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How to manage fussy Baby?

Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:51 pm
Posted by Northwestern tiger
Long Island NY
Member since Oct 2005
23483 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:51 pm
As first-time parents, the past 3 weeks were an emotionally and physically draining experience.
Our new born (3 weeks old now) is constantly crying days and nights. She's been sleeping in our bed and refuses to go to sleep in a crib. She need to be constantly held-up to avoid the crying. The second we put her down (even when she is asleep), she'd wake up and start crying again. She is only getting about 6 hours of sleep a day. Her mom and I are barely getting any sleep. The only time she is not crying is when she is been breastfed.
We tried the cry-out method, and she cried for 6 straight hours at night, she almost lost her voice.
Doctors said nothing wrong with her, and she is gaining normal weight, she is just a fussy baby, and hoping for thing to get better soon.

Anyone with similar experience?
Posted by PillPusher
Gulf Coast
Member since Oct 2009
5707 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:52 pm to
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She's been sleeping in our bed and refuses to go to sleep in a crib


Well that’s your first frick up.

But seriously feed her more. Maybe she’s hungry. Once we got our girl on a feeding schedule she cried way less. Crying is her telling you she’s hungry.
This post was edited on 10/6/19 at 3:54 pm
Posted by 632627
LA
Member since Dec 2011
12737 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:53 pm to
Could be reflux? Common in newborns.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
29261 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:53 pm to
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She's been sleeping in our bed and refuses to go to sleep in a crib


Horrible precedent to start out with .

Posted by Northwestern tiger
Long Island NY
Member since Oct 2005
23483 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:54 pm to
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Well that’s your first frick up.


We have no choice, she won't stop crying.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:54 pm to
Did she get checked for reflux? Because my babies did that and then Zantac and eventually Prevacid worked wonders. And don’t let a 3 week old cry it out. Too young.

Also, read baby wise. Eat, play, sleep. Or whatever order it is.
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
3993 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:54 pm to
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We tried the cry-out method


You don’t try the cry-out method with a 3-week-old, you fricking dipshit
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43297 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:55 pm to
Honestly probably not much. The first 3 months are just frickin brutal for a lot of people.
Posted by Northwestern tiger
Long Island NY
Member since Oct 2005
23483 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:55 pm to
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You don’t try the cry-out method with a 3-week-old, you fricking dipshit


The doctor told us to try it a-hole
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
1441 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:55 pm to
You came to a sports message board for advice on child rearing?

You are incredibly brave, or incredibly stupid.

Posted by brdrone
wanderer
Member since Jul 2016
208 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:55 pm to
more food baw - sucks to use formula early on but make it happen so the baby can sleep like one. And Gratz on the ...
Posted by Northwestern tiger
Long Island NY
Member since Oct 2005
23483 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:55 pm to
quote:

Did she get checked for reflux?


I will mention that to the doctor in the next visit!

thanks
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30553 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:56 pm to
You need to put her in the crib. You’re risking her life by putting her in the bed. I know someone who rolled onto their baby in their sleep and killed the baby
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
1441 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:57 pm to
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we have no choice


Untrue
Posted by Northwestern tiger
Long Island NY
Member since Oct 2005
23483 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:57 pm to
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You need to put her in the crib. You’re risking her life by putting her in the bed. I know someone who rolled onto their baby in their sleep and killed the baby


That's a terrifying though.
Posted by Raid05
Houston
Member since Jan 2013
1104 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:57 pm to
The Happiest Baby On The Block book worked well for my wife and I, especially the 5 S’s.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:57 pm to
Get a new doctor if they actually recommended letting the baby cry it out for 6 hours at 3 weeks old. It’s one thing for them to “fuss” some, that’s normal. But not screaming and crying for 6 hours. Your normal human animal instincts, or surely your wife’s maternal instincts, should have told you that! Dumb.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34515 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:58 pm to
If it is reflux, she may cry when put on her back. I don't think a baby that young should be allowed to cry for hours.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18049 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:58 pm to
Reflux is very common. Also, you may need to try to establish a pattern with them for sleep. The first year is rough but don’t feel defeated. Do the best you can, it will get better soon! Congrats!!
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 3:58 pm to
The more food thing could be right. I didn’t produce enough and my first was always screaming. Supplemented formula and he was happy.
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