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Divorce can bring out the worst in people and get pretty nasty
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:38 pm
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:38 pm
A good friend of mine just went through mediation and got a favorable agreement but what lead up to that was the ugliest disagreement I hope to ever see. He was falsely accused of terrible things by his soon to be ex-wife and MIL. He spent a small fortune defending himself. None of the charges stuck but at the end of the day he just wanted to see his daughter and for it to be over. It went on for over 2 years.
The system is so unfair to the accused. His wife was free to make false charges and the state had to investigate. The CPS advised her how to make it harder for him. It makes me sick to think that a mother would do that to the father of her child.
He had a video of her being a negligent mother and caught her cheating. He was willing to work things out but in counseling she reported a bunch of false charges and keep adding as time went on.
If anyone in here has ever been screwed over in a divorce, my heart goes out you.
The system is so unfair to the accused. His wife was free to make false charges and the state had to investigate. The CPS advised her how to make it harder for him. It makes me sick to think that a mother would do that to the father of her child.
He had a video of her being a negligent mother and caught her cheating. He was willing to work things out but in counseling she reported a bunch of false charges and keep adding as time went on.
If anyone in here has ever been screwed over in a divorce, my heart goes out you.
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Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:40 pm to rebeloke
You are clearly biased in this case. :P
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:41 pm to rebeloke
I'll bet there were many a red flag in the courtship of the ex-wife that your friend missed due to his own inadequacies and/or insecurities.
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 7:44 pm
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:43 pm to rebeloke
How two adults can't come to an agreement, I do not understand, Especially with children involved. It's really just utterly selfish to act like that when there is an impressionable child in the middle of it.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:43 pm to boosiebadazz
Thinking the same thing. Choose wisely folks.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:43 pm to rebeloke
Been there done that
Live with the consequences every day
Live with the consequences every day
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:46 pm to rebeloke
Seen it many times, and every time the warning signs were there from the start.
Don't have sex with someone whose life is a mess. Better to be single.
Don't have sex with someone whose life is a mess. Better to be single.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:47 pm to boosiebadazz
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boosiebadazz
For sure. He grew up in a broken home and all he ever wanted was a family of his own. He had no idea how screwed up his in-laws were and was very naïve going into the relationship. Still nothing could have given him insight into the depths they would go. Most people are not that evil. What they've done should be a crime, and from what I understand it is a felony in some states.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:50 pm to rebeloke
The woman is always right.
Husband is guilty until provem innocent.
I know one case, my old boss, where he would show up to work with black eyes, bruises, etc. I knew his wife and her friends as well. She never had a scratch.
He was arrested many times for domestic violence, thankfully not one charge ever even made it to court.
Husband is guilty until provem innocent.
I know one case, my old boss, where he would show up to work with black eyes, bruises, etc. I knew his wife and her friends as well. She never had a scratch.
He was arrested many times for domestic violence, thankfully not one charge ever even made it to court.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:52 pm to rebeloke
I had a friend who came home one day to his wife and three children and the police.
She had accused him of mollesting the children. She wanted a divorce and full custody. CPS made his life a living hell and he did not see his kids for over a year. But in the end, the judge saw through her, awarded him full custody and said he wished he could put something on this woman's record to tell the world how bad of a person she was.
She had accused him of mollesting the children. She wanted a divorce and full custody. CPS made his life a living hell and he did not see his kids for over a year. But in the end, the judge saw through her, awarded him full custody and said he wished he could put something on this woman's record to tell the world how bad of a person she was.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:54 pm to rebeloke
Link the POS mother
I loathe them
I loathe them
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:55 pm to anc
I would kill her
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:56 pm to rebeloke
Luckily I was married to a dumb kunt who knew it all and she ended up burying herself.
Dumbass had like 10 credit cards in both our names (should be illegal for a creditor to put cards in a name without proof of consent) all maxed out and right before we got divorced, she transferred all of the debit to her grandmothers card because of lower interest. BOOM!!! Freed me up from liability...our problem(even though I've never had a card I knew about) became they're problem. Everything else lined up behind it. I ended up with everything including a house in Dutchtown I never wanted. Only loss I took was the loss when I sold the house. I was one of the lucky one though.
Dumbass had like 10 credit cards in both our names (should be illegal for a creditor to put cards in a name without proof of consent) all maxed out and right before we got divorced, she transferred all of the debit to her grandmothers card because of lower interest. BOOM!!! Freed me up from liability...our problem(even though I've never had a card I knew about) became they're problem. Everything else lined up behind it. I ended up with everything including a house in Dutchtown I never wanted. Only loss I took was the loss when I sold the house. I was one of the lucky one though.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:59 pm to rebeloke
A rebeloke thread with more upvotes than downvotes.
Never thought I'd see that.
Never thought I'd see that.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:59 pm to Asharad
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You are clearly biased in this case. :P
Your new OT name is Asshat.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:03 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
quote:I agree. Most don't act like adults though or simply aren't mature. Some people think they are all grown up and mature bc they are married and have kids and that's not always the case. It usually comes out when adversity happens and they revert back to their high school ways and act like little bitches.
How two adults can't come to an agreement, I do not understand, Especially with children involved
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:04 pm to rebeloke
I'm sure you don't know the whole story.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:08 pm to boosiebadazz
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I'll bet there were many a red flag in the courtship of the ex-wife that your friend missed due to his own inadequacies and/or insecurities
I get what you're saying, but I know two guys that got completely blindsided. Both well educated(Higher degree Bio-med and Law).
One's wife (professional, educated) would have affairs with her married colleague on business trips. I'm a quick judge of all things negative and this surprised the shite out of me, never would have guessed. They were doing well, but when the bubble burst and they had some financial trouble (his investments), and she started fricking some other dude.
The other got transferred to a smallish town and met an adorable local girl, they dated for a year, got married, then she got pregnant a year later. 3 years together, she gives birth(cesarean). Doctor gave her some pain pills and then everything changed. They started fighting, money started going missing, then she started going missing for hours, then days...until a relative knocked on his door to tell him where to find her. He goes to the hood and knocks on the door for a guy to answer and say 'take your wife we're tired of fricking her'
She ended up having a addiction problem but had cleaned herself up, and no one told him because they didn't want to ruin things for her. When she got a taste again, it was over.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:09 pm to rebeloke
Divorce also shows you how stacked the courts are against Men.
Know a guy who's wife has been seeing another man for 2 years and had to be put in rehab, because she's on heroin.
She got out and wants EVERYTHING. and his lawyer is giving in to all demands, i'm pushing him to get a new lawyer. Even then, he's still at a huge disadvantage going in.
For every man that was won, there are 50, who had the judge take them to the woodshed, even with evidence of her infidelity.
Know a guy who's wife has been seeing another man for 2 years and had to be put in rehab, because she's on heroin.
She got out and wants EVERYTHING. and his lawyer is giving in to all demands, i'm pushing him to get a new lawyer. Even then, he's still at a huge disadvantage going in.
For every man that was won, there are 50, who had the judge take them to the woodshed, even with evidence of her infidelity.
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:13 pm to SeeeeK
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evidence of her infidelity.
'obviously due to the emotional distress that he caused'
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