pm to
They figure it out
Posted by TidenUP
Dauphin Island
Member since Apr 2011
14448 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:12 pm to
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We are just gonna let them believe as long as possible


This. Let them be kids as long as possible. Real life sucks enough when they grow up so let kids be kids as long as possible.
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
8043 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:14 pm to
Just did this.

My 11 year old (10 at the time) looked me in the face and straight up asked if he was real. I could not lie.

She took it pretty well.

She helps us do Santa for the 5 yr old now.
Posted by ragincajun77
Member since Jul 2019
911 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:17 pm to
He may have been in 4th grade, idk, but yeah I regret it now. I was a new parent at the time.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7193 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:27 pm to
My kids are college and high school age and very clearly know better but my wife refuses to say it out loud. I think my oldest wishes she still didn't know
Posted by Lago Gato
Member since Dec 2018
2023 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:31 pm to
So my wife did the letter from Santa where he answers a bunch of questions that only you would know. He was around 7-8 . I told her he was acting concerned that he wasn’t real . Well she kept up the you have to believe stuff .

One day he basically corners me and says look Dad is he real or not . You’ve always told me never lie and on and on . I had to tell the truth . He looked at me and said I guess no rabbit or fairy either . He was pissed and so was my wife . Sheesh
Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
51850 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 5:52 pm to
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How does that game even work?


You convince your kid that a stuffed elf that doesn't move watches them all day and then flies back to the north pole every night after they go to sleep. Then you have to remember to move the stupid thing to a diffrent place each night before they wake up so it seems like it's not just a stupid stuffed elf. And when you forget to move the stupid stuffed elf, you have to lie to your kid on why. Great idea.
Posted by Zip Monkey
Member since Nov 2019
1101 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 6:24 pm to
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No they do not at 5 -7. That is like the literal peak Santa stage.

Now that I think back. Mine started question about 7. By 8 the jig was up.

"Daddy, this is what I want for Christmas."

I think the first sentence she ever put together as a toddler was, 'Daddy, I want..."
Posted by Hasbeenneverwas
Prairieville
Member since Sep 2019
284 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 7:20 pm to
Wait, what truth about Santa?
Posted by Zip Monkey
Member since Nov 2019
1101 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 7:36 pm to
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Wait, what truth about Santa?

He doesn't really live at the North Pole.

He said screw all that ice. Has a nice place down in Costa Rica these days.
Posted by PhilipMarlowe
Member since Mar 2013
20552 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 8:28 pm to
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21, 19, 5


What was your reaction when you found out about this one?
Posted by red sox fan 13
Valley Park
Member since Aug 2018
15358 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 8:48 pm to
I think I figured it out around 10. It takes away some Christmas spirit, but I was the oldest child so I thought hell yeah I’ll keep “believing” for as long as I can. All about racking up those presents.
Posted by ArchiTiger
Member since Jan 2004
640 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 8:49 pm to
Dang, Camden...I though I was the only one with that kind of spread! Mine are 20,18,13,5.

The oldest two just kind of figured it out and didn’t see it as lying to them. They understood the magic that the believing brought them and wish they could go back to not knowing. We didn’t have any sit down conversations...it just kind of evolved, I guess. I have a STRONG feeling the 13 year old also knows, but she isn’t saying and my wife probably isn’t ready for her to know. Everyone plays along for the 5 year olds sake.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 9:12 pm
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