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re: Men vs women on How much should a date cost

Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:43 am to
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:43 am to
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Results showed that men have higher expectations, believing that good dates cost about $220, while the average woman believes a good date costs $170.


I think many women have zero clue what something costs
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
18487 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:45 am to
Both are outrageous. If you can’t take a girl out and have a nice time for $100 or less, someone has a problem.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90787 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:50 am to
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usually spend about 100-150 an hour


What do yall do the other 58 minutes?
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
19620 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:51 am to
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maybe after a couple of dates...but first date...no way. Now this was an NYP article so maybe up there that is common I dunno.


Good restaurants in NY Metro tend to be expensive so that's not so much for here.
Posted by chrome_daddy
LA (Lower Ashvegas)
Member since May 2004
2076 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:51 am to
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This is not realistic and most girls would find it weird. Going to a restaurant for drinks then end up ordering food is typical
Same for my wife's single friends.

And that's why they'll most likely still end up single. Guys these days are onto this entitlement crap and are checking out. The trends/stats show that people are becoming single and remaining single more and more all the time. No wonder.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19373 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:52 am to
For $220.00 you could get a hooker from back page, nut and tell her to get the Fuuk out.




and she wont ever get mad
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124444 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:55 am to
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What woman in 2023 with every true crime show out there….is going to a man’s house on a first date??


It's been quite a while since I've been in the dating world, but I see your point,

Back in the teens I can remember it working well. Not much different than meeting someone out at a bar and taking them home.

Was it smart? Probably not. But I didn't axe murder a single one of them.

Didn't hurt that I had a full bar at the house either. Made deciding to retire there easier.

I just don't care for going out because I can cook better for a fraction of the price on a lot of things and enjoy the experience. I didn't care but it was always an option after the first meet up and usually happened.
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3370 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:56 am to
I went on a date recently and dinner with a few drinks each cost $160. If you have after dinner drinks, I can see you spending upward to $220 for a night out.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68384 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:57 am to
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Results showed that men have higher expectations, believing that good dates cost about $220, while the average woman believes a good date costs $170.
Damn, the prices of Taco Bell and Blockbuster have really gone up since I was dating.
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
25067 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:58 am to
I’m sorry, but $170+ on a date is what we reserve for a special occasions. Happily my SO and I agree on this topic.

I’m not paying anywhere near that on a first date. People have lost their minds
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129036 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:59 am to
Most women I know that are currently single and dating have no issues with coffee dates. I will likely start dating again next month and will be fine with coffee dates.

The whole point of the coffee date is so you can see if you click with the person. If you don’t….date is over. If you do, then you can continue the date and go do something else together. Go out to eat, walk around a park, whatever.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112699 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:01 pm to
I can’t tell if broke Reddit losers have infiltrated this site or we have people who consider Texas Roadhouse as nice

Decent Tex mex dinner + drinks is $100 after tip let alone something nice
This post was edited on 12/6/23 at 12:03 pm
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
19620 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:02 pm to
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dating apps.
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All three wouldn't consider anyone who wanted to meet over coffee
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attractive, single and middle aged.



They mostly attract men who are a decade older than they are, but they won't consider anyone cheap.

It's kind of an interesting cycle. They find a good prospective companion and after a few dates they have to find out if the ding-dong still works. That's important too. Two are now married, but one has a very demanding set of requirements and has given up. They are all successful in their own right and have their own businesses so they aren't wall flowers.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99223 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:09 pm to
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I can’t tell if broke Reddit losers have infiltrated this site or we have people who consider Texas Roadhouse as nice

Decent Tex mex dinner + drinks is $100 after tip let alone something nice


The survey is saying they're spending $189+ every time they go out on a date.

I think most people would consider $100 or more for a nice dinner. But I would think some more casual stuff, like grabbing coffee or lunch, would be in there as well for less than $189 an outing.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71298 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:11 pm to
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Results showed that men have higher expectations, believing that good dates cost about $220, while the average woman believes a good date costs $170.


Brandonflation is out of control.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6053 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:19 pm to
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she isn't an axe murderer, and then back to the house for cooking together, some wine and a movie?


Usually it's the men that are ax murderers.

No woman should go to the home of a man or take home a man that she just met. Totally not safe.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31365 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:26 pm to
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Agree with this. Every date? No way. But the first one is going to cost you


i get this sentiment and maybe its because im out of the dating world for last 17 years but... i mean if you go on 2-3 dates a week... that shite adds up.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
956 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:34 pm to
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I can’t tell if broke Reddit losers have infiltrated this site or we have people who consider Texas Roadhouse as nice


It’s been infiltrated by people who have common sense. Read the article, people are spending this money on every single date on average.

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The average person has gone on $3,025.12 worth of dates within the past year, according to new research.


Obviously that includes first dates. If you take every first date to a $200 dinner then you will end up as a broke loser. Law of averages says that most of those women aren’t anywhere near worth the expenditure.
This post was edited on 12/6/23 at 12:35 pm
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6053 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:35 pm to
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Three of my wife's friends used the dating apps. All three wouldn't consider anyone who wanted to meet over coffee and such. All three were attractive, single and middle aged.



Most of my friends that have done dating apps would meet for either coffee or more likely, drinks. They wouldn't plan on it being a big "date" on the first date. It's a meet each other and decide if it want a real date.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55788 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:37 pm to
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I can’t tell if broke Reddit losers have infiltrated this site or we have people who consider Texas Roadhouse as nice
the demographics have absolutely changed

ETA- also why is everyone skipping over the “good date” part? That’s pretty important

And “date” needs to be defined. A married/cohabiting couple getting texmex for lunch on a Saturday is not a “date” in my mind
This post was edited on 12/6/23 at 12:42 pm
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