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re: OTs response would be...
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:20 pm to CAT
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:20 pm to CAT
Perhaps OP should just circumvent the lady here and contact the other people directly. Tell the others that a burial policy is in place that should be utilized for the funeral. If they want to help their mom out with a loan for home repairs, that is on them. They can contact the OP if the policy does not cover all of the burial expenses.
This woman did not raise him, they were not even "close" until the very end, and she wants to take his money to presumably sell a house and move closer to her kids.
Yeah....he does not owe squat at this time.
This woman did not raise him, they were not even "close" until the very end, and she wants to take his money to presumably sell a house and move closer to her kids.
Yeah....he does not owe squat at this time.
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Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:23 pm to BamaScoop
quote:this.when loved ones pass away,it always makes the shitters of the family reveal their true colors.
She is asking children to bury their father so she can fix her house up. To me that is about as selfish as anything I have ever heard in my life.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:24 pm to BamaScoop
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Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:27 pm to CAT
Is it illegal to cremate deceased loved ones yourself or just generally frowned upon?
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:29 pm to CAT
Tell her sure. Then ask to "borrow" some money from the insurance money for your new car. She will understand.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:29 pm to Rouge
quote:
Perhaps OP should just circumvent the lady here and contact the other people directly. Tell the others that a burial policy is in place that should be utilized for the funeral. If they want to help their mom out with a loan for home repairs, that is on them. They can contact the OP if the policy does not cover all of the burial expenses.
This woman did not raise him, they were not even "close" until the very end, and she wants to take his money to presumably sell a house and move closer to her kids.
Yeah....he does not owe squat at this time.
Whatever you do, don't listen to this guy.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:37 pm to ManBearTiger
quote:
Is it illegal to cremate deceased loved ones yourself or just generally frowned upon?
Bro…seriously!
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:42 pm to CAT
Sorry for your loss, and I'm to cynical to answer the question, goid luck.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:43 pm to 13SaintTiger
quote:why not? i spelled out the facts as they were presented here by the OP
Whatever you do, don't listen to this guy.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:46 pm to CAT
Just lost my Pops yesterday as well. His funeral is on Saturday as well.
Sorry you are being put through this bullshite.
Sorry you are being put through this bullshite.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 12:49 pm to SUB
Don't give her a dime. Honor what you think your father would have wanted. Use that money on your own family.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 4:59 pm to meauxjeaux2
quote:
Just lost my Pops yesterday as well. His funeral is on Saturday as well.
Same to you
Posted on 12/9/15 at 5:11 pm to CAT
Sorry for your loss.
Is putting thousands more into a cardboard box really going to improve anything?
Is putting thousands more into a cardboard box really going to improve anything?
Posted on 12/9/15 at 5:42 pm to CAT
My BIL and I paid for my FIL funeral. Where weren't asked but insisted since my MIL is such a great person.
I don't think you should pay a dime toward this. It doesn't sound like your step mom is still related to you especially considering that ballsy request to help pay final expenses.
Sorry about your dad.
I don't think you should pay a dime toward this. It doesn't sound like your step mom is still related to you especially considering that ballsy request to help pay final expenses.
Sorry about your dad.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 5:44 pm to CAT
quote:there ya go
They got the small policy to take care of things if/when he passed.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 5:53 pm to CAT
Sorry for your loss.
They've been married for 20 years. How close are the two of you? What would your dad have said in this situation? And do you have the disposable income to help and not worry about it?
Probably the three most important questions. If I wasn't close with her, but I knew my dad would have wanted me to help out and I had the income to, I probably would.
Also, aren't most funeral expenses paid out of the estate tax deductible? Assuming your father had some $ saved up that went to your step mom.
They've been married for 20 years. How close are the two of you? What would your dad have said in this situation? And do you have the disposable income to help and not worry about it?
Probably the three most important questions. If I wasn't close with her, but I knew my dad would have wanted me to help out and I had the income to, I probably would.
Also, aren't most funeral expenses paid out of the estate tax deductible? Assuming your father had some $ saved up that went to your step mom.
Posted on 12/9/15 at 7:24 pm to CAT
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