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re: father has cancer and it's spreading all over.

Posted on 4/21/16 at 2:42 pm to
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 2:42 pm to
So sorry about this. for him and for your family. Hope he has a good journey home.
Posted by Muahahaha
Ohio
Member since Nov 2005
5942 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 2:59 pm to
Sorry man. Prayers sent to you and your family.

Cancer sucks!
This post was edited on 4/21/16 at 3:00 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136797 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:33 pm to
You get a chance to say goodbye

Not everyone, myself included, gets that chance
Posted by PanhandleTigah
Florida Freedom Zone
Member since May 2008
9405 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:39 pm to
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how in the hell will I find the strength for that? does it just come natural at the end?
I have lost my father (melanoma) and brother (pancreatic) to cancer. It was soul crushing but you so what you have to do for them. You put on a brave face and smile at them.

I know a lot of people don't believe in essential oils, but I wish I would've known about them when my dad and brother were sick. Frankencense oil blended with some fractionated coconut oil rubbed into the soles of the feet are said to have healing properties.

Besides that, just pray and tell him you love him. Many of us on here have been where you are.
Posted by Das Jackal
Da Bayou
Member since Sep 2011
2580 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:41 pm to
Damn, sorry to hear that..
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:42 pm to
quote:

Frankencense oil blended with some fractionated coconut oil rubbed into the soles of the feet are said to have healing properties


Com'on
Posted by TigerNutts
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2011
2611 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:43 pm to
Deeply sorry to hear. There won't be much you can find positive in. Maybe take this time as at least some warning of your Dad' passing and live with him while he still has some of those. Live it to the fullest and try and be glad you had some type of notice rather than his just being gone from your life right this minute.
Posted by PanhandleTigah
Florida Freedom Zone
Member since May 2008
9405 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 3:47 pm to
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dabigfella
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Hey look Im gonna sound like a nutjob but take this for what its worth. A close family friend of ours had cancer to the point where they told her there is nothing she could do. She had kids, a husband and was a former nurse. She refused to die, she began a strict regimine of enzymes before every meal, juicing hardcore, and shes alive 10 years later.I know people dont believe in that kinda stuff but I am someone who juices once or twice a day and you wont believe the benefits of carrots,beets,ginger,celery in the battle against not just cancer but disease in general. I know it sounds gross but I have a juice daily with 5 carrots,1 beet,small piece of ginger, 1 green apple,1 celery,and a cucumber and i really havent been sick in years knock on wood and I didnt mention but it actually tastes good.
You don't sound like a nutjob to me. I know someone who beat Lymphoma the same way. I tried to get my brother to try it but he didn't buy into it and trusted his doctors.
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:01 pm to
God does not think small like men. For all you know this man is saved already and being called home, or this is the eye opening now or never moment that he needed. This is a time of love and confusion for their family. God willing, he will find peace.
Posted by tigerfan182
Franklin, Tn
Member since Sep 2009
2779 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:09 pm to
Enjoy as much time with him as you can. Every day from here on out is special. Prayers
Posted by mjohn
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2016
9 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:14 pm to
I am really sorry to hear about your father. I think you should do everything possible to boost his immune system. Here is a link that describes the most effective ways to boost immune system. Stay strong! LINK
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65044 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:15 pm to
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Lost my Dad to cancer right before Christmas.
I miss him alot.


I did also. 3 days before. There isn't much you can do. And it does suck to watch them go but we all go through it at some point.
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
36112 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:15 pm to
Prayers to you and your family. As a survivor, I wouldn't wish cancer on my worst enemy.....
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:16 pm to
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I know it sounds gross but I have a juice daily with 5 carrots,1 beet,small piece of ginger, 1 green apple,1 celery,and a cucumber and i really havent been sick in years knock on wood and I didnt mention but it actually tastes good.



not surprised at all

but folks go crazy when they hear cancer
and they'll decide with whatever they're comfy with

I read about a lady doctor who beat breast cancer the same way, so this is no surprise to me

I always advocate that type therapy, but FEAR is the big dictator

that's an interesting website, chrisbeatcancer dot com

did you know, prior to chemotherapy, that the Rockefellers sold kerosene as a cancer therapy?! no joke !!!

do a search for cancer comma kerosene and read
This post was edited on 4/21/16 at 4:18 pm
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65044 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:18 pm to
Also when it's time for hospice Carpenter house is wonderful. I refuse to sit in his chair at their house. It's his chair and I will likely never sit in his chair because I am not half the man he was.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20023 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:25 pm to
Keep the faith! It'll be crappy but see it for what it is and help make him feel loved as much as possible. My mom and wife both succumbed to cancer....
Posted by Purpleye
Westworld
Member since Nov 2010
1732 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:35 pm to
Prayers.. My family has seen enough of cancer. The treatment i wouldn't wish on a dog. I am sorry for you father and your family.
Posted by ThinePreparedAni
In a sea of cognitive dissonance
Member since Mar 2013
11089 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:46 pm to
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boost his immune system


Best way to do this is via diet

High healthy fat (high omega 3/low omega 6), moderate protein, low carb, low inflammatory diet (bordering on ketogenic diet)


Caveat about your link: the producers of that content are only interviewing the survivors who tried these options, not those who tried the same therapy and died (survivorship bias). This is coming from someone who is very open minded on using complementary therapies as adjuncts to conventional therapy

LINK

Caveat: there is little/no data on this being of benefit for prostate cancer (along with the other complementary therapies recommended). Risk/benefit ratio analysis is up to each individual...

quote:


Ketogenic diets as an adjuvant cancer therapy: History and potential mechanism

Cancer cells, relative to normal cells, demonstrate significant alterations in metabolism that are proposed to result in increased steady-state levels of mitochondrial-derived reactive oxygen species (ROS) such as O2 and H2O2. It has also been proposed that cancer cells increase glucose and hydroperoxide metabolism to compensate for increased levels of ROS. Given this theoretical construct, it is reasonable to propose that forcing cancer cells to use mitochondrial oxidative metabolism by feeding ketogenic diets that are high in fats and low in glucose and other carbohydrates, would selectively cause metabolic oxidative stress in cancer versus normal cells. Increased metabolic oxidative stress in cancer cells would in turn be predicted to selectively sensitize cancer cells to conventional radiation and chemotherapies. This review summarizes the evidence supporting the hypothesis that ketogenic diets may be safely used as an adjuvant therapy to conventional radiation and chemotherapies and discusses the proposed mechanisms by which ketogenic diets may enhance cancer cell therapeutic responses.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:51 pm to
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I was replying to the douchebag that said to get right with god. Thats a stupid thing to tell someone. I had cancer myself. Im not stupid enough to think it was prayer that beat it.


My wife is physician she has prayed for a lot of patients, maybe your doctors did too.
Posted by TB026787
Member since Sep 2009
110 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 4:55 pm to
My uncle has the same situation. Spread to his spine. Diagnosed him 4 years ago and gave him 2 years at the time. So don't give up hope. He still does most everything he wants to.
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