How different/similar are you to your SO?

we are similar in every way. we look the same and like the same things, have moles and scars in the same places..it's weird.

How long have you been dating/married? Have you dated people who were opposite of you?


PS: how is Seattle? Thinking about an internship there...

yes have dated people the opposite from me, some I got along with and some I didn't. Would change a thing with this girl. Friends for over a decade but dating over a year now.

Seattle is beautiful right now but the rain will arrive exactly a month from today. Probably the fastest growing city in the U.S.

it is different to every person

We're scarily alike, except that she's a virtuoso musician, and I have no musical ability whatever.

We are very different but compliment each other well. She lets me do my thing and I let her do hers.

Completely different.

I exist, she doesn't.

Differences:

We have different hobbies(his passion is mountainbiking and I'll only ride a bike on pavement); I'm much more cautious in nature than him.

Different views on social media. I embrace social media (hello have you seen all my posts here). He has a fb that he never uses and doesn't understand why I post here. I'm much more open about myself...he is very private.

Different passions: He is a political junkie and I barely remember to vote.


But we also have similarities

Our faith, views on children, where we want to live at, how we want to do our finances as a couple. The important stuff we agree on easily.


We both love to read and love the outdoors(just have different opinions on favorite outdoor activities).

We both are stubborn as hell.

I think it bugs him sometimes that we don't share more interests.


We have been trying to develop more interests together(ex: kayaking, playing darts, talking about buying road bikes and going cycling together)

I tried dating an aggie, didn't work. Tried dating a liberal, didn't work.

My current SO went to LSU, has similar values, beliefs, and work ethic. Personality wise I am very spontaneous and a risk taker, she is the opposite which works out well to keep me in check. I'm a big partier, she will party but usually keeps it under control. We don't have to spend every waking moment together, but when we are together we enjoy the same things. We work in the same industry and can help each other out in growing in our jobs which is good in my opinion.

Only thing she wants to do together that I refuse is to workout/go running. I'm not exercising with a girl.