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re: Girlfriend has gay friend

Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:57 pm to
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:57 pm to
You should meet him and get to be friends. If you play your cards right you can turn it into a threesome. Good luck.
Posted by Negative Nomad
Hell
Member since Oct 2011
3173 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:57 pm to
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Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:58 pm to
As in working out? Grabbing a beer or something at some bar? How is that any different? It's like you think they're cuddled up in his bed watching a movie or something

If it's the simple fact of people seeing your gf doing something with aguy (who's gay in this scenario) then your gf isn't the problem at all. That just being extremely insecure and controlling on your part

And honestly a gay dude is probably the best person for her to hang out with out of the other possibilities
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:00 pm
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47478 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:58 pm to
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Who is that dude?

The neighbor kid's homophobic closet gay dad in American Beauty. Shame on you for your close mindedness and especially for not recognizing that awesome scene from a great movie.
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
22844 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:59 pm to
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Negative Nomad


Sounds like you are a trash ball. Not everyone is like that.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128971 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:59 pm to
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My God can you tell this OP how GD lucky he is? This is a plus not a minus




Yeah most women want a gay bestie Ever notice how almost every chick flick the main character has a gay bestie she goes and has margaritas with to bemoan about her relationship problems and go shoe shopping with? Women watch these movies and covet those kind of friendships.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120257 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:59 pm to
A single guy doesnt hang out with a chick unless he wants to bang her.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:00 pm to
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I hang out with some other couples and I constantly think about banging the other guys wives. If the perfect storm brewed, I could see bad things happening. Yes they can hang out together and it not be sexual. Should they? If in a relationship, no.


Damn, I hope I don't have friends like you.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47478 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

I hang out with some other couples and I constantly think about banging the other guys wives.

Wtf! I don't even do that. I have 4 girl pals I would never sleep with nor do I think about it. 2 of them are very attractive too.
See my pervy shite has boundaries. You are terrible.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:02 pm
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68500 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:00 pm to
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As in working out? Grabbing a beer or something at some bar?

Granted, if someone told me they saw my SO at a bar with another dude and it was just the two of them and I had no knowledge about it, I wouldn't be too pleased either.
Posted by Negative Nomad
Hell
Member since Oct 2011
3173 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:00 pm to
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Posted by Tigerwaffe
Orlando
Member since Sep 2007
4975 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:01 pm to
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she may want to behave or participate in deviant sexual practices as well.

Like threesomes with the OP and another chick! Good call, dude!
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16172 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:01 pm to
quote:

s not like you can tell all gay men from straight men. The perception of your so working out and drinking alone with another man. That's what I mean.


So you're afraid of what other people will think seeing you're gf with another dude? Is that what you mean?
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:02 pm to
quote:

Granted, if someone told me they saw my SO at a bar with another dude and it was just the two of them and I had no knowledge about it, I wouldn't be too pleased either.


Same here, but this isn't that scenario
Posted by goatman1419
Prairieville,LA
Member since Jan 2007
3070 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:03 pm to
A quote from "Dave S." A bitch with a friend is nothing more than a dick in a glass case that says break in case of emergency.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83929 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:04 pm to
You're gay. That's why you have a problem with it. You resent her because she can get close to him and you can't.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:05 pm
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:05 pm to
Yes...yes it is. I know she has a gay friend, but I don't keep tabs and yes I didn't know what she was doing. Never thought about it until I heard from someone and didn't like it.

I'm the opposite of clingy, but just didn't like to hear about it. Maybe I'll meet the guy and see what I think.
Posted by Tigerwaffe
Orlando
Member since Sep 2007
4975 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:06 pm to
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a dick in a glass case that says break in case of emergency.

But with a gay guy, wouldn't it say "broke in case of emergency"?
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:06 pm to
Alone yes. I know I'll get hammered for this, but yeah I don't like the perception.
Posted by snake23
NOLA/BR
Member since Dec 2011
4438 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:07 pm to
You should put a Jindal 2016 bumper sticker on his Jetta. Show that queer who's boss.
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