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re: I can predict from FB posts which of my female friends will leave their husbands
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:10 am to goldennugget
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:10 am to goldennugget
I'm dating someone now but it seems to me the older I get the more success I have with women.
And dating/sleeping with someone much younger has never been easier.
And dating/sleeping with someone much younger has never been easier.
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Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:11 am to goldennugget
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The thing is, women do it too.
i don't care who does it. shallow is shallow
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Think of all the times women exploit men for their resources. It's extremely common. Women even marry men simply for their resources. Think of the woman who has an army of orbiters who she friendzoned who she dangles carrots in front of to get free meals, gifts, emotional support, attention, validation, etc.
just b/c i don't agree with Roosh-ists on a moral/value level doesn't mean that i agree with these people
i talk about this at length in the "friend zone" threads. that's the "bad friend zone" and is a terrible co-dependent relationship between two leeches pretty often. both just sucking off surface-level base desires from each other with nothing real underneath (but both pretend there is a lot more mutual appreciation going on there, which is a lie). that's just delusion by both b/c they don't want to lie about how much they're using the other
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:12 am to rocket31
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Most of the Roosh cultists never had a chance
I am not a Roosh cultist. I am not a fan of PUA in general.
I dont like PUA because the mission is women, and therefore the measure of success is whether or not you succeed with women. That's not a good measure of success because you live or die by that.
I am more in line with Rollo Tomassi and TRP. Where the mission is yourself, becoming the best man you can be in all areas of life. Where succeeding with women is just a side effect of self improvement, if you make yourself into a better man, naturally the women will come with that. while at the same time accepting the truth about sexual strategy and the feminine imperative, and deprogramming yourself from the brainwashing you received over the years about sexual strategy(the blue pill). AKA the way to win over a woman is to be nice, caring, emotional, communicate, invest heavily in her, worship the ground she walks on, give her endless attention and praise and validation. We all know thats a lie.
PUA has some good principles and ideas. It's not all bad. Specifically when it comes to confidence and game. But its one dimensional.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:13 am to NIH
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a put together good looking guy with nice things and a successful career will have women come to him and will still be in control
This is a core tenant of Red Pilled sexual strategy.
If you are an awesome man with an awesome life, women will come naturally. You don't have to manipulate or lie or create a facade, which is what PUA is all about, and why I oppose PUA in principle.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:15 am to rocket31
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but it seems to me the older I get the more success I have with women.
And dating/sleeping with someone much younger has never been easier.
This.... and it has nothing to do with social apps.
Being 34, at least average looking, and confident, you can nearly have your pick of the liter from anything from 20-45
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:15 am to goldennugget
Women play the "game" much better then we do. And with so many built-in advantages I do not blame them.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:16 am to rocket31
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I'm dating someone now but it seems to me the older I get the more success I have with women.
And dating/sleeping with someone much younger has never been easier.
a lot of that is just internal competency
aside from good looks, the way to project value is to actually have value to project. professional guys who have their shite together and have developed a sense of mastery in their professional and personal life tend to project that without trying. they often will also not be boring and have interests/hobbies that make them interesting and that's the 3rd biggest factor
there are a lot of studies out there regarding happiness and it's not "finding the job you love" as much as "becoming great in what you do and working to get better at things". when you reach that level, you just project an unspoken confidence and value
this is the exact opposite of the Roosh-ists, who feel they're so inadequate in certain areas that their focus becomes on becoming competent in getting slight edges in manipulating others on a surface level
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:17 am to goldennugget
I do love Rollo. His ideas really resonated with me a few years back. He's gotta lot of nice stuff..I don't really follow much anymore
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:22 am to SlowFlowPro
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this is the exact opposite of the Roosh-ists, who feel they're so inadequate in certain areas that their focus becomes on becoming competent in getting slight edges in manipulating others on a surface level
Which is why I oppose PUA and Roosh.
They don't preach self improvement. They instead preach lying, manipulating and creating a fake persona of yourself.
Why do all of that when you can instead put in the work, discipline and effort to actually improve yourself into a man that has value and his shite together, so you don't need to lie and manipulate.
PUA is simply an unsustainable shortcut.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:22 am to rocket31
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I do love Rollo. His ideas really resonated with me a few years back. He's gotta lot of nice stuff..I don't really follow much anymore
Rollo and TRP get a bad rap because people automatically equate them with PUA and Roosh. They are not the same things.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:23 am to goldennugget
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Why do all of that when you can instead put in the work, discipline and effort to actually improve yourself into a man that has value and his shite together, so you don't need to lie and manipulate.
