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re: My husband’s best friend proposed to his girlfriend during our wedding ceremony

Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:16 am to
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23378 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:16 am to
Probably fake
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128957 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:17 am to
The only way it is ever acceptable to propose at someone else's wedding.....if the guy told the couple about it wayyy before the wedding date and they were ok with it.


My friend's little brother proposed at her Puerto Vallarta destination wedding(she is from Mexico). Her family is scattered between U.S. and Mexico so this was one of the few times they would all be together. My friend not only knew about it way in advance...she was the one to give him the idea of doing it after her ceremony.
Posted by Rakim
Member since Nov 2015
9954 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:17 am to
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Why wouldnt he tell them ahead of time to see if its okay?




I'm not sure but this "John" fellow seems to have zero self awareness
Posted by Dick Jacket
Member since Nov 2016
1360 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:17 am to
I'm going to guess this wasn't a church wedding. If it was though, how fast can s church switch from wedding to funeral mode? Surely they can cover the ice quickly like the NHL/NBA arenas.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:17 am to
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Probably fair. My best friend is already married, but I couldn't imagine him doing this at any future wedding that I may have even if he wasn't.



Yeah, the only best man that would do this is someone who is unoriginal and doesn't respect your friendship. Or just plain retarded and doesn't understand the situation.
Posted by PrimeTime Money
Houston, Texas, USA
Member since Nov 2012
27305 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:17 am to
$80,000 wedding??? Wtf??
Posted by jangalang
Member since Dec 2014
36455 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:18 am to
The new fiancé would've been picking up his teeth after the reception. It would be different if the bride and groom actively encouraged it, but obviously they were out of the loop
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97632 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:18 am to
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If you have a daughter, you will find out soon enough. Especially if she marries one of the poors.


Poor is expecting the grooms family to pay for anything besides the rehearsal dinner and honeymoon
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22412 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:19 am to
quote:

I have a hard time believing that happened


Especially with the timeline in the OP. So he stepped away mir-vow? People were just talking loudly during the wedding? Nah....
Posted by Rakim
Member since Nov 2015
9954 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:20 am to
Yea this must of been one of those "Days of our Lives" weddings. 80k is alot but not out of the ordinary these days.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:22 am to
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I have a hard time believing that happened.



Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66924 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:23 am to
Yeah that's pretty fricked up but there are tons of self absorbed people so it's not that surprising if true
Posted by Rakim
Member since Nov 2015
9954 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:24 am to
I wish there was a video to prove this happened?
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18902 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:28 am to
My wife's best friend was pissed that her boyfriend hadn't proposed to her yet so he dropped a gold and diamond Rolex on her minutes before our wedding. We were young and poor then so it was a bigger deal than it would be now. She proceeded to flaunt it to everyone at the reception and really pissed off my wife. So, while this story sounds fake, shite like this does happen.
Posted by islandtiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2012
1787 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:29 am to
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If you have a daughter, you will find out soon enough. Especially if she marries one of the poors.


We have six daughters (it's complicated) and although we could afford much more, we have set a $5,000 limit for our contribution to each wedding. Only one is married, and her wedding was one of the best I have ever attended...even made the paper as an example of how weddings don't have to be an arms race. Focus on the purpose not the event...you will not regret it.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:30 am to
I wouldn't be surprised if my views are different on this than many people's, but it just seems incredibly irresponsible the type of money that some people spend on weddings. Unless you come from a wealthy family $80k would go a long way towards establishing yourself and your new marriage, instead of spending it on what is essentially just a big party.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55583 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:31 am to
quote:

If you have a daughter, you will find out soon enough. Especially if she marries one of the poors.

Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68568 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:32 am to
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, we have set a $5,000 limit for our contribution to each wedding.


Seems cheap. You sure they didn't end up spending some of their own money or that the groom's parents didn't chip in with out you knowing?
Posted by LSUtigerME
Walker, LA
Member since Oct 2012
3794 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:32 am to
Seems rude, and considering this is coming from the bride, if true, is likely blown way out of proportion.

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$80,000 wedding??? Wtf??

Have you guys ever experienced a traditional Indian wedding?

Guy I work with said they can get into hundreds of thousand. They are large, last for several days, and may include housing costs of many guests/family.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128957 posts
Posted on 6/4/17 at 10:34 am to
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Seems cheap. You sure they didn't end up spending some of their own money or that the groom's parents didn't chip in with out you knowing?






He said that was just their contribution. Sounds like he is expecting their daughters to help contribute as well.
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