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re: Asking how the baby is when the "Mom" has miscarried......

Posted on 5/28/14 at 6:51 am to
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 6:51 am to
Literally the opposite of everything this guy said... Telling her you want to frick will make her feel desireable again and give her the idea that she can replace the underachiever.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65650 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 6:59 am to
"underachiever"
This post was edited on 5/28/14 at 7:00 am
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80888 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:03 am to
Yall are fricking stupid

If this happens (like has been said) just say you are sorry and that you were unaware of the miscarriage. Leave it at that
This post was edited on 5/28/14 at 7:05 am
Posted by Ghostfacedistiller
BR
Member since Jun 2008
17500 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:06 am to
quote:

Simply explain to her that it was her fault for not letting it be known that she lost the baby. Remember, you did nothing wrong here, this is on her (it's important not to beat yourself up about things like this). THEN offer her sex.


This. This right here is correct
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:09 am to
Nah, you definitely manipulate her into giving up the poon.
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
Crimson Tide Fan Club
Member since Oct 2012
15574 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:09 am to
hopefully you managed a response before asking the internet
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:10 am to
"uh... Uh... Let me get back to you" :runsaway:
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:11 am to
quote:

say you are sorry and that you were unaware of the miscarriage.


Wrong. This shows weakness and sets a bad precedent. If he takes this approach, he'll be expected to apologize every time this broad has a miscarriage.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80888 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:28 am to
Nvm
This post was edited on 5/28/14 at 7:29 am
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:46 am to
quote:

Yall are fricking stupid


They're just being asses.

Personally (at the risk of being that Francis guy), I think it's somewhat questionable to crack jokes about someone losing a child but whatever.
This post was edited on 5/28/14 at 7:47 am
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52147 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:49 am to
quote:

What do you say?
Nothing. You already said it
Posted by DrunkenStuporMan
The Mothership
Member since Dec 2012
5855 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:51 am to
Pics?
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:53 am to
In addition, this question (how's the baby?) is NOT a question that you lead off with when talking to a chick you aren't close to. Statistically you're just asking for something bad to happen.

Just ask how she's doing if you're trying to start up a conversation.
Posted by NOFLyZ0ne28
West Florida
Member since Apr 2014
876 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:53 am to
This isn't really that bad of a situation at all. If you couldn't talk your way out of it with a simple "I'm sorry to hear....", you're an idiot.
This post was edited on 5/28/14 at 7:56 am
Posted by reb13
Member since May 2010
10905 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 7:59 am to
quote:

Just ask how she's doing if you're trying to start up a conversation.


Exactly and as the ot has taught us that if they have a kid they will bring it up within 30 seconds and talk about them for hours. So technically it's just a lose lose. They miscarry/terminate and you're a jackass, they have said child you end up talking about their kid for 2 hours.
Posted by CheeseburgerEddie
Crimson Tide Fan Club
Member since Oct 2012
15574 posts
Posted on 5/28/14 at 8:10 am to
good point, will it ever be acceptable to tell people you don't care to hear all about their children?
Posted by Charlie Arglist
Wichita, Kansas
Member since Nov 2012
5550 posts
Posted on 5/30/14 at 2:02 am to
quote:

Nah, you definitely manipulate her into giving up the poon.


Yeah, but do you wear a condom????????
Posted by Brettesaurus Rex
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2009
38259 posts
Posted on 5/30/14 at 7:55 am to
You broke a cardinal rule. Never ask about a pregnancy you're not 100% sure is there.

Now if you knew she was and were simply asking about it and you didn't know...I mean you could have never known.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65650 posts
Posted on 5/30/14 at 8:03 am to
quote:

You broke a cardinal rule. Never ask about a pregnancy you're not 100% sure is there.


This

Unless it's your SO or sister (or in Arky this line gets blurred), NEVER volunteer to a woman you think/know to be pregnant ANYTHING about the (potential) issue.

Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43103 posts
Posted on 5/30/14 at 8:03 am to
How about asking when's the due date after the whale has given birth? I've done that.
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