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Marriage and Babies

Posted on 1/23/16 at 7:41 am
Posted by BayouSizzle
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2016
316 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 7:41 am
"We just felt like we did the right thing by getting married before we had kids," he said. "Normally, you think it's the other way around. We were just young and, I guess you could say, in love with each other. I owed her that. She's the real deal."

Rico Gathers - former Riverside Academy and now Baylor Basketball - quote

Normally...part grabbed me. I believe that family unit without high level of commitment is like a house built on sand.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141660 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 7:43 am to
Marriage and Babies
Marriage and Babies
Go together
Like a bat and rabies...
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9044 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 7:52 am to
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"We just felt like we did the right thing by getting married before we had kids," he said. "Normally, you think it's the other way around.


Wait, what? Normally, one would think it's correct for people to have kids before they get married?

I hope I'm misunderstanding what he's saying. Otherwise, this is a pretty clear indication of the deterioration of the nuclear family, which is not a good thing.
This post was edited on 1/23/16 at 7:53 am
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8807 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:15 am to
I saw a stat that there are no more "married women having babies" than in 1960. Rise of single mothers, especially Hispanics.

I was meeting with a professional demographic scientist for work.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110670 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:37 am to
quote:

I believe that family unit without high level of commitment is like a house built on sand.
Some couples who aren't married have a MUCH higher level of commitment than couples that are married.

Seems like a very flawed premise to make marriage your level of commitment barometer IMO.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:42 am to
quote:

Normally...part grabbed me. I believe that family unit without high level of commitment is like a house built on sand.


Times are changing, and marriage doesn't mean what it used to. It's like Burger King: You can have it your way.
Posted by JJ27
Member since Sep 2004
60254 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:44 am to
quote:

Some couples who aren't married have a MUCH higher level of commitment than couples


Committed to the extra government handouts they get by popping out babies outside of wedlock.
Posted by tigerfootball10
Member since Sep 2005
9493 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:51 am to
Black Privelage
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35465 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:54 am to
quote:

marriage doesn't mean what it used to. It's like Burger King: You can have it your way.

It still does for many of us. Other people not taking it seriously doesn't affect my marriage.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26437 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:54 am to
Certain ethnicities believe it's nomal to have a kid then get married...

Not that there's anything wrong with that...
This post was edited on 1/23/16 at 8:55 am
Posted by uptownsage
New Orleans
Member since Oct 2014
2156 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 8:56 am to
quote:

Normally...part grabbed me. I believe that family unit without high level of commitment is like a house built on sand.



In south Louisiana, a house build on a sand based foundation usually doesn't require pilings and doesn't shift of settle.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 9:38 am to
quote:

It still does for many of us. Other people not taking it seriously doesn't affect my marriage.


That was my observation, not personal opinion.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68039 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 9:42 am to
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Not that there's anything wrong with that...


There's a great deal wrong with that. The stats prove it. Children of intact households have far better outcomes.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28184 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 9:56 am to
Yeah it's sad that some people think that's normal.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
24564 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 10:16 am to
quote:

Some couples who aren't married have a MUCH higher level of commitment than couples that are married.

GTFOH with that shite
Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12006 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 10:18 am to
quote:

I believe that family unit without high level of commitment is like a house built on sand.


Gotcha. So being married = high level of committment?

Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12006 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 10:20 am to
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There's a great deal wrong with that. The stats prove it. Children of intact households have far better outcomes.


Correlation doesn't equal Causation.

Did it ever occur to anyone that the reason these children are turning out worse is because the parents fricking suck?

Sometimes divorce is just necessary.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110670 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 11:11 am to
quote:

GTFOH with that shite



Hilarious. You're right though, every married couple is totally committed to each other. Are people really that naive?
This post was edited on 1/23/16 at 11:13 am
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20062 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 11:13 am to
Also Ricardo Gathers

LINK
Posted by Silent Death
Southwest Mississippi
Member since Nov 2014
251 posts
Posted on 1/23/16 at 11:21 am to
No truer words ever typed
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