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re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

Posted on 3/27/24 at 10:10 pm to
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37157 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 10:10 pm to
Seems like pron and desperate men have created a situation where IRL 2.3 grade women think they can easily puil a man with 4% body fat, $350K salary, and a 8 in dong.

Maybe raise the age of the gals you want to date? It seems like once the gals cross 40, their standards drop a lot.
Posted by GeauxTigers123
Member since Feb 2007
1371 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 10:14 pm to
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Maybe raise the age of the gals you want to date? It seems like once the gals cross 40, their standards drop a lot.



Well if a guy wants kids he should probably aim for the 30 year olds not 40 year olds.

Overall, I think this absurd standard stuff is magnified online. I think if you actually meet people of like minded interests in person (which is hard these days) then people don't subscribe to this crazy behavior.

And I said before, the ratio is way off on those apps. You gotta find a way to go meet others in person.
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
47814 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 10:15 pm to
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#1 Be at least 6 foot tall #2 Have a six-figure income #3 Have a 6"+ member #4 Have a 6-pack stomach That's about 0.02% of the male population.


So how do we increase that
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
31535 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 10:35 pm to
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of sliding into some woman's DMs,


I’m so happy I have no idea what this means.
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2607 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 6:24 am to
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Sounds good, but if yall’s dating app experiences were so good, so recently- i would seriously wonder about the caliber of women yall were getting dates with… We are all different, but im not interested in single mothers.. and im not interested in overweight women.. when people like myself and others advocate looking overseas to find women, or becoming ‘passport bros’ (even though i hate labels)- it’s becuase the women we as Western ‘average’ American guys can pull overseas is generally younger and hotter than what is available on dating apps , or even in real life- here in the US if you are a guy over, say, 35 years old .. any of us can pull some 38 yr old or 42 yr old chick with a dumpy arse and 2 or 3 kids- but who wants that ?


I was 26 years old and fresh out of a 4 year relationship. “Dated” a 20 year old all the way up to a 40 year old. Multiple women in the rotation the entire time. No single moms and no fatties. Did this for about two years until I met my wife.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1442 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 6:26 am to
Not for me.

Single life is much better and active than being married to a drunken shrew.
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2607 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 6:27 am to
But yea if you’re in your mid 30’s to 40’s and single I’d assume you’d be running into single moms, etc. Unless you live in a big city.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
941 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 7:49 am to
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Things have worked out perfectly.


quote:

I'm probably going to find myself single again sooner rather than later


What am I missing?
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23186 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 7:57 am to
Remember, the women complain that there are no good men. The potential for a mate is there.

Go to church, people will matchmake for you.

Be unapologetically masculine. Even women who claim to dislike that, secretly respect it. I had a friend that 100% of girls disliked the first 1 min with him, after he realized he was authentically this way, damn near all of them were interested.
This post was edited on 3/28/24 at 8:09 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55843 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 7:59 am to
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35, recently single. Having way less luck with the ladies this go round than I was before.
I think a lot of guys sip a bit too much of the "we get better as we get older" juice
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126964 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:00 am to
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Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?
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FAT SEXY

Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64785 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:00 am to
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Glad I’m married. I couldn’t put up with 1% of the shite single chicks dole out today.


^ This.

The closest thing to a complication I have to deal with on date night is our daughter always wants to tag along. We call her our third wheel.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3568 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:08 am to
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Sounds good, but if yall’s dating app experiences were so good, so recently- i would seriously wonder about the caliber of women yall were getting dates with…



I was 26 years old and fresh out of a 4 year relationship



Gotcha.. Dating is a totally different ballgame in ur 20s.. people in their 20s are still kids.. i think this thread has been , broadly speaking, discussing dating in one’s 30s, 40s and older .
Posted by GeauxTigers123
Member since Feb 2007
1371 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:10 am to
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I think a lot of guys sip a bit too much of the "we get better as we get older" juice


I mean some do, if they have big financial success.
I knew a Big Law partner in his 40s that married a girl in her 20s.

I’ve known doctors in their 60s to marry women in their 30s and have kids.

But average blue collar Joe may not experience that phenomenon.



Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
941 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:12 am to


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"Get yourself an Asian woman"


You and everyone else.

Take from the data what you will.
Posted by Locoguan0
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2017
4332 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:15 am to
This is actually well-documented.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
941 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:25 am to
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All you need is the 4 6's

#1 Be at least 6 foot tall
#2 Have a six-figure income
#3 Have a 6"+ member
#4 Have a 6-pack stomach


You can control #2 and #4. So do that. If you only focus on one of these, obviously #2.

And as I said before, even if you check all these boxes (I do) AND have many other qualities you think would put you in high demand (I do) - character traits that lend themselves to being good husbands and fathers - you are STILL going to put up with a ton of bullshite.

The Mind Virus has convinced them that even with all of the above PLUS some, there is still "more." And not only is there more, they "deserve" it.

Women are all competing with each other (they don't try to be good for you; they try to be better than other women...there's a difference) and social media has put everything out in the open. So not only do you have to offer all of the above, plus some, plus the "more", it has to be in a way that is Instagrammable so they can derive attention/feedback from their target audience.

It's not about you BEING good. It's about YOU making THEM look good.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
34059 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:47 am to
Asian and Latina are the best sex-wise. American culture actually makes them worse so it goes without saying whu America white women are not as desired
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3568 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:49 am to
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I think a lot of guys sip a bit too much of the "we get better as we get older" juice



I mean some do, if they have big financial success.






OR if they figure out what i call ‘the secret’ , or the cheat code, or the ‘lifehack’ or whatever you want to call it- of living/working overseas and having younger, gorgeous women who might be ‘out of your league’ in the West- chasing you and competing to date you… and yes, I realize it’s not much of a ‘secret’ anymore.. but , unlike in the old days. It’s much more accessible to many more guys with the advent of remote work and global interconnectivity.. the world has gotten smaller since ur Paw Paw found out about the ladies in the Philippines back in WW2 .
Posted by LSUnation78
Northshore
Member since Aug 2012
12085 posts
Posted on 3/28/24 at 8:50 am to
Go to thailand for a month.


Take your pick.









Thank me later
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