re: girl in one of my classes wants my notes

You are doing the right thing OP.

This girl plans on skating by with her slightly above average looks and is probably used to having men do everything for her. Don't give in.

Or go the quid pro quo route. Unless she is throwing at least a HJ at you she has no leverage.

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Meh.. In class, if I have notes I'll give them. It's not hurting me to send them to someone. I'm more worried about my own lane and trying to do what I need to get done; don't necessarily care what someone else is doing or not doing.

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Same.

I never e-mailed notes to those random e-mails that people like to send to the entire class via the Moodle database because I hand-write all of my notes and don't even own a scanner.

But if someone in class wants to see them? Don't care.

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Honestly, if a cute girl came to me and was like "I'm dumb and I'm going to fail, can I have a copy of your notes" or "I'm lazy and don't come to class, will you help me" I'd do it no prob.

But the fact that she's set you up for it is the part that would make me say no. In other words, it's not the fact that she wants to capitalize on your work, it's that she just assumes you'll do it and did nothing to even set up her eventual plea. That's fricking brazen.

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Pretty much what I was getting at with my post. She's used to men just doing things for her so she presumed you would be another sucker and didn't at least try to be friendly. No ma'am. I'd give my notes to the slacker bro that skips all the time over this chick. (Maybe because I was the slacker bro that skipped all the time )

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Do the right thing, kid.

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You've changed since that last banning.

If she's a 9 or 10, you have no chance of banging her. If she's a 6, then she wants the D. And she wants it now.

From a moral standpoint, this can be a big deal if you want it to be a big deal. You have every reason to tell her no.

From a practical standpoint, this really doesn't matter much. You have an opportunity to put this person in your debt.

The questions you should be asking yourself, then, from a practical standpoint, are:

1. Is this a person I want to help out, based solely on my generosity? If No... then...

2. Is this a person whose friendship I want to cultivate? If yes, give her the notes, if not, then...

3. Is this a person who I want to owe me a favor? If yes, then...

4. Will this person recognize that she owes me a favor and pay me back in some fashion someday? If no, then...

5. What will I ask for specifically in return for my notes?

Lastly, if you just tell her no... ask yourself... is this a person who I can tell no, without repercussion?

Your answer will reveal itself if you honestly answer the questions.

Myself... I would sell her the notes and work out a plan where you will give her your notes weekly for a fee. If she can afford to pay for school and not pay attention in class, she has money. Trust me. Make the pitch for extra cash. It's not as unusual as you think.

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she sits next to me in class, and there are about 4 feet between the desks

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Be very careful, the cooties might jump that far.

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wouldn't have mattered if she were a 10,

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Wanna know how I know you are gay?

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She definitely wants to frick you, this is just a kind of game chicks play every now and then. First she'll ask for your notes, then she'll ask to borrow some money, then she'll ask you to give her and her boyfriend a ride to the bar. It's all a show, you just gotta play the long game and you'll be banging this broad in no time.

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Oh man. I wasted a good bit of my late teens/early 20s thinking like this.

Rewrite your notes special for her where all the information is totally fricking wrong, but sounds like it's right to somebody that didn't pay attention.