re: Do you prefer that a girl be secretive about certain bodily issues or not?

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But they let us put stuff in them, so it kind of balances out.

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I prefer for EVERYONE to be secretive about that kind of stuff.

I don't want to hear about the dump you just took, the way your farts smell, or any of that other shite.

In fact, please get the frick up and go drop your stank arse farts in the other room if you need to do that.

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I prefer my bodily functions to remain a mystery.

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Too late.

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I believe in the "princess factor". Some girls these days have zero manners or self respect. I treat my wife like a princess and I expect her to act as such when addressing the mentioned issues. I believe we all get treated based off of perceived character. I will treat someone based off of how they present themselves. Class=Class...disrespectful=disrespectful.

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Disregarding all of the "princess" crap, I somewhat agree, to a point. ... If you're talking to your spouse about personal, private issues, you should be able to be open about them, but there's a difference between being open & being crude/crass, for sure. ... As far as discussing things of this nature among acquaintences, with dates, or with people who've just met, particularly in mixed company, I'm kind of surprised that it's discussed at all, by males or females. And it's definitely not that I'm prudish or extremely old-fashioned, but some things like good taste & class are timeless constants.

Unless it's with a SO, spouse, or close friend/relative, casually discussing/joking about, by males or females, "bathroom habits" or other personal "biological functions" among a group of people, especially in mixed company, isn't tasteful, imo, and right or wrong, "classless" & "unintelligent" do come to mind when I hear it, particularly if I'm in the group conversation. It really isn't all that cute, funny, or entertaining unless a toddler or pre-schooler is commenting about being proud about going to the potty.

I don't care to hear about anyone passing gas or waste, certainly not an attractive lady.