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re: Have you ever had an intervention with a friend if you didn't like their SO?
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:28 pm to foreverLSU
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:28 pm to foreverLSU
This post was edited on 1/31/14 at 12:36 pm
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Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:29 pm to foreverLSU
I dated a count for a little over a year, and I wish someone had spoken up. Found out after we broke up that everyone hated her. 
I was like, "shite guys, y'all could've told me." No biggie. I upgraded like a motherfricker.
I was like, "shite guys, y'all could've told me." No biggie. I upgraded like a motherfricker.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:30 pm to foreverLSU
No. You tell them.
I did it. My friend was not happy with me, and it hurt our relationship a bit. But he ended up calling off the wedding, and it was the right decision. She was a total count that literally everyone hated, and he couldn't see it until he stepped back a bit.
Now he's happy as can be.
I did it. My friend was not happy with me, and it hurt our relationship a bit. But he ended up calling off the wedding, and it was the right decision. She was a total count that literally everyone hated, and he couldn't see it until he stepped back a bit.
Now he's happy as can be.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:31 pm to foreverLSU
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I'm a female and I'm married, so negatory.
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I feel like when she talks about him she's reading excerpts from that book "He's Just Not That Into You" and she doesn't realize it.
5/10
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:33 pm to foreverLSU
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I'm a female and I'm married, so negatory
Ok, then my advice is that it probably won't end well for your friendship no matter what you do. If you confront her, she will blame the messenger and If she marries him, you won't want to hang out with them anyway.
I told a great friend who was marrying his knocked up GF that the baby probably wasn't his and it ruined our friendship. He married her and after their divorce, she came clean that the kid wasn't his. I was right, but being right had a cost that I regret.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:34 pm to SabiDojo
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If you intervene and he ends up marrying her, then chances are your friendship is over.
Fact
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:35 pm to CajunAlum Tiger Fan
quote:that sucks man. i think thats why i dont do the intervention thing. but, if it comes up in conversation and my opinion is invited, i share it.
Ok, then my advice is that it probably won't end well for your friendship no matter what you do. If you confront her, she will blame the messenger and If she marries him, you won't want to hang out with them anyway.
I told a great friend who was marrying his knocked up GF that the baby probably wasn't his and it ruined our friendship. He married her and after their divorce, she came clean that the kid wasn't his. I was right, but being right had a cost that I regret.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:35 pm to foreverLSU
Stay out of it unless he/she comes to you first.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:36 pm to SaintCajun
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Tried telling my old roommate that his girlfriend was a whore and he never believed me. Later he found out she fricked another guy, they broke up and I told him I told you so. That was the extent of my intervention
Had to do that the other day.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:36 pm to foreverLSU
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Does being a good friend mean helping them see the light or letting them make their own mistakes?
with relationships I say let them make their own mistakes
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:37 pm to foreverLSU
Had a friend that was with someone and I saw that person cheating on her and told her and she sided with him and got mad at me for trying to break them up. Lesson learned: mind your own damn business.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:38 pm to CrimsonFanSince94
You don't have to harp on it either. Just mention it once or twice and if they don't listen, let it go
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:39 pm to Winkface
A friend of mine was dating a drugged out skank. I knew saying something to him meant that the friendship would probably end, but I thought it was worth it.
When they broke up, he and I started being friends again. He died a year or so later. I'm so glad I spoke up and that we made up.
As a general rule, I stay out of this stuff, so it was something quite serious for me to speak up.
When they broke up, he and I started being friends again. He died a year or so later. I'm so glad I spoke up and that we made up.
As a general rule, I stay out of this stuff, so it was something quite serious for me to speak up.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:39 pm to foreverLSU
Yes. My buddy and I tried to save our Friend Darren Silverman. It took a while and it was rough, but in the end Neil Diamond showed him the light.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:42 pm to Byron Bojangles III
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My buddy and I tried to save our Friend Darren Silverman. It took a while and it was rough, but in the end Neil Diamond showed him the light.
Are you a pyschologist?
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:44 pm to foreverLSU
My family did this to me in hs
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:45 pm to Murray
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Are you a pyschologist?
this thread is the plot of this movie
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:47 pm to Byron Bojangles III
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this thread is the plot of this movie
BBIII... I caught your reference and threw you back a line from the same movie.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:48 pm to Topwater Trout
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Does being a good friend mean helping them see the light or letting them make their own mistakes?
with relationships I say let them make their own mistakes
Yep. Who knows the reasons why a friend might be attracted to a "loser?" Let them figure it out. I'm not my friend's parent.
Posted on 1/31/14 at 12:50 pm to SaintCajun
Funny thing is she's a DZ. Crazy arse slut who's obviously still sneaking with her old boy and my friend is in denial about it.. Deny, deny, deny..
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