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re: Dating Advice: Who do I choose?

Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:27 am to
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63312 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:27 am to
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she is obviously significantly overweight and doesn't exactly have the greatest smile in the world.


Damn. And that's your girlfriend you're describing in that way.
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:30 am to
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So she is 21, overweight and not even attempting to do anything about it?


Apparently, she had major body image issues as a kid and has admitted that she always felt that she could never live up to the unattainable "cover model look". What's crazy is that her older sister (with a kid) looks pretty good and her 48-year-old mother has the same figure as my girlfriend does. Personally, I want to exceed my father's physique when I reach his age, not mimic it during my mid-20s.

She eats and drinks as she chooses and seldom works out aside from jogging around the lakes. I've never brought up the matter because I didn't want her to feel self-conscious as I tried to push my lifestyle on her. I'm a former distance runner who has been weightlifting/powerlifting for about six years and I eat completely clean (no fast food, no processed carbs, no sweets, no drugs, no alcohol, etc.). She never objects to my eating habits and is willing to work around my meal schedule, but she has never appeared to want to emulate any of my behavior.
Posted by tes fou
Member since Feb 2014
838 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:31 am to
The answer was:

"you're 21 smash both and STFU"

Then I saw that one is fat and the other is ginger, new answer:

"Eject"
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:31 am to
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Sweet troll bro


If only.
Posted by John McClane
Member since Apr 2010
36691 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:32 am to
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:34 am to
Just go ahead and get with the other girl. It's the only way you'll learn your lesson.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:36 am to
dp
This post was edited on 8/2/14 at 11:37 am
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:42 am to
OP you're a complete moron and as I suspected, you're trolling this board and suck at it.

I'm starting to believe that even if this were true, both girls would be better off dumping you.
Posted by LSUTIGER in TEXAS
Member since Jan 2008
13608 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:44 am to
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Sounds like you're lusting over the prettier girl (#2)
I win.
Posted by LSUTIGER in TEXAS
Member since Jan 2008
13608 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:45 am to
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Apparently, she had major body image issues as a kid and has admitted that she always felt that she could never live up to the unattainable "cover model look". What's crazy is that her older sister (with a kid) looks pretty good and her 48-year-old mother has the same figure as my girlfriend does. Personally, I want to exceed my father's physique when I reach his age, not mimic it during my mid-20s. She eats and drinks as she chooses and seldom works out aside from jogging around the lakes. I've never brought up the matter because I didn't want her to feel self-conscious as I tried to push my lifestyle on her. I'm a former distance runner who has been weightlifting/powerlifting for about six years and I eat completely clean (no fast food, no processed carbs, no sweets, no drugs, no alcohol, etc.). She never objects to my eating habits and is willing to work around my meal schedule, but she has never appeared to want to emulate any of my behavior.
bad genetics. Get out now. Can't beat Mother Nature
Posted by blue_morrison
Member since Jan 2013
5128 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:49 am to
Scratch that itch dump da bitch
Posted by RDOtiger
Zachary
Member since Oct 2013
1146 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:04 pm to
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My girlfriend and I get along great, but I have always felt that something is missing in our relationship when it comes to physical attraction.


You make think physical attractiveness is trivial and superficial, but it's very important. It's true that looks do not last forever; however, if she is not attractive to you now, she will not become more attractive to you as time passes. Do not base your relationship purely on looks, but do not dismiss considering looks as being a shallow person either. If you and your GF are getting serious and you're not physically attracted to her, you're setting both of y'all up for failure...
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16572 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:11 pm to
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5'4" 180-185


Posted by jimithing11
Dillon, Texas
Member since Mar 2011
22472 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:23 pm to


You probably had most going until you threw the weight out there

You're either fat or a troll, both of which mean you live a lonely, miserably life

Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:36 pm to
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You're either fat or a troll, both of which mean you live a lonely, miserably life


I have read enough threads on this board to realize how 6'0" 192lb could be viewed as fat by some of you twigs.
Posted by jimithing11
Dillon, Texas
Member since Mar 2011
22472 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:43 pm to
After reading your responses, I'm pretty certain you recently watched MTV True Life my SO is fat and created a troll thread based off the character

Bravo
Posted by BigSquirrel
Member since Jul 2013
1880 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 12:53 pm to
Life is too short. Do what makes you happy withoutf'ing anyone else over.
Posted by bbeck
Member since Dec 2011
14560 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 1:04 pm to
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Might as well call it off if you are already looking outside the relationship for fulfillment

This. Only 6 months and this is already happening? Go with your gut on this one. Better not frick up and lose both of em.
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28429 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 1:16 pm to
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5'4" 180-185.
BMI = 31.8 (obese)
quote:

5'2" 120
BMI = 21.9 (normal)

How does this not make your choice even easier?

Plus there's this:
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She is small and slender with a phenomenal backside and good hips. She has less curves upstairs but she also has beautiful red hair, a phenomenal smile, and a "frecklish" complexion.


She sounds hot.
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she just so happens to have shitty genetics

Don't blame her genetics. She's eating shitty food, and lots of it, apparently. Not everyone does that.
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She has DDs

Most obese women do.
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However, she is obviously significantly overweight and doesn't exactly have the greatest smile in the world.

It's good that these things bother you.

Posted by JawjaTigah
Bizarro World
Member since Sep 2003
22501 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 1:21 pm to
You sound like a pretty decent guy. But like many decent guys, you can get yourself into trouble when you confuse important relationships with sex. For example, you said...
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My girlfriend and I get along great, but I have always felt that something is missing in our relationship when it comes to physical attraction.
First, I call BS because up the OP you first said this...
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The sex is outstanding and I can tell that she really cares about me. Everything has been fine...until a couple of weeks ago.
Which means --> you are playing around in the temptation zone. Why do I say this? Because in days gone by, I played there too. Only I was married and this is my big, eternal regret.You said as much yourself when you told the 2nd girl...
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I began to feel guilty about openly flirting with this girl so I admitted that I had a girlfriend
and then...
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She told me her friend thought it was weird that I wanted to hang out with her despite having a girlfriend. I replied that I thought it was perfectly fine and asked her how she felt about it. She said she also thought it was a little weird but that she never said that her intentions were pure.
You are playing with fire, friend. If you have real feelings for the first girl, this is not a good place to be playing. You are experiencing what it means to be a male in this time and culture (available temptations are all around us, all the time). But give in to temptation, compromise with it, and worse - act on it (have sex with the 2nd girl)- and you will wind up with major life-long regrets. I hope it's not too late to run, not walk, back to your girlfriend and walk away, no - run away from the temptation you're playing with. Close that book while you still can.
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