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re: No-win family situations

Posted on 12/8/14 at 7:20 am to
Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 12/8/14 at 7:20 am to
Mama knows that girls are Devils who use their vaginas to control mama's baby boy.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 12/8/14 at 7:21 am to
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fwiw, I always keep in mind that no one in the world does more for you than your mom over the course of a lifetime....mom was there before the girlfriend came around and mom will be there after the girlfriend is gone...



You're either not married, or won't be for long if you already are.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 7:45 am to
Tell us what the argument between them is about so all of these morons can stop the dumb arguments about mother/wife.

If your wife is truly wrong, and you don't tell her that, then you are a fricking pussy. And vice versa if it's your mother who's wrong. Be a man
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5556 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:21 am to
Your wife is family you picked, your mom isn't.

I don't believe in the whole you have to love your parents and family and stuff. If they are good people of course, but if they are arse holes then why waste time?

Best course of action, stay the hell out of it. If anything make your wife and mother act like adults and hash the shite out on their own.

Gun to head, have to take sides. Side with the family you chose.
Posted by seawolf06
NH
Member since Oct 2007
8159 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:24 am to
Always side with the wife. I haven't spoken to my mother in 4 years.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:25 am to
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Gun to head, have to take sides. Side with the family you chose.


Even if they are wrong? You're a weak man. Yes, he chose her but he didn't choose her to be with an idiot who starts fights with someone he loves, like his MOTHER!

If she respected him, she wouldn't be in this position.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
9999 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:27 am to
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I haven't spoken to my mother in 4 years.


Don't worry. She'll still be there for you when your marriage falls apart.
Posted by tippytoes
Member since Dec 2014
11 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:32 am to
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If your wife is truly wrong, and you don't tell her that, then you are a fricking pussy. And vice versa if it's your mother who's wrong. Be a man



Why is this so hard for some guys?
Right is right.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Member since Nov 2010
83929 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:34 am to
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Don't worry. She'll still be there for you when your marriage falls apart.



For some reason, I couldn't help but say, "Awwww!" when I read this.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5556 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:35 am to
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Even if they are wrong? You're a weak man. Yes, he chose her but he didn't choose her to be with an idiot who starts fights with someone he loves, like his MOTHER!

If she respected him, she wouldn't be in this position.


If she respected him she wouldn't have his arse choosing sides now would she?

He never said who started the fight? If his wife did he needs to tell her to handle it her damn self. If his mother started it he needs to tell her to handle it her damn self.

No reason anyone should have to take sides in these situations, any woman that makes you pick sides needs to grow the hell up.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38968 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:38 am to
I'd just call my mom and tell her her chill the frick out and that the issue, whatever it is, is over. I'd never tell the wife I made the call, but I'd tell her I don't want to hear another word about it. That part wouldn't work but hey I'd give it a try.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
22898 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:42 am to
You SHOULD typically side with your wife.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81194 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:43 am to
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These posters advising the OP to side with the mother must not be married.





Siding with Mom is a slippery slope. A man that won't stand up to his mother is a MAJOR red flag. Unless wife is extremely wrong.

quote:

Why don't people ever hear about son/father-in-law issues?



It is UNREAL the amount of people I know with MILs who hate them. 99% of the time, mom started the feud.

I asked my mom about it (being that I have a brother), and she admitted that the feeling of "your baby being taken away by some bitch" is a very real and common feeling for most mothers. It is just knowing not to act on it.

The mothers who I've seen in situations like this are women who are used to getting their way.. usually mothers with no daughters. They've been spoiled by hubby and sons their whole lives.
Posted by TheBoo
South to Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
4498 posts
Posted on 12/8/14 at 8:46 am to
No,

My woman respects me and the fact that it's my mom.
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