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Neuroscience evidence of 4 rituals to happiness

Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:08 am
Posted by tigerskin
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:08 am
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Ask “What am I grateful for?” No answers? Doesn’t matter. Just searching helps.
Label those negative emotions. Give it a name and your brain isn’t so bothered by it.
Decide. Go for “good enough” instead of “best decision ever made on Earth.”
Hugs, hugs, hugs. Don’t text — touch.
This post was edited on 9/23/15 at 9:11 am
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:11 am to
All you need is 1: Drink until you forget why you started drinking. problem solved.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:11 am to
1) The Most Important Question To Ask When You Feel Down

Sometimes it doesn’t feel like your brain wants you to be happy. You may feel guilty or shameful. Why?

Believe it or not, guilt and shame activate the brain’s reward center.


2) Label Negative Feelings

You feel awful. Okay, give that awfulness a name. Sad? Anxious? Angry?

Boom. It’s that simple. Sound stupid? Your noggin disagrees.


3) Make That Decision

Ever make a decision and then your brain finally feels at rest? That’s no random occurrence.

Brain science shows that making decisions reduces worry and anxiety — as well as helping you solve problems.


4) Touch People

No, not indiscriminately; that can get you in a lot of trouble.

But we need to feel love and acceptance from others. When we don’t it’s painful. And I don’t mean “awkward” or “disappointing.” I mean actually painful.

Neuroscientists did a study where people played a ball-tossing video game. The other players tossed the ball to you and you tossed it back to them. Actually, there were no other players; that was all done by the computer program.
Posted by LucasP
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:14 am to
Children waste time being happy. Adults get shite done.
Posted by VetteGuy
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:22 am to
Is this that Common Core crap?
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
40147 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:25 am to
Add "what are you grateful for"'in your number 1. That is the question
Posted by tigerskin
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:26 am to
Oh lawd
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:32 am to
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:43 am to
Texting for info is one thing, but texting for interaction or even intimacy:
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When you put people in a stressful situation and then let them visit loved ones or talk to them on the phone, they felt better. What about when they just texted? Their bodies responded the same as if they had no support at all.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:44 am to
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Decide. Go for “good enough” instead of “best decision ever made on Earth.”


You want mediocrity? Because this is how you get mediocrity.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:45 am to
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Neuroscience


Hocus Pocus
Posted by VetteGuy
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:50 am to
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
40147 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:54 am to
Most perfectionists are unhappy
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:55 am to
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You want mediocrity? Because this is how you get mediocrity.

exactly. people don't understand that anything worth doing is worth doing as perfect as possible. this "good enough" culture is the downfall of society.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:57 am to
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Most perfectionists are unhappy


So are unsuccessful people.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:58 am to
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this "good enough" culture is the downfall of society.
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
40147 posts
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:04 am to
I agree that it is a balance, a tough one at that to achieve both
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