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For those of you who lost your father, how old were you when he passed?

Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:20 pm
Posted by toosleaux
Stuck in Baton Rouge traffic
Member since Dec 2007
9207 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:20 pm
I’m trying to be grateful that I have had my Dad for 44 years of my life. Long story short, he is very elderly and losing his grasp on reality. I fear his mind will be gone before his body. I just don’t know how to live without him. He’s my best friend. This is hard
Posted by BigoBoys
Arizona
Member since Aug 2019
575 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:21 pm to
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Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22154 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:21 pm to
16. He was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma in March, dead in October. He was 38.
This post was edited on 1/9/22 at 10:41 pm
Posted by jlu03
San Diego
Member since Jul 2012
3320 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:22 pm to
15.

Was fricking awful
Posted by Rockbrc
Attic
Member since Nov 2015
7910 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:22 pm to
40
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
34480 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:22 pm to
I turned 37 two weeks prior.

June 20th will be 4 years.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10308 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:23 pm to
God bless your sweet dad. Lost both my parents in my late 20s. Prayers for your Dad.
Posted by tankyank13
NOLA
Member since Nov 2012
7721 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:25 pm to
35
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21387 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:25 pm to
18
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
5719 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:25 pm to
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Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11220 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:26 pm to
I’m sorry you’re going through this. Mine died when I was 28. We had a complicated relationship, and it was still one of the worst things I’ve been through.
Posted by Swamp Angel
Georgia
Member since Jul 2004
7259 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:27 pm to
Enjoy today. Enjoy all the time you have and enjoy it rather than fearing for tomorrow.

I lost my dad 28 years ago when I was 25. It was exactly one week before Christmas and he just simply didn't wake up on Sunday morning. He was sixty-three, and he was my best friend, and my idol. It was pretty crappy for my brother as well, since dad passed away the day after my brother's 21st birthday.

It's a part of life that almost all of us will have to deal with. The only way to avoid it is to wink out before your parents do, and that's a selfish thing to want.

We still have Mom. She's 82 and not nearly as strong as she used to be. I hope to have her around for many more years.

Prayers from our home on behalf of you and your dad. I hope you have a good many more years enjoying his wisdom, insight, and company.

Posted by OldManRiver
Prairieville, LA
Member since Jan 2005
6922 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:28 pm to
Lost both my parents at 8, if I’m honest with myself not sure I ever really recovered
Posted by klrstix
Shreveport, LA
Member since Oct 2006
3201 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:28 pm to
I was 12... Dad died of a massive heart attack in 1971...

knowing what I know now at 63 years of age I am grateful he did not suffer.

Posted by Flair Chops
to the west, my soul is bound
Member since Nov 2010
35570 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:29 pm to
34. He had struggled with multiple health issues his entire life, but especially the last 20 years. I still think about him every day.
Posted by ds_engineer
South Mississippi
Member since Dec 2014
386 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:29 pm to
I had just turned 35. It still suck 12 years later. It gives me peace that he was my best friend for 35 years.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:29 pm to
I was 34. He was 61. Honestly? No impact on my life other than brief shock at his unexpected and untimely death. He had little to no impact on me in a positive way. Sad but true.
This post was edited on 1/9/22 at 9:35 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48455 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:31 pm to
quote:

Lost both my parents at 8, if I’m honest with myself not sure I ever really recovered

Man that's rough. I'm sorry about that for you. Both of mine are still alive at 44 so I can't empathize but I did have friends whose parents passed pretty young.
Posted by QuietTiger
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2003
26256 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:31 pm to
Who knows and I didn't care, he was no part of my life. Fug him.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62742 posts
Posted on 1/9/22 at 9:31 pm to
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