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re: ex wife keeping my kids need court to make her stop i guess

Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:42 am to
Posted by uveitis
Ratchet City
Member since Sep 2008
459 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:42 am to
quote:

Mud Hog


quote:

FLBooGoTigs1


Same alter?
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72051 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:46 am to
Get a lawyer.

And you, and everyone else who decides to post information regarding private/legal situations, should take Scruffy's advice.

Don't post your personal shite/legal crap on a public forum.

Have people still not learned that this stuff can come back to haunt you?
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54491 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:47 am to
Nah

FLBOO is a much better poster


Posted by uveitis
Ratchet City
Member since Sep 2008
459 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 2:01 am to
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14417 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 3:56 am to
quote:

No way around it. Get an attorney.


This. I believe the go to in the Ascension area is Stephanie something? Maybe someone here can post the full name for the op.

Other good advice in this thread is to start recording conversations and mind your p's and q's. All this being said, you have young girls. Until your ex stops being a count, the road going forward won't be easy no matter what you do.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15304 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 4:26 am to
You need her to be dealt with? Just say the word baw.
Posted by Cuz413
Member since Nov 2007
7252 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 5:05 am to
quote:

This. I believe the go to in the Ascension area is Stephanie something? Maybe someone here can post the full name for the op.


Stephanie Wall Schexnayder. I've seen the results her work from both sides (men and women) and she's worth every penny.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8369 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:09 am to
Two pages and nobody said kill her? You guys are getting soft
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47469 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:19 am to
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Get your kids taken when you don't have $ for a great lawyer and see how coherent you are....just saying. I feel for this dude.


It was hard as hell for me to stay sober and go to work 5 days a week much less make a coherent statement when my ex was doing the very same thing in june 2011. It's got to be the second sickest feeling in the world to having a kid kidnapped by a stranger.
Posted by Mud Hog
too far from ARKANSAS
Member since Dec 2014
50 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:29 am to
ok just got off work thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.

im gonna start writing down everytime she wont do what shes supposed to do and see if i can blackmail her with it i guess or maybe take it to the judge and give it to him either way shes sneaky and can be a real b*** you know how the exes are lol

other problem is her boyfriend coming over and i know the guy lives there with her. dont know what the guy does or if he even has a job if i see him over there im probly gonna just end up whippin his arse lol
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66899 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:31 am to
Get your custody arrangement in writing or else you're fricked.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64425 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:32 am to
It's sad to see how adults use their children as pawns to hurt their ex-spouses.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47469 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:36 am to
quote:

other problem is her boyfriend coming over and i know the guy lives there with her. dont know what the guy does or if he even has a job if i see him over there im probly gonna just end up whippin his arse lol


Get some pics/footage of him there past kids' bedtime/leaving in the morning.

If you're not going to get lawyer now, keep records of EVERYTHING. If she texts you that you can get them today and then crawfishes, keep time stamped screen shots and print them.

Only thing you can do is file for visitation/custody orders. Those are binding and enforceable. You would just need your copy and call a sheriffs deputy to go over there and get your kids when it's your time. If she's not there/runs off with them, she's in contempt and can go to jail. Problem Solved.

I'm not sure of the forms you need but google it or go visit the courthouse and be humble with the employees and ask nicely for assistance on what to file.
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 6:37 am
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15499 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:53 am to
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sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced


Then continue bitching and watch as your ex wife completely owns you and your kids.
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 6:54 am
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110725 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:54 am to
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thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced
Do you want to see your kids regularly or not?


Seems simple. If yes, get a lawyer.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18644 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:59 am to
quote:

ok just got off work thanks but sorry not using a lawyer swore them off after had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.



Well, this is one custody battle that's lost before it even started.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17468 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:59 am to
Holy crap I am not reading that stuff. It's funny that my son in kindergarten has a better grasp on grammar than the OP.
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
14250 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:01 am to
The court order has specific rules that you two are supposed to adhere to. Start creating a documentation trail for the times when she breaks the rules. A lawyer probably won't help much until you've got documentation. Try to communicate through text or email as much as possible and avoid voice calls if you can.

Before you escalate to a lawyer, make sure you are in compliance with the court order because she might try to fight back. You need to be up to date on child support, address change notifications, etc.

Whatever you do, keep the well-being of the kids as the top priority.
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2500 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:16 am to
quote:

dont want to get lawyers involved (last one fricked me over)


quote:

had to pay over 800 bucks to last one just to get divorced.


if paying a lawyer $800 for representing you in a divorce is "fricking you over" then you're clueless.
Posted by Mung
NorCal
Member since Aug 2007
9054 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:19 am to
Prolly $300 in court costs, plus $500 for a divorce. Wow, that lawyer may retire on his riches.

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