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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:58 am to GEAUXmedic
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:58 am to GEAUXmedic
It's good to forgive. Holding a grudge will only hinder your future happiness.
Forgiveness does not mean trust was not broken or to ignore the facts of what she did.
Forgiveness does not mean trust was not broken or to ignore the facts of what she did.
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:59 am to Merck
Amen brother on that bold type 
That woman I married turned into a self- absorbed, vain, materialistic bitch. She gave me 3 beautiful children and for that I am very thankful but I want nothing to do with the bitch anymore.
That woman I married turned into a self- absorbed, vain, materialistic bitch. She gave me 3 beautiful children and for that I am very thankful but I want nothing to do with the bitch anymore.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:05 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:59 am to GEAUXmedic
You will never get a good enough explanation, because there isn't one. People do shitty things and always justify it as okay, at least while they're doing it. That's how they're able to do it, regardless of who they frick over. You hit the nail on the head. It's pure selfishness. Even telling you (assuming she's now trying to reconcile) is selfish. Telling you does absolutely nothing but relieve her own conscience, and frick you up immensely.
That's part of the reason you still love her, because you haven't been in on it. You've been living in one reality while she lives in another. Now you're living in her reality and trying to get your bearings. Again, it's selfish. You could still be in your reality none the wiser. She could be in hers, dealing with her presumed guilt and remorse on her own. You love her still because this is all so new to you. It's not like you can automatically turn off the love switch. But, you can turn on the frick you switch with rapidity if you choose to.
Bottom line is, it's not fair. You didn't and don't deserve it. Some people can get over it. Some people can't. Nobody else can make that decision for you.
1) Why did she tell you? Is it over with him and she's remorseful, or is she leaving you for him?
2) How long was it going on?
3) Do you want to work it out?
4) How old is the kid?
5) Don't do anything stupid in retaliation
That's part of the reason you still love her, because you haven't been in on it. You've been living in one reality while she lives in another. Now you're living in her reality and trying to get your bearings. Again, it's selfish. You could still be in your reality none the wiser. She could be in hers, dealing with her presumed guilt and remorse on her own. You love her still because this is all so new to you. It's not like you can automatically turn off the love switch. But, you can turn on the frick you switch with rapidity if you choose to.
Bottom line is, it's not fair. You didn't and don't deserve it. Some people can get over it. Some people can't. Nobody else can make that decision for you.
1) Why did she tell you? Is it over with him and she's remorseful, or is she leaving you for him?
2) How long was it going on?
3) Do you want to work it out?
4) How old is the kid?
5) Don't do anything stupid in retaliation
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:01 am to OKellsBells
Bells how the hell you been?
Sorry for the hijack OP
Sorry for the hijack OP
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:02 am to Jackie Chan
quote:
It's good to forgive. Holding a grudge will only hinder your future happiness.
No. He shouldn’t forgive her. What she did was break the sanctity of their relationship and betray the child as well. Just because you won’t forgive someone doesn’t mean you have to hold a grudge. She broke something sacred that can never be repaired and he should merely treat her as a friendly acquaintance who are mutually important to their daughter’s life.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:02 am to GEAUXmedic
Send her a card.No description.
Just write the words “Thank You”
Just write the words “Thank You”
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:04 am to FLBooGoTigs1
quote:
Bells how the hell you been?
Dude.
Don't be hitting on chicks in the mans "My fiancee cheated on me" thread.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:05 am to GEAUXmedic
All I can tell you is hire a good lawyer. She WILL come after you and attempt to paint you in the most negative light possible. Nothing is off limits. Prepare yourself.
ETA:
This is assuming you’re going to do what’s right and leave her sorry arse.
ETA:
This is assuming you’re going to do what’s right and leave her sorry arse.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:07 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:07 am to Jackie Chan
quote:
s good to forgive. Holding a grudge will only hinder your future happiness.
Said no Italian. Ever.
I told my wife, I've got a short dick and a long memory.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:14 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:10 am to reverendotis
give her a big frick you, easier then said over love but frick her
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:11 am to GEAUXmedic
Sucks man, but it's way less complicated than my buddy has it right now. Married, 2 kids, including a 18 month old.
I guess you'll have to decide to what degree you want that woman in your life. Kid has to come first. I'd definitely look out for myself second. Shitty situation. Godspeed, dude.
I guess you'll have to decide to what degree you want that woman in your life. Kid has to come first. I'd definitely look out for myself second. Shitty situation. Godspeed, dude.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:15 am to Rebel
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:15 am to GEAUXmedic
These hoes ain't loyal
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:17 am to reverendotis
quote:
I got a short dick
Motherfricker this is the OT a short dick better be 7-8 inches.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:21 am to FLBooGoTigs1
The OP hasn't posted since dropping this bomb on the OT. I hope he's ok.
I depend on him during inclement weather.
I depend on him during inclement weather.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:21 am to FLBooGoTigs1
quote:
better be 7-8 inches.
Yeah, when it's cold maybe.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:22 am to GEAUXmedic
Time to move on or you'll be heading down a path of self-destruction.
You definitely deserve better, and your daughter does as well. Just be happy you didn't marry her.
You definitely deserve better, and your daughter does as well. Just be happy you didn't marry her.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to GEAUXmedic
Been there man. I felt I had to not let her feel like the dirty whore she was but part of me died letting it slide. Didn't work out but learned a lot.
Do what's best for your daughter, Medic. Hold your head high and remember your brothers on the OT got ya. We all clown each other but this is our outlet.
Do what's best for your daughter, Medic. Hold your head high and remember your brothers on the OT got ya. We all clown each other but this is our outlet.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:23 am to reverendotis
It took a bit but I read all of your advice and honest words. I know I'm an a-hole here but I mean, you come here so much you all feel comfortable to talk to and shite.. so thanks.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:25 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:Thank you. In advance. For the pics. That you still haven't posted.
so thanks.
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