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re: OT Parents: Best Advice/Things You Wish You Had Known

Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:17 am to
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:17 am to
You linked some nutjob that thinks feeding your kid will develop allergies... FYI.

Look, this new age line of thought about being all sensitive with kids is what is holding them back. I rarely bring my kid to the doctor. He rarely gets sick. Imagine that, his immune system works.

I've had dozens of doctors tell me my kids bmi was too high and he's obese and to put him on a diet. Then he raises his shirt and they see he's got about 7% body fat.

This new age super sensitive mindset is NONSENSE!
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
58310 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:19 am to
Figure out a sleep schedule that works for you.

MrsWafer (no pics) will take care of our little mini Cheez-It at night during the week so my work schedule isn't messed up. I go to work earlier to get home earlier and take care of her in the afternoons. On the weekends she'll wake me up as needed, 1,3,5 am, whatever, and I'll take care of the baby and allow MrsWafer to sleep as much as she can handle.

Works well for us, just find what works well for you.

And it works bc my wife is a fricking trooper, and because she said so.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20870 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:24 am to
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What are you afraid would happen using rice to supplement formula at night?


Bad news man.
CNN- Arsenic, rice, and your baby's diet

Or if you want a link to the actual study

quote:

Conclusions and Relevance  Our findings indicate that intake of rice cereal and other rice-containing foods, such as rice snacks, contribute to infants’ Arsenic exposure and suggest that efforts should be made to reduce Arsenic exposure during this critical phase of development.

This cohort study seeks to determine the types and frequency of rice and rice-containing products consumed by infants in the first year of life and the association with arsenic biomarker concentrations.




JAMA Pediatrics
This post was edited on 4/28/16 at 11:29 am
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28423 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:28 am to
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You linked some nutjob that thinks feeding your kid will develop allergies... FYI.


He's a pediatrician. What are your credentials?
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:30 am to
I'm going to be honest with you here. I think there is a purposeful distortion of the truth for profit going on here.

Did you notice one of the keywords? Inorganic? Billions, tens of billions of children have grown up on a rice diet. If people across the world aren't dying of rice cancer yet, I think we'll be alright.

I wouldn't be surprised if behind the scenes a billionaire paid a public relations company to research the flaws and to distribute these flaws as news for a competing product.

I bet if you had true access your find that whoever funded this research has a vested interest in a competing product. It's virtually guaranteed.
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7649 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:30 am to
You won't necessarily form an instant bond with your baby. It can take some time. Don't be discouraged, give it a week or two, maybe even a month.
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:32 am to
I slept at a holiday inn. Look just because someone has a piece of paper saying they are smart doesn't mean they are right.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18144 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:33 am to
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your wife has boobs and unless she just has serious issues (mastitis) with it, you save a lot of money breastfeeding




and the poops dont smell NEARLY as bad
Posted by foreverLSU
Member since Mar 2006
17060 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:33 am to
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Ignore all the "expert moms" that'll tell you everything they think you should know about vaccinations, co-sleeping, not letting your baby cry, car seats, breastfeeding, etc. They all think they are experts because they follow a moms blog or read an article. Listen to your pediatrician, talk with your significant other, and do what y'all think is best for your child.


I think this should be the first commandment in parenting. The only book I've read so far is "What to Expect When You're Expecting", and I did utilize some mom blogs for registry advice and various product reviews. But I agree with you 100%.
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28423 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:33 am to
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I've had dozens of doctors tell me my kids bmi was too high and he's obese and to put him on a diet. Then he raises his shirt and they see he's got about 7% body fat.


quote:

Prior research has shown that even low levels of arsenic exposure can impact a baby's neurodevelopment. A 2004 study looked at children in Bangladesh who were exposed to arsenic in drinking water, and it found that they scored significantly lower on intellectual tests. A meta-analysis of studies on the topic found that a 50% increase in arsenic levels in urine would be associated with a 0.4-point decrease in the IQ of children between the ages of 5 and 15.

Congrats on your muscular baby, but maybe you should be more concerned about his IQ than feeding him rice cereal that won't even accomplish what you think it does.
Posted by TeddyPadillac
Member since Dec 2010
25455 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:34 am to
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I've had dozens of doctors tell me my kids bmi was too high and he's obese and to put him on a diet. Then he raises his shirt and they see he's got about 7% body fat.



Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:35 am to
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Salmon


Totally. I give sleep sacks to every friend that is a new parent. Game changer.
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:36 am to
Reading at 250 wpm in second grade thanks for asking. Cries if he can't go to the library.

Now did you read your own quote? They take arsonic present in Bangladesh drinking water hurting their kids and compare it to rice. Talk about a stretch.
This post was edited on 4/28/16 at 11:37 am
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28423 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:36 am to
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Look just because someone has a piece of paper saying they are smart doesn't mean they are right

That paper says "medical doctor," which means he knows way more about children than you ever will. Wake the frick up man
Posted by Traveler
I'm not late-I'm early for tomorrow
Member since Sep 2003
24255 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:36 am to
If it hasn't been said yet, love them everyday, cause they do grow up too fast (except when they are two!).
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
77947 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:36 am to
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What advice would you give to OTers becoming parents for the first time?


please educate yourself about circumcision before you decide to lop of your newborn's penis.

just because some jewish mystics have everyone convinced this is normal doesn't mean it is.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20870 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:36 am to
quote:

I'm going to be honest with you here. I think there is a purposeful distortion of the truth for profit going on here.

Did you notice one of the keywords? Inorganic? Billions, tens of billions of children have grown up on a rice diet. If people across the world aren't dying of rice cancer yet, I think we'll be alright.

I wouldn't be surprised if behind the scenes a billionaire paid a public relations company to research the flaws and to distribute these flaws as news for a competing product.

I bet if you had true access your find that whoever funded this research has a vested interest in a competing product. It's virtually guaranteed.


Tens of millions thought asbestos, DDT, and cigarettes were fine and healthy as well. How are they faring?

I don't care who pays for the research- if it's good science, you can't argue with that.

Is there a certain portion of the study you disagree with? Or how they compiled their results? Or the conclusions they reached?

It sounds like you don't really have a good reason to doubt these results to be honest here.
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:38 am to
It's simple. The truth usually is. If rice was so bad for you, why is it the staple diet of most of the globe?

ETA sounds like the true problem in theory would be rice grown in arsenic contaminated water... That's reasonable
This post was edited on 4/28/16 at 11:39 am
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
77947 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:39 am to


goddamn a whole lotta angst up in here.

as the proud parent of a new 16mo boy, i can tell you the wife breastfed and we went right into feeding him table scraps and shite and he's extremely healthy.

i skipped the gerber shite this time around..kid will be fine with oscar meyer hot dogs and progresso soup. quit feeding him fricking soy and vegan organic crap.

all you'll do is create problems.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 4/28/16 at 11:40 am to
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Reading at 250 wpm in second grade thanks for asking. Cries if he can't go to the library.


Congrats on the nerd.
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