PUA is simply an unsustainable shortcut.
ok we agree then fully and i apologize for any negative implications towards you in earlier posts. i didn't understand this was your belief/value system
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:24 am to SlowFlowPro
I get your side and mostly agree
But the alternative sexual strategy states that the only thing that matters is the continuation our our species, everything in between is just societal bullshite.
But the alternative sexual strategy states that the only thing that matters is the continuation our our species, everything in between is just societal bullshite.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:26 am to SlowFlowPro
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. they often will also not be boring and have interests/hobbies that make them interesting and that's the 3rd biggest factor
this is huge
Women hate complacency. Guys who get fat during marriage, drink Bud Light before the TV every night, don't have hobbies outside of hunting, and only vacation in the same spot are ripe for trouble
Which is a large % in this state
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:28 am to rocket31
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But the alternative sexual strategy states that the only thing that matters is the continuation our our species, everything in between is just societal bullshite.
yes but we evolved as social creatures and created/developed the concept of society for a reason. there are legitimate biological responses to "love" that are deeper than just sexual arousal/attraction (your body knows and produces oxytocin and that's what we call love, basically). and even when you get to procreation, being two legitimate parents leads to much more optimal outcomes with your children, and THAT creates an entirely new level of biological response. of course when your kids are young, most people are just addicted to the oxytocin the babies produce, but when you develop and mold those kids into positive reflections of yourself and your values, it creates a level of appreciation for yourself and your partner that is much deeper than any sort of biological response to hormones we emit
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:30 am to goldennugget
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true nature of female hypergamy
Holy shite man. You actually read shite like that on your own time?
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:31 am to rocket31
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And regardless being locked down to the same vagina for the next 40 years isn't fulfilling either bubba
It's not locked down if it's voluntary. Companionship is the word you're looking for. How many pussies do you need to be inside of to realize that they mostly feel the same and that life is more than trying to find a new one to get inside of?
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:32 am to NIH
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Women hate complacency. Guys who get fat during marriage, drink Bud Light before the TV every night, don't have hobbies outside of hunting, and only vacation in the same spot are ripe for trouble
it's even worse for guys who have tough luck with girls
they just get angry and try to get better at what they've been doing, which obviously isn't working, instead of expanding themselves and finding new areas to reach competency in. girls want to see a guy be good at different stuff and be adventurous and try new things with them so they can both work on it together
in relationships too many people just get over the initial hump and then both get into their own patterns and after a period of time it gets stale and minds wander. and yeah usually that complacency means they neglect keeping themselves in shape or interesting otherwise and it becomes stale
humans didn't evolve to conquer the world b/c we're complacent. we took over the world b/c we were always curious and always interested in new things or new areas and using our wits to get there. when you become a complete creature of habit, you lose that and your value as a human becomes decimated
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:33 am to amgslg
Honestly, monogamy is completely against human nature. And when things get boring, uninteresting, for whatever reason, someone or both are going to look elsewhere to get that special feeling again.
Not to mention all the people who married their HS sweetheart and never experienced another lover. There's only so much interest you can have in another person. Doesn't mean you love them any less, you just know absolutely everything about that person and you want to be fascinated by someone again. It's human nature, I don't get why people act so surprised when it happens. I always think, damn I can't believe it took so long.
Not to mention all the people who married their HS sweetheart and never experienced another lover. There's only so much interest you can have in another person. Doesn't mean you love them any less, you just know absolutely everything about that person and you want to be fascinated by someone again. It's human nature, I don't get why people act so surprised when it happens. I always think, damn I can't believe it took so long.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:33 am to SlowFlowPro
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ok we agree then fully and i apologize for any negative implications towards you in earlier posts. i didn't understand this was your belief/value system
No problem
I get made fun of a lot around here, and perhaps I invite a lot of it, but I am satisfied in the direction I am heading in life. I owe a lot of it to the likes of TRP and Rollo. When I moved to Seattle I was a skinny fat lazy loser, overweight, high BF%, double chin, belly overhang, with nothing to offer women. Low value.
I found TRP and Rollo and the manosphere and have improved myself. Lost 50 pounds. Started lifting again. Staying in shape, eating right. Disciplining myself in all areas of life - financially, behaviorly, at work, and such. Starting to see the fruits of it all. It takes effort and discipline and patience. But I am in much better shape, much more confident, about to get hired for a new job in a new state with much lower cost of living making 80% more than what I make now.
Yeah most people may have negative attitudes toward TRP and Rollo. But at least for me, its been a blessing.
TRP may have some controversial stances in terms of sexual strategy and feminine imperative. But, deep down, you know its true. Don't hate the players, hate the game.
Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:34 am to Masterag
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Honestly, monogamy is completely against human nature.
that is not really true
i mean polyamory isn't this terrible thing but we have evolved to mate with another and raise kids
This post was edited on 2/19/17 at 11:35 am
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