I think some have gotten off track from what I'm saying. Yeah. It is likely arguable that on DAY 1, 32/22 is less ideal than 30/30.
BUT, over time, that shifts and in general, I'd argue that 42/32 > 42/42. And it only gets more pronounced from there.
Fact is, a man who takes care of himself at age 48 can often STILL find MANY 33 year old women who are interested in him. Meanwhile, in what I'd say is the case in the majority of cases, his 48 year old wife has LONG PAST being attractive to him. Even if he still loves her.
I know that's harsh, but it's sort of reality. My ex is my age and she was cute when I married her. Frankly, I wouldn't frick her with someone else's dick if I had the opportunity now.
Oh. And no, I didn't leave her for the current.
This post was edited on 5/11 at 12:51 pm