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emotional/verbal abuse just as damaging as physical abuse

Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:32 pm
Posted by Hawkeye95
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:32 pm
Full study

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A new Canadian study finds that emotional abuse may be as harmful as physical abuse and neglect.

Researchers from McGill University say their findings complement previous imaging research showing that emotional and physical pain both activate the same parts of the brain.

Emotional abuse includes behaviors such as ridicule, intimidation, rejection, and humiliation. This form of abuse is much more common than physical abuse and neglect. Worldwide prevalence estimates suggest that approximately one-third of children experience emotional abuse.

The impact of emotional abuse may come as a surprise.

“Although people assume physical abuse is more harmful than other types of abuse, we found that they are associated with similar consequences ,” said Dr. David Vachon, a McGill professor in the Department of Psychology and the study’s first author.

“These consequences are wide-ranging and include everything from anxiety and depression to rule-breaking and aggression.”

Investigator believe the new findings may pave the way for more effective means of addressing how different forms of child abuse should be recognized and treated.


This surprises me. I (along with about a 1/3 of you) were emotionally abused as a child. I always thought that the impact on my life was much less than those I know who were physically abused, but apparently I was wrong.


eta: be nice to your kids, all the research I read says the best course of action for abusive parents is to cut them off in your adult hood.
This post was edited on 10/20/15 at 3:34 pm
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:35 pm to
I don't need a study to tell me not to be an a-hole to my kids. Didn't read
Posted by DHS1997
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:37 pm to
A new Canadian study

This is when I stopped reading
Posted by LucasP
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:37 pm to
My kids are my property. I'll treat them however the frick I want.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:39 pm to
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I always thought that the impact on my life was much less than those I know who were physically abused, but apparently I was wrong.



I submit that by the mere fact that you have to be told it was more significant than you thought, it wasn't that big of a deal.
plus, no one is going to convince me that being a dick to your kids compares with beating the living shite out of them, scalding them with boiling water, or raping/molesting them.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:40 pm to
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My kids are my property. I'll treat them however the frick I want.


My one year old screams at me constantly, for no good reason at all. I just take it. I love her so much, it kind hurts my feelings at times.
Posted by zelman
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:41 pm to
Very hard to define what is and is not "emotional abuse."
Posted by Rickety Cricket
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:41 pm to
This is why I'm glad my daddy just took the belt to me. Made me a man and learned me a thing or two in the process.
Posted by lsuhunt555
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:41 pm to
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I don't need a study to tell me not to be an a-hole to my kids


Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:43 pm to
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I submit that by the mere fact that you have to be told it was more significant than you thought, it wasn't that big of a deal.


I was actually recently told that it has a much bigger impact on my life than I realize, and the reasons were itemized for me.

I know it fricked me up, just maybe not to the extent it did.
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plus, no one is going to convince me that being a dick to your kids compares with beating the living shite out of them, scalding them with boiling water, or raping/molesting them.


Sexual abuse was not a valid comparison in this study.

I think the issue is that the emotional abuse is somewhat ongoing. Physical abuse is a bit more discrete, i.e. you get your arse kicked and its done, where as emotion/verbal abuse was a daily occurrence in my household.
Posted by joeking
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Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:43 pm to
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A new Canadian study


and... done
Posted by KindaRaw
Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:45 pm to
Not really surprised. It all starts at home. A lot of crime & other poor decisions are really due to shittey parenting. I know the kid is ultimately responsible for their actions as an individual, but you have to question how some of these people are being raised. Goes to show some aren't fit for parenting.
Posted by pioneerbasketball
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:45 pm to
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I don't need a study to tell me not to be an a-hole to my kids. Didn't read




I bet they sleep in their bed.
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:46 pm to
You must have never been a pledge
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:48 pm to
It's not your fault.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:53 pm to
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where as emotion/verbal abuse was a daily occurrence in my household.


well I certainly don't minimize or marginalize the harm emotional abuse can do. However, I think its harder to determine what is emotional abuse and what isn't. Sorry you had to go through it. Best of luck to you going forward.
Posted by fishfighter
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 3:53 pm to
So, those that have kids now, what instruction book came with that child?











Posted by AbuTheMonkey
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Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 4:03 pm to
With the problems the social sciences are having these days and the way journalists twist the results of studies anyway, I am going to hold off on this one.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 10/20/15 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

I submit that by the mere fact that you have to be told it was more significant than you thought, it wasn't that big of a deal.
plus, no one is going to convince me that being a dick to your kids compares with beating the living shite out of them, scalding them with boiling water, or raping/molesting them.


This was a psychological study.

Meaning that "being a dick to your kids" (which is a disgustingly awful cute deflective way of talking about emotional abuse...) is just as damaging psychologically as beating the shite out of them/scalding them/raping/molesting them.

Obviously emotional abuse does not cause physical damage to the body like the above does.

So yes, one is worse than the other, and this study isn't saying otherwise.

But saying that emotional abuse is not "that big of a deal" is fricking stupid.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 10/20/15 at 4:16 pm to
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well I certainly don't minimize or marginalize the harm emotional abuse can do. However, I think its harder to determine what is emotional abuse and what isn't. Sorry you had to go through it. Best of luck to you going forward.


its pretty common for victims of emotional abuse to think they weren't abused. there are no marks left, and the family will often deny it happened.
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