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re: Dating a chick with an infant

Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:47 am to
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68450 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:47 am to
You're a cuck for asking and not being a man
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113941 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:49 am to
If she was "worth" dating before you found out she had a 6 month old, then she is still "worth" dating after learning she has a 6 month old.

Okay, so she has a kid and she is single. Don't judge her based on that single fact. In fact, if things work out between the two of you it would be better to be involved in her child's life as early as possible.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:49 am to
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Problem is that she is single with a 6mo old and has never been married.


In Morgan Freeman's voice from Batman:

Let me get this straight, this woman you met is an unmarried, unattached, mother with a 6 month old infant that spends her time looking for dates instead of parenting her infant and your idea is to date this person?

Good luck.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20360 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:49 am to
Of course she's a smoke show . It truly is impressive that everyone on the OT either dates or is married to a smoke show. The term smoke show is thrown around in here just as much liberals throw around racism.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:50 am to
Duuuuude...Duuuuuude

run!
Posted by TU Rob
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2008
12737 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:53 am to
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Let me get this straight, this woman you met is an unmarried, unattached, mother with a 6 month old infant that spends her time looking for dates instead of parenting her infant and your idea is to date this person?


Honestly, in this situation I think the never married thing is a plus. We all know people who have had a surprise on the way. If the father wasn't fit to marry and she moved on and is raising the kid alone, she's possibly a strong woman and may be great. Better than a gold-digger going after a deadbeat dad or getting married and then divorced shortly after.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:54 am to
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she's possibly a strong woman and may be great.


She's also possibly a psycho skank.

She has an infant. Without a father.
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85010 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:55 am to
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Ask her to choose between you and the baby. Ask her to put the baby up for adoption.






I wish I could upvote infinity.
Posted by TU Rob
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2008
12737 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:56 am to
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She's also possibly a psycho skank.


Well, we already established she's female, so I thought we all assumed that was a given.
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2309 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 11:56 am to
Hit and run is what I can tell you. You have to deal with the Ex-husband and all of that drama. The kid and all of that drama. Notice the work drama continues to pop up. Say bye
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
6024 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
Does she have a job?
Posted by Slippy
Across the rivah
Member since Aug 2005
6578 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:04 pm to
Two words:

Casey Anthony.
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8589 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:04 pm to
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Okay, so she has a kid and she is single. Don't judge her based on that single fact. In fact, if things work out between the two of you it would be better to be involved in her child's life as early as possible.

The problem isn't that she has a kid, the problem is that it's 6 months old.

In all honesty, I don't want to look like a cuck carrying around an infant that's not mine. If the kid was 5 or 6 it wouldn't be an issue.
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8589 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:07 pm to
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Does she have a job?

Yes, she's a dental assistant. I know that's not a very high paying job but at least she does have one.
Posted by pjab
Member since Mar 2016
5646 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:07 pm to
It's not like the kid is calling you uncle yet. What's the big deal?
Posted by Montezuma
Member since Apr 2013
3629 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:09 pm to
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She's also possibly a psycho skank.

She has an infant. Without a father.


Are pro-life Christians psychos? Maybe an accidental condom break with a now ex-boyfriend put her in a morality scenario.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21888 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:16 pm to
Wouldn't completely rule it out, but need more backstory. Especially regarding situation between the girl and baby daddy. Is he still in the picture at all or bailed completely? How long have they been split up and what caused it? If its a recent breakup, I'd steer clear or just hit and run. The more recent the breakup, the higher the chances she's just looking for a guy to financially support her, trying to make the baby daddy jealous, or that she might leave you to go back to the baby daddy "because they want to work things out for the kid's sake".
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
18768 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:17 pm to
Who gives a frick about looking like a cuck? It does not matter if you are happy with this girl. She should do better than you
This post was edited on 7/21/17 at 12:17 pm
Posted by Sidicous
Middle of Nowhere
Member since Aug 2015
17144 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:20 pm to
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Yes, she's a dental assistant. I know that's not a very high paying job but at least she does have one.


So it's her bosses kid eh?
Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
56466 posts
Posted on 7/21/17 at 12:37 pm to
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The problem isn't that she has a kid, the problem is that it's 6 months old.



No. The problem is that she has a kid who is 6 months old, without a father, and is actively pursing dating. With that said, what could possibly be the end game?



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