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Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:17 am to SlowFlowPro
I'd like to find the author Jamie Utt and punch him in the face
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:18 am to SlowFlowPro
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Considering that cisgender men like myself are socialized in the context of the violence of patriarchy, we need to own the fact that cis-masculinity is fundamentally oppressive and violent.
I’m so tired of these cucked figs speaking on behalf of me.
This post was edited on 12/18/18 at 9:18 am
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:19 am to TH03
you're just defensive because you enjoy the benefits and protection that the patriarchy has given you, baw
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:20 am to oogabooga68
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Modern Feminists are nothing but lonely, psychotic cat-women.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:23 am to SlowFlowPro
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however, the article devolves into saying disagreeing with your partner and showing her why you're right is violence (it violates 3 and 4). this specific plan is another insidious bait and switch. yes, removing clearly toxic language would help, but this entire article displays how they want to destroy all sorts of regular language in order to expand their control.
If you’ve ever been married, you would know that a lot of women think this way, or at least want you to believe this so you’ll cave.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:25 am to SlowFlowPro
Have you ever tried he how cares the least?
It works. I'm sure you've never even been to that point
It works. I'm sure you've never even been to that point
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:26 am to kingbob
in my life, the general response (from men, women, etc) is more to try to pick out any error i make, no matter how slight, to show that i'm not perfect 
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:28 am to SlowFlowPro
The patriarchy is the shite.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:31 am to kingbob
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disagreeing with your partner and showing her why you're right is violence
I love when these people are pressed on the definition of violence. All you have to do is say that violence is a crime, so these people should be prosecuted and be thrown in a cage for several years. They then retort about how violence doesn't actually mean physical violence and there are varying degrees which don't amount to actual physical damage. They're redefining every word imaginable
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:32 am to upgrayedd
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They're redefining every word imaginable
yes it shows how language can be so powerful in these areas
this entire extremist worldview is based off that lie
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:34 am to oogabooga68
Look, this is to be expected from women who have bought in to this feminist crap. They are the weaker creatures and don’t really know what they really want half the time. Their strength doesn’t lie in leadership and logic... it lies in more awesome things like love, tenderness, connection, and nurture. All of these things can and have brought the most stonehearted men to their knees. But women need THAT. They think they want latte soyboys, but what they really want is a man who could crush them 6-days-to-Sunday to be so enamored with them that they become the most precious thing in that mans life. WORTH... that’s what everyone is after. And nothing gives a woman a sense of worth more than a man - a real man - using, NOT GIVING UP, his manliness to protect and cherish her with every fiber of his manly self.... and ladies, nothing gives a man more worth, and makes him want to focus his manliness more to cherish you, than your tender, nourishing, blissful touch and recognition of his leadership and being a MAN. This is how GOD designed men and women. And it’s a perfect symbiosis when done properly.
A woman, being a woman, is the most undeniably attractive, sexy, and awesome creature God has created. Ladies, do NOT sell all of that away for this feminist propaganda. Be tender. Be desirable. Be a woman... and you will have your pick of REAL men to choose from.
A woman, being a woman, is the most undeniably attractive, sexy, and awesome creature God has created. Ladies, do NOT sell all of that away for this feminist propaganda. Be tender. Be desirable. Be a woman... and you will have your pick of REAL men to choose from.
This post was edited on 12/18/18 at 9:36 am
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:36 am to Bama and Beer
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Have you ever tried he how cares the least?
Yep. All previous relationships went straight to hell as soon as I started caring more than she did. When I was just “enjoying the ride”, and assuming the relationship would end relatively soon, but making the most of it while I could, things were great. When I was trying to hold the relationship together, it fell apart. I believe a big part of it is the perception of confidence. Women are attracted to confidence and decisiveness. When I knew she cared more than me, it’s like playing with house money. I’m not thinking about the consequences and I’m mostly just doing what’s good for me which I think she might enjoy too. When i care more than she does, I’m constantly trying to impress her and trying to figure out what a woman wants is extremely stressful. Rather than be comfortable, relaxed, and open to whatever life throws at me, I get stressed, neurotic, self-conscious, indecisive, and come across as anything but confident. Those behaviors are anything but sexy.
My only question is whether those behaviors were purely reactive to my mind’s perception that I cared more than she did, and thus actually a self-fulfilling prophecy (I thought wrongly that she cared less, but in trying to make her care more, I actually caused her to care less) or if these were the reactions to a real change on her end that couldn’t be reversed no matter what I did.
All I know is that aloof, selfish, relaxed, practically sociopathic Bob has way more relationship success than the Bob that cares deeply about other’s wants, desires, dreams, and emotions and tries to bring them to fruition.
This post was edited on 12/18/18 at 9:38 am
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:36 am to SlowFlowPro
quote:I see this a lot when it comes to fourth-wave feminism arguments; something along the lines of "well you might think you're not practicing [insert xenophobia, racism, sexism, etc.], but let me tell you why you are." and then they usually go on to describe some infinitesimal behavior (such as the beloved microaggression) that has no actual bearing on reality.
When men and women in my life first called on me to consider how my actions might be abusive or violent, I was incredulous: “I have never laid my hands on anyone, let alone a woman!”
But we do ourselves a disservice to think of violence only as actions that cause physical harm, as violence can take myriad forms.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:37 am to SlowFlowPro
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Full stop.
There's a 100% chance that everything you ever see listed before this phrase is complete and utter bullshite.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:39 am to Oilfieldbiology
This shite is past the point of comical. They are going to keep pushing this narrative until some guys absolutely snap and think to themselves, "they think I'm violent? Ok, I'll show these frickers violence." And a group of these incel types are going to massacre a bunch of women and "progressive" men.
I would never do anything like that because I think all of this shite is dumb and I try to be a good person, but it's going to happen.
I would never do anything like that because I think all of this shite is dumb and I try to be a good person, but it's going to happen.
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:40 am to SlowFlowPro
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Women who find sexist men attractive are not being traitors to other women, nor are they naïve women who don’t understand their choices. Instead, they are women who are making rational decisions, accepting tradeoffs. They are women who recognize that it may be more beneficial to have a partner who is committed to them and willing to sacrifice for them and their family, than it is to have a “woke” feminist man who wants them to be independent
This is what i have never understood about "feminism" ..that (big print) "EQUALITY...FREEDOM...NO LIMITS" (fine print) "but if you dont agree with us on every facet you are a traitor to your sisters")
At least this sort of points out the hypocrisy
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:40 am to When in Rome
they re-package behaviors they hate into their own devices
that's just standard gaslighting
that's just standard gaslighting
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:41 am to IAmNERD
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This shite is past the point of comical. They are going to keep pushing this narrative until some guys absolutely snap and think to themselves, "they think I'm violent? Ok, I'll show these frickers violence." And a group of these incel types are going to massacre a bunch of women and "progressive" men.
literally already has happened
Posted on 12/18/18 at 9:42 am to SlowFlowPro
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yes it shows how language can be so powerful in these areas
this entire extremist worldview is based off that lie
As much as I hate these people, I'll give them props on being master manipulators of language. The idea that there's no genetic component to masculinity is the next biggest hurdle they're trying to clear
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