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helping a girl cope with being raped

Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:39 pm
Posted by Statsattack
Il
Member since Feb 2013
3897 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:39 pm
I have a friend who is a girl who told me how she has been date raped a few months ago. She told me today how she has ptsd and and was raped in college. How should I go about helping her out.

Also what should I do if I am developing feelings for this girl?
Posted by stinkdawg
Savannah, smoking by the gas cans
Member since Aug 2014
4072 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:41 pm to
Dude, you have to get her to a rape crisis center and get her some help.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124258 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:42 pm to
I wouldn't help her out

Just act like it never happened
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:43 pm to
She's probably lying
Posted by dred24
In the south
Member since Nov 2006
1215 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:43 pm to
You should hook up with her. Im sure that'll go great.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136793 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:45 pm to
That is pretty messed up
Posted by Calvin Candie
The Cleopatra Club
Member since Dec 2014
485 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:45 pm to
She's probably nuts and making rape stories up for sympathy. If your story is real then I would run the other direction.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136793 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:45 pm to
Once again, messed up
Posted by Nativebullet
Natchez, MS
Member since Feb 2011
5134 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:47 pm to
quote:

How should I go about helping her out?



Do her, but with consent.
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
12142 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:48 pm to
You are three weeks away from going to jail for a rape you did not commit.





RUN
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90447 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:48 pm to
Just being able to talk about it seemed to help my friend. I honestly didn't know what I could actually do to help her. Being raped by some piece of shite has got to be a horrifying experience. She told me just talking was good because no one knew besides her parents and I.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134843 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:51 pm to
quote:

She's probably lying

Well, that didn't take long
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117678 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:54 pm to
Date with Pocket Aces I presume.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57609 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:54 pm to
quote:

Also what should I do if I am developing feelings for this girl?


Run. Far far away.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98132 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:55 pm to
It's good you're standing by her, but unless you have a counseling degree, this is over your head. Encourage her to get professional help.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102973 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:56 pm to
First step to her healing is to tell her story without her consent on a public message board
Posted by adp
Member since Jul 2015
2735 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:59 pm to
You should find her professional help like a therapist or group therapy. IMO.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117678 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 9:59 pm to
op getting raped with downvotes
Posted by John88
Member since Sep 2015
6198 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:08 pm to
Call Detective Benson immediately.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
25851 posts
Posted on 2/6/16 at 10:11 pm to
Tell her to loosen up... Oh wait... Never mind
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