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Does Your Wife Still Have The Same Qualities You First Fell In Love With?

Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:10 am
Posted by Scientific73
Metro Atlanta
Member since Jan 2014
723 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:10 am
What has changed throughout time?
Posted by Snoopy04
Republic of Texas
Member since Aug 2015
3015 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:11 am to
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5292 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:12 am to
She farts now, but I’m ok with it since I fart in front of her as well

It has not changed our relationship in any negative way.
This post was edited on 4/15/24 at 10:13 am
Posted by SaintEB
Member since Jul 2008
22692 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:14 am to
Nah, she's put on a few pounds. So have I, so I won't complain every day.


But she makes more money now and also spends more, so it's a net even.
Posted by Rize
Spring Texas
Member since Sep 2011
15768 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:14 am to
Yeah she’s still great! Been together for 18 years and married 16 yrs this August.
Posted by slacker130
Your mom
Member since Jul 2010
7989 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:17 am to
quote:

What has changed throughout time?



She's gotten better with age and I'm a lucky man. 30 years ago this spring.
Posted by SloaneRanger
Upper Hurstville
Member since Jan 2014
7673 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:19 am to
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She's gotten better with age and I'm a lucky man. 30 years ago this spring.


So she knows your TD handle. Got it.
Posted by Colonel Angus
Member since Aug 2007
1621 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:20 am to
People don't change all that much. Yes, they have experiences over life that mold them somewhat and they mature somewhat (mainly in the ability to view things outside of themselves or have better self-introspection), but at their core, they are who they are by age 18ish.

What changes in a marriage are the idiosyncrasies and peccadillos about the spouse that were once cute and unique...no longer are after 20 years. On both sides. It's how we deal with that change within ourselves that determines how unhappy or happy the rest of life with that person is going to be.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64161 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:22 am to
For the most part absolutely. But 3 kids is hard man. They test your resolve, patience, and relationship.

Nobody is going to be the same in that situation as when you’re young and single and don’t have a ton of cares and responsibilities. I don’t begrudge any minor changes. I’ve probably not as charming as I was 20 years ago either
This post was edited on 4/15/24 at 10:34 am
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2501 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:23 am to
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Does Your Wife Still Have The Same Qualities You First Fell In Love With?


Yes, but they're a little lower.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
935 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:23 am to
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So she knows your TD handle. Got it.

Contrary to popular belief, most husbands don’t resent their wives.

To answer the OP, not all of them. But she’s also gained some qualities since then that I love.
Posted by Tenfold
Member since Mar 2023
51 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:24 am to
My wife has gotten better because of the way I treat her.
I made up my mind about three years in that I would speak life giving words into her everyday. After 20 years I still chase her like a she is the only woman alive. I text her multiple times daily how fine she is to me and grab her butt and tits as many time as the day allows. She in turn has taken great care of her skin, body and hair. She has always had high morals but she has truly gotten more beautiful every year. We date once a week and ai look forward to be empty nesters. She is the absolute best friend, wife and person I know.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26710 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:27 am to
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I made up my mind about three years in that I would speak life giving words into her everyday


WTF is this gobbledy goock? Did you learn that at a marriage retreat?
This post was edited on 4/15/24 at 10:36 am
Posted by tylerlsu2008
London
Member since Jul 2015
1086 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:28 am to
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but at their core, they are who they are by age 18ish.



I agree to some extent, but believe it’s a lot later than 18. Nearly all of my major life experiences took place in late 20s to early 30s.

If you never leave your small town or city, maybe its early 20s, but if you move, travel, change careers — it could be a lot later (early / mid-30s).
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
34242 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:28 am to
Yep. Will be 10 years this September and I'm happier now than when we were dating. Mrs. Iwy is pretty awesome. We've had disagreements but I've never once even had to raise my voice at her. I'm a pretty chill dude though but she treats me with a ton of respect so it's hard to complain.
Posted by MardiGrasCajun
Dirty Coast, MS
Member since Sep 2005
5355 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:28 am to
quote:

Does Your Wife Still Have The Same Qualities You First Fell In Love With?


Absolutely, positively she does....16 years and counting.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20087 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:28 am to
Still a good person

… with a nice arse
Posted by el duderino III
People's Republic of Austin
Member since Jul 2011
2382 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:30 am to
quote:

, they are who they are by age 18ish.

I have extremely little in common with the person I was at 18.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18763 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:30 am to
Ye. My wife has changed over 10 years of marriage same as anyone else.

Biggest change is she is less Type A personality and I am little more Type A as our marriage has evolved. She was the planner when we first got married and I was more free flowing. Over time, we sort of moved to a middle ground.
Posted by FlyinTiger93
Member since May 2010
3577 posts
Posted on 4/15/24 at 10:32 am to
Nips still point up.
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