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re: helping a girl cope with being raped
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:03 pm to Statsattack
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:03 pm to Statsattack
Cuddle with her every night for a few years and never make a move, it will show her she can trust guys
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Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:04 pm to HoustonChick86
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Some of you have no common sense. Just be there for her and listen. She obviously is comfortable with you if she brought it up so just listen and be a good friend.
Didn't mean to come off as a moron for starting this thread. Today I realized how serious it is especially with her not telling her parents. I also realized her coming and talking to me for help isn't the long term answer.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:18 pm to Statsattack
What type of rape was it? Did someone have sex with her without her consent or did a guy frick her and not call her and she got pissed?
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:20 pm to Statsattack
You need to convince her that she needs to hop back on the horse and then give her a ride. Should be pretty easy to close the deal if you approach it right.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:38 pm to Statsattack
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Don't think she is lying. Only her and her dad know about the date rape and she never told her parents about the other rape.
Raped twice? I'm not buying it. Either she is exaggerating the actual event or is one of the unluckiest women in the world.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:49 pm to Statsattack
She is lying, she is crazy, it is a trap, run as fast as you can.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:56 pm to Statsattack
So she's been raped twice on separate occasions by different guys? What are the odds of that?
Run, do not walk. fricking run.
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developing feelings
Run, do not walk. fricking run.
Posted on 2/6/16 at 11:57 pm to yurintroubl
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Have you seen Dexter? He handled the same situation fantastically. Role model.
Great way to find out if she is telling the truth. Force her to give you a name, tell her you will take care of it, go stick a needle in the guys neck, take him to your plastic wrapped kill room, get out your carving knives, bring in the girl to have a face to face final conversation with the "rapist".
She may confess she is lying, you let the guy go.
She stands by her story and you murder a rapist.
She stands by her story and you murder an innocent man. Then you get to bang a crazy broad on a blood stained floor.
Sounds like a no lose situation. Go for it.
Posted on 2/7/16 at 12:27 am to Statsattack
Depends...You can't help. She will cope in her own ways. Compartmentalize, stress out, etc. Just be there. Like someone who is grieving, just be there. Spoken by someone who has been there. Be her friend, don't intrude.
Posted on 2/7/16 at 12:31 am to Statsattack
That's about as "damaged goods" as it gets.
Posted on 2/7/16 at 12:51 am to Statsattack
Yikes...you guys have hit a new low.
I hope she's getting therapy. She needs lots of emotional support
I hope she's getting therapy. She needs lots of emotional support
Posted on 2/7/16 at 12:54 am to Statsattack
Dated two girls in my life that were. One was just regular woman crazy nothing a decent guy couldn't handle. The other was batshit. Getting out of that relationship was difficult...clingy is an understatement. I wouldn't touch it with a 19 foot pole. And it's imperative she get professional help.
Posted on 2/7/16 at 2:25 am to Statsattack
I read this as "helping a girl cop with being raped"
Posted on 2/7/16 at 8:51 am to HoustonChick86
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Some of you have no common sense. Just be there for her and listen. She obviously is comfortable with you if she brought it up so just listen and be a good friend.
More like this section of the site is a wasteland of boys with very few men actually present.
To the OP. Talk to her. Realize some simple things like holding her hand or reaching for something near her may cause a flashback.
Help her.
Feelings are nearly inevitable in a situation like that. But you make damned sure you can handle the situation before you act on them.
This post was edited on 2/7/16 at 8:54 am
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