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re: helping a girl cope with being raped
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:12 pm to Calvin Candie
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:12 pm to Calvin Candie
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Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:13 pm to Statsattack
Have you asked her about the circumstances?
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:15 pm to Statsattack
Get ready for a power struggle. It's tough to be the next guy up after that. If you have the stones to work thru her mess, big ups to you.
It won't be easy, i assure you.
It won't be easy, i assure you.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:18 pm to Statsattack
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I have a friend who is a girl who told me how she has been date raped a few months ago. She told me today how she has ptsd and and was raped in college. How should I go about helping her out.
Get her professional help.
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Also what should I do if I am developing feelings for this girl?
Don't.
While I personally know a couple of girls that similar incidents happen to them that turned out completely fine, it can cause major problems down the road for you as the guy.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:19 pm to AjaxFury
Any time I hear the term date rape I am a little suspicious. There is a spectrum on that which is not the same as getting knocked out in an alley and raped forcibly. Crazy girls love rape stories. That's just God's honest truth.
Show caution.
Show caution.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:21 pm to Statsattack
Have you seen Dexter? He handled the same situation fantastically. Role model.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:22 pm to yurintroubl
Don't think she is lying. Only her and her dad know about the date rape and she never told her parents about the other rape.
Guess its a good idea to stay in the friends zone on this one
Guess its a good idea to stay in the friends zone on this one
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:25 pm to Statsattack
Depends on if it was "rape". She may just want you to be her emotional tampon. Take her to the professionals and let them help
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:25 pm to Statsattack
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:26 pm to Statsattack
She needs a therapist.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:26 pm to Statsattack
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How should I go about helping her out.
Some of you have no common sense. Just be there for her and listen. She obviously is comfortable with you if she brought it up so just listen and be a good friend.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:26 pm to rebeloke
The rapist is the last thing she needs.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:27 pm to rebeloke
quote:she's met 2 already
She needs a therapist.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:29 pm to OWLFAN86
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She needs a therapist.
she's met 2 already
Holy shite that's funny
Straight to hell for me
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:33 pm to rebeloke
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She needs a therapist.
I am starting to think that is something that needs to be done asap.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:46 pm to Statsattack
Was it Rape or was it a Refugee having a Sexual Emergency Incident?
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:51 pm to Statsattack
Have her call RAINN.
Can't link but Google it.
Can't link but Google it.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:53 pm to Statsattack
She needs to talk to a medical professional. My gf was a victim of sexual violence with a previous partner. He was a POS and to this day has a RO against his arse.
You can only do so much without medical or professional knowledge.
Be very careful, caring, and willing to take it slowly and considerately.
You can only do so much without medical or professional knowledge.
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Also what should I do if I am developing feelings for this girl?
Be very careful, caring, and willing to take it slowly and considerately.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:00 pm to Statsattack
Run for your life.
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