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re: Marrying a woman who has cheated before
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:11 pm to Displaced
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:11 pm to Displaced
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i have. it sucks. i could never do that to a person i cared even the slightest amount about.
i really have no respect for cheaters and, to the topic, would never again date one, let alone marry one.
Its not like I go around telling people I cheated once on a girl that was a 3 month college fling, who also cheated on me. Neither of us cared when we found out
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Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:12 pm to saintkenn
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She's been running around telling lies, saying I cheated on her and that's why we're getting divorced, meanwhile, she's stolen pills from her father and at least 3 coworkers.
And I can garuntee you she's been banging her dealer for drugs too. That what my addict ex did.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:14 pm to Beau Tie
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I'd have to have GPS and tracking of her phone to feel secure and I wouldn't want to do that. Still no trust but at least the ability to check I guess.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:15 pm to Beau Tie
Depends. What were the circumstances that led to the cheating? If it was retaliatory cheating then I think it can be excused. If she initiated the cheating, absolutely not.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:15 pm to Displaced
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i have. it sucks. i could never do that to a person i cared even the slightest amount about.
Grow up. Cheating is not some personal slight, especially before there is any real commitment, it is primal force.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:16 pm to Beau Tie
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Marrying a woman who has cheated before
FACT: the bitch will cheat again.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:18 pm to Beau Tie
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Could you marry a woman who cheated on her husband or boyfriend before? What if you were the person she was cheating with?
I did just this. Ended VERY well.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:19 pm to The Third Leg
when I was in college it was almost expected, kind of a don't ask, don't tell policy, Friday(and during the week,) was anything goes night, Saturday was date night 
at least it was like that for some peoplePosted on 8/27/14 at 12:20 pm to The Third Leg
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Grow up. Cheating is not some personal slight, especially before there is any real commitment, it is primal force.
I like you
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:23 pm to TheCaterpillar
I like him too. And I agree with both of you.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:36 pm to Beau Tie
Husband, no; boyfriend, yes.
The reason being is that non-married relationships aren't taken as seriously (if that is the right word) as married are and should be. Take my friend for example, he was tapping a married woman for 10+ months (she had told him they were seperated when they actually weren't). It was an odd situation because the husband moved up to VA for his new job and while the new house was being built.
She stayed behind because she/they didn't want their two kids living in a motel for that time. So, he was hitting it with the two kids there - in fact, one night in the midst of a good session, the youngest kid walked into the room - she got up without missing a beat (naked and all) and took her back to her room...while the kid was saying "Daddy."
Word has it that after they moved up with the husband, there was a divorce. In fact, she called my friend asking if the husband had contacted him. And word has it that she remarried less than a year later to a guy that she was seeing up there.
My friend dodged a big bullet. So big, in fact, that she had another kid less than nine months after moving up to VA (the husband did come back once a month or so while the wife and kids where in GA).
Remember the old saying - a leopard can't change its spots...
The reason being is that non-married relationships aren't taken as seriously (if that is the right word) as married are and should be. Take my friend for example, he was tapping a married woman for 10+ months (she had told him they were seperated when they actually weren't). It was an odd situation because the husband moved up to VA for his new job and while the new house was being built.
She stayed behind because she/they didn't want their two kids living in a motel for that time. So, he was hitting it with the two kids there - in fact, one night in the midst of a good session, the youngest kid walked into the room - she got up without missing a beat (naked and all) and took her back to her room...while the kid was saying "Daddy."
Word has it that after they moved up with the husband, there was a divorce. In fact, she called my friend asking if the husband had contacted him. And word has it that she remarried less than a year later to a guy that she was seeing up there.
My friend dodged a big bullet. So big, in fact, that she had another kid less than nine months after moving up to VA (the husband did come back once a month or so while the wife and kids where in GA).
Remember the old saying - a leopard can't change its spots...
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:37 pm to LouisianaLady
I bet you have some stories...
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:39 pm to Beau Tie
I don't think "once a cheater, always a cheater." People grow up, change, etc...
Obviously some girls (and guys) are always going to be untrustworthy and flaky. Don't get involved with them.
Obviously some girls (and guys) are always going to be untrustworthy and flaky. Don't get involved with them.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:40 pm to Beau Tie
my exwife cheated on me married that guy now they are divorced cause........
she cheated again
she cheated again
Posted on 8/27/14 at 12:44 pm to Poulet
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I don't think "once a cheater, always a cheater." People grow up, change, etc...
Obviously some girls (and guys) are always going to be untrustworthy and flaky. Don't get involved with them.
Exactly. Of course there are people that fit both arguments. People who have cheated that never would again and people that always cheat.
Its not black and white.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:05 pm to Beau Tie
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Could you marry a woman who cheated on her husband or boyfriend before?
No, and you shouldn't either
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:05 pm to Beau Tie
Lol
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:07 pm to GEAUXmedic
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If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you
This is true. I met my future wife while I was in a serious relationship with someone else and cheated on her...then left her.
Fast forward 6 years...cheated on my wife and now getting a divorce. Yup....I'm scum I guess.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:08 pm to dreaux
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Fast forward 6 years...cheated on my wife and now getting a divorce. Yup....I'm scum I guess.
You are quite normal and human. I'm here for you.
I fricked up two marriages. I won't frick up a 3rd if I ever do remarry.
Posted on 8/27/14 at 1:09 pm to DawgCountry
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No, and you shouldn't either
I like all the people in these threads trying to rationalize cheating due to bad relationships. Just admit that you're a shitty person and deal with it on your own. Relationships are at-will deals... If it's that bad, get out of it before finding someone new. I've never understood what's so hard to comprehend about that.
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