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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:39 pm to
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:39 pm to
Posted by Burt Reynolds
Monterey, CA
Member since Jul 2008
22443 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 5:20 pm to
Beta as frick
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 5:21 pm to
Start talking to other girls. Hand either goes back to you or your relationship will end (probably because she ends up cheating).
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
18916 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 6:17 pm to
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Realize the blatantly obvious, she likes this other guy. Tell her what's up and if she is difficult about it, walk your arse out the door.

Respect yourself and associate yourself with a woman who respects you.


This, is the only answer. You'll feel great in about 3 months. She's not at all worth the trouble.
Posted by Akit1
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2006
7611 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 6:20 pm to
If he bugs you that much exploit whatever weakness he has. There has to be something in his armor you can exploit.

Posted by CroakaBait
Gulf Coast of the Land Mass
Member since Nov 2013
3974 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 6:24 pm to
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fricking schmohawk

Just added this gem to my vocabulary, thanks!
Posted by JAP
st. rose
Member since Oct 2008
110 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 6:51 pm to
Break up with her then knock him the frick out you'll feel better I did
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65667 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 6:53 pm to
The OP (Sir Winston) in "A Christmas Story".

"I like the Tin Man!"

Posted by DevinTheDude
Member since Jun 2011
211 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:57 pm to
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Tell him that you used to buttfrick a guy in prison that was in his field, and you're really interested in what he does. That'll throw him off


This slayed me for some reason.
Posted by Boats n Hose
NOLA
Member since Apr 2011
37248 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:10 pm to
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like "I'm better than this dude

I dunno dude. Money aside, being a professor carries some prestige. Dude has a PhD. Do you have a professional degree?

"Oh but I make more money"
So? This dude put in more work to take a job making less money because it was something he's passionate about. You just sold out to the man. He's got you beat there. Sorry bro.
Posted by pilsnerpusher
Member since Sep 2009
1366 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:17 pm to
Has it occured to you that because she thinks you are a "player" and a flight risk, she is insecure about losing you and is therefore putting you in a position where you are uncomfortable in order for you to swallow the hook? She wants you to see that she is a) independent and surrounded by a large group of friends, and b) fawned over by an attractive man.

I think your insecurity is exactly what she wants. It makes you obsess over her. She wants to draw you in and is using this setting to do so. Sounds like it is working.
Posted by lsuroadie
South LA
Member since Oct 2007
8396 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:19 pm to
ditch the bitch, move on
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
6606 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:23 pm to
Whip his arse. Cause a situation then drop him. If she picks him up you have your answer. Y'all young bucks too sensitive
Posted by Darkknight
Member since Mar 2012
1415 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:36 pm to
Bill Gates to Mr. PHD..... Hahahaha! Most COE's to Mr. PHD.....Hahahahaha. Me to PHD's...Hahahahaha.

You can give better advice than this dude. IMO most cases, all a PHD is gonna do is get you a job at a university. Get you more money, not really. Get you more pussy, not really.
Posted by Darkknight
Member since Mar 2012
1415 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:43 pm to
Winston, Ive read what you had to say and what most of the OT's advice is. I think you knew what your situation is/was before you posted and I think you figured out what you needed to do for your particular situation. Everyone had advice, but only you know the full story and what will make you happy. Best of luck you you whatever the outcome.
Posted by Boats n Hose
NOLA
Member since Apr 2011
37248 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:47 pm to
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You can give better advice than this dude. IMO most cases, all a PHD is gonna do is get you a job at a university. Get you more money, not really. Get you more pussy, not really.


I didn't say it would get you more money. I actually said the opposite.

I just said that the guy is a professor, and a job in academia carries prestige.

Above a certain point, money is a poor measure of success IMHO anyway.

Dude is a professor, seems to be a pretty interesting guy, has a lot of shite going on. OP is just doing some boring shite making more money and is butthurt he isn't as interesting to women as professor dude. Professor > OP

Money gets you more pussy when you're dealing with dumb chicks but with intelligent women you'll do better just being an smart, intriguing-arse motherfricker.

Above a certain point, money is a poor measure of success anyway.
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
6606 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:52 pm to
Enjoy your Camry.
Posted by Dr. Morgus
Member since Dec 2001
Member since Jul 2013
3740 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:56 pm to
"My GF worships him because they're been friends for ages and he's a professor"

I think you stole this from Saved by the Bell the college years
Posted by Boats n Hose
NOLA
Member since Apr 2011
37248 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:59 pm to
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Enjoy your Camry.


I'm not a sissy city boy bro, I have a truck.

And I didn't say I'm a professor. I fricking hate doing research.
Posted by TigerinKorea
Member since Aug 2014
8287 posts
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:12 pm to
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I could either try to platonically hang out with some of my old GF's


Do this. Play by the rules that she is subconsciously setting, meaning if it's ok for her to be besties with that dude, and talk about him all the time, then it's ok for you to keep your relationship with members of the opposite sex that you know.

You have your girlfriend, and if it works out, then great. If she hooks up with him, or if you happen to hook up with one of your friends, then it wasn't meant to be.

I agree with the poster who says that the decision to be monogomous should be an organic one that happens when you meet someone that knocks your socks off.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 10:29 pm
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