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re: Dating Advice: Who do I choose?

Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:50 am to
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:50 am to
And check out the mom's looks for aging outlook.
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
28193 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:52 am to
And we don't do this shite for free. Will need your insurance information and payment method.
Posted by LSUSUPERSTAR
TX
Member since Jan 2005
16311 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:53 am to
You are all really young. Have fun with both and quit worrying about long term relationships. You have 10 more years before it should be an issue. Enjoy life.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:54 am to
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But honestly you just have to trust your gut and never look back


Worst advice ever, your gut is fricking retarded. Listen to what your instincts tell you and do something different from that.
Posted by CoCo311
Anyone want my shirt??
Member since Jun 2012
16770 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:56 am to
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Might as well call it off if you are already looking outside the relationship for fulfillment



This. If you're already questioning it, it's not going to get any better.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 10:57 am to
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You are all really young. Have fun with both and quit worrying about long term relationships



He should make it clear to the first girl that he doesn't want to be exclusive though. 6 months in...I would think we were pretty exclusive.



Being young doesn't give you the excuse to cheat.
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
17995 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:03 am to
He hasn't done anything physical with girl #2 (at least he didn't mention it). If that is the case, then I wouldn't consider that cheating. That's just college.

Only real issue here is the lack of clarity with the girlfriend on whether they are exclusive or not.

OP, you should probably have a chat with the GF about that
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:03 am to
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Which one's family is a stronger family with better values and success, and a string faith?

Theres your answer. Looks are fine, but you need someone who's values will be taught to your children.

By the way, your a fricking couch by cheating and not being honest to who matters, your gf!


Honestly, I do feel like a piece of shite. Despite the fact that I haven't physically acted upon my attraction to the other girl, my emotional connection and attraction to her certainly constitutes as cheating. She even asked me how do I think my girlfriend would feel about us hanging out together.

On paper, this new girl makes sense. Her parents are still together and she seems to have pretty solid values. Meanwhile, my girlfriend's parents are divorced and she has a terrible relationship with her father. She is also an athiest who is politically and socially the polar opposite of me in most respects. On the other hand, she cares deeply about most people in her life and is a very kind person who makes me feel special.

With that being said, I'm not looking for a life-long partner or marriage any time soon. Still, I'm not looking to sleep around or play the field. I prefer monogamy and I feel comfortable being with the same person.

I just don't want any regrets with my decision and I don't want to have any feelings of resentment if I choose the wrong one.
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
17995 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:06 am to
In that case...

Girl #2 and don't look back.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:09 am to
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she has a terrible relationship with her father


This is all you need to know. However she is with her father, she will be with you.

Been married 28 years and I have seen it time and time again.

quote:

With that being said, I'm not looking for a life-long partner or marriage any time soon.


You are not going to be "looking" when she comes into your life. Find values that are important to you and stick with them. You never know when "she" will come along.
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:13 am to
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Pics are needed


Hell no.

However, to give you a better idea I'll describe the two of them. My girlfriend is about 5'4" 180-185. What's fricked up is that she eats no differently than females who are nearly half her size (Raman, sushi, fast food, and other shite that college-aged girls eat on a regular basis), but she just so happens to have shitty genetics. She has DDs, tan skin, and has long chestnut hair. She also has some of the most gorgeous eyes I have ever seen. However, she is obviously significantly overweight and doesn't exactly have the greatest smile in the world.

The other girl is about 5'2" 120. She is small and slender with a phenomenal backside and good hips. She has less curves upstairs but she also has beautiful red hair, a phenomenal smile, and a "frecklish" complexion.

They're not exactly twins.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:14 am to
You're a man of wisdom Wolfhound
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134860 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:15 am to
TL;DR

See hot/crazy scale thread
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:16 am to
Therein lies your answer.

The younger girl has not yet been exposed to a buffet of young men at college. When, and if, she does go to college, she will likely become interested in sampling the buffet line.

The other girl is a senior and getting ready to be away from that buffet line. She already has a sense of commitment to you.

If you want a secure, monogamous relationship right now, stick with your current GF. If you want to get back into playing the field with limited commitment, go after the younger girl. Just know that it likely won't last long if she selects to attend college. She will test the waters there. You know this.
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
37714 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:18 am to
Both of those girls sound ugly. Cut them both out and start over
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:19 am to
So she is 21, overweight and not even attempting to do anything about it?



Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:19 am to
Never mind. Just read this. Go with girl #2. Girl 1 is a train wreck waiting to happen.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83933 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:19 am to
Start over, dude. Sounds like you need to start working out.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:21 am to
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Girl 1 is a train wreck waiting to happen.



She does sound like she has some serious issues.



However.....she still doesn't deserve a bf that is seeing someone on the side.


OP...be a man and break up with the first girl before going any further with the second girl.
Posted by John McClane
Member since Apr 2010
36690 posts
Posted on 8/2/14 at 11:24 am to
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My girlfriend is about 5'4" 180-185.


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The other girl is about 5'2" 120.

Sweet troll bro
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