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re: Girlfriend has gay friend
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:36 pm to BoxmanTiger
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:36 pm to BoxmanTiger
sounds like you're insecure
if he isn't gay, and you haven't met him, then I'd at least have a little bit more to think about
either way, you need to show some trust and less insecurity IMO
if he isn't gay, and you haven't met him, then I'd at least have a little bit more to think about
either way, you need to show some trust and less insecurity IMO
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:36 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Honestly none that I haven't hooked up with or married to friends of mine.
Well that isn't the case for everyone. Some people do have close friends of the opposite sex that they didn't hook up with. And this guy is freaking gay on top of it and you are stressing?
You haven't even spent time with the guy yet. You keep acting this way your gf is gonna notice and leave you for a real man that isn't insecure over her friendship with a gay man.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:37 pm to BoxmanTiger
Congrats on the threesome, just be forewarned that he will be focused on you a lot more than her.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:38 pm to AU4real35
Yes she told me he was gay, but doesn't tell everyone bc conservative family. He isn't flamboyant, and not saying all gay ppl are just saying.. Anyway clearly everyone thinks I'm an insecure pussy so I guess my thought process isn't the norm.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:38 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Someone saw her out with her friend and texted to tell me.
You must be a kid. This is some weak shite.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:38 pm to BoxmanTiger
This is a blessing.
How can you not befriend salmon pants and take advantage of it???
This guy is now your best friend
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:39 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Anyway clearly everyone thinks I'm an insecure pussy so I guess my thought process isn't the norm.
if you can't trust your woman with a gay man, then I don't know what to tell you
in fact, you should be happy she's got a gay friend to yack all her shite to
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:40 pm to BoxmanTiger
Would you be freaked out if she had a female best friend that was a lesbian that she hung out with all the time?
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:41 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Embrace it. Now you don't have to go shopping with her. He might buy you a cute outfit if your nice to him. How do you feel about leather arse less chaps
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:42 pm to BoxmanTiger
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but I still don't think it's appropriate.
It's literally no different than you hanging out with your friends.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:42 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Yes she told me he was gay, but doesn't tell everyone bc conservative family. He isn't flamboyant, and not saying all gay ppl are just saying.. Anyway clearly everyone thinks I'm an insecure pussy so I guess my thought process isn't the norm.
Seems to me there are definitely insecurities here.. Maybe the insecurity comes from him not being as flamboyant and outspoken with his homosexuality thus leading you to believe he might not be as "gay" as she says he is... Why don't you go out with them, hell you might have a good time..
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:43 pm to BoxmanTiger
And so her being seen out with another dude, whether gay or not, somehow challenges your masculinity in that she's your piece of arse and not to be seen with other dudes?
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 3:43 pm
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:43 pm to lsunurse
Nope she has those too. I see your point. I haven't argued with her about it, but I just haven't dealt with this either. Again I'm confident nothing would happen just don't like the perception. Maybe I'm too conservative.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:44 pm to lsunurse
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Would you be freaked out if she had a female best friend that was a lesbian that she hung out with all the time?
I'd be more worried about this than a gay best friend
Those lezzies are a persistent bunch.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:45 pm to BoxmanTiger
So, you have an issue with her interacting with a gay man because you don't approve of the lifestyle? Is that the issue? So confused.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:45 pm to BoxmanTiger
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I guess my thought process isn't the norm.
No. It is the norm. If your girlfriend is going to accept people with deviant sexual practices, then she may want to behave or participate in deviant sexual practices as well. Several of the deviants have already illustrated the deviant positives that could result. So unless you are a deviant, your thought process is normal.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:45 pm to wildtigercat93
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Those lezzies are a persistent bunch.
And girls like to "experiment".
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:45 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Maybe I'm too conservative.
Stop trying to put window dressing on it. The word you were looking is "insecure"
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:46 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Maybe I'm too conservative.
Maybe you're secretly attracted to him and don't want those butterfly feelings coming into your stomach trying to compromise your coverup. It's ok man. You're in a safe zone here.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:46 pm to BoxmanTiger
Go watch "kickass"
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