podna.... all i can say is try to meet some good friends, not necessarily girls, but dudes too. Dont underestimate the power of networking. If you meet and become friends with a few guys... they are bound to have lady friends, and you'll be fresh meat. Be cool, and even if they the said girls arent single they'll try to hook u up w/ their other single friends.
Also, even if u havent got you dick wet in a while, try not to be/come off as desperate. As the other poster said, chicks can smell that shite.
Shit, Im got out of a 3yr+ relationship about 4 months ago and was "desperate" at first. Finding pussy was a pain in the ass. I kinda chilled out and lady friends at work started trying to hook me up w/ single friends. Money in da bank.
I have always felt like you run your best "Game" when you don't try to run "game." For some girls, like you said, they can smell that shite. So it comes off as you try to hard as hell to impress her.
For me and some others, I dont know about you, just talking to them and trying to keep a conversation going and funny works alot. Don't hit on them, ask questions, look interested, but not horny, etc. Just dont come across as trying to frick, even though thats the goal. Leave the conversation at that, DONT ask for her number, and leave her wanting more. When you leave her, tell her, "I enjoyed our conversation. I hope to see you around sometime." If she wants more, she'll find her way to you, via mutual friends (" so and so said you were cute," "___ really enjoyed yalls convo the other night." She'll find a way to give you her number..then once you get the digits, youre in. Play your cards right. You then have the power.
But this method could easily get you into the "friend zone." You just have to play it correctly.