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re: Anyone here have a relative with dementia?

Posted on 5/3/14 at 3:56 pm to
Posted by jimbeam
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 3:56 pm to
It's one thing I don't want anymore of my relatives or myself to get.


Terrible.
Posted by Hazelnut
Member since May 2011
16433 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 3:58 pm to
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Terrible. Amazing the things they remember with perfect clarity though


This. My grandmother can remember the words to all kinds of songs back in the day. But she doesn't remember having a conversation 30 minutes ago. I'd say we're lucky though because she really is great in the moment. She realizes her memory sucks and is great to talk to. She just wont remember it later.
Posted by jimbeam
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 3:59 pm to
:(
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:01 pm to
Yup, she doesn't know who anyone is 95% of the time and we gets same questions every day
Posted by Cap Crunch
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:08 pm to
My grandmother has it and it's gotten terrible.

She barely speaks much, and when she does it's usually just gibberish or nonsense. It took a turn for the worst when my grandfather died a few years back and she didn't have a person to talk to her that's been there for so long.

Occasionally you can still see her recognize my dad or one of his sisters, but I can't remember the last time she knew who I was. Sometimes now you can see her acknowledging us and somewhat responding to is, other times she's just completely out of it.

It's a terrible disease.
Posted by Spelt it rong
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
10022 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:09 pm to
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what kind of dementia?


Mom didn't say. I'm assuming alzheimers being she's shown forgetfulness in regards to certain family members, taking her medicine and even remembering to eat.
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7653 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:15 pm to
My grandfather has it, but I refuse to call it that. I simply think he filled up his brain to the point it couldn't hold anymore and new information gets spit back out.

In his field he is probably one of about 5 men alive who know the things he does. Smartest man I know. It's breaking my heart when I see him. It's progressing slowly at least, his initial diagnosis was 4 years ago. Some days he is 100%, others my grandmother has to pick out his clothes and tell him what to do. He always remembers family though, just not all of his conversations.
Posted by Spelt it rong
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
10022 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:20 pm to
Well today just got better.

Just got a call that she suffered a stroke.

Thanks for the kind words and positive responses. This is the side of the OT we don't see too often.
Posted by Hazelnut
Member since May 2011
16433 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:24 pm to
Man that sucks. Praying for you and your family.
Posted by Cap Crunch
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Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:24 pm to
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Just got a call that she suffered a stroke.


I am so sorry man, prayers sent your way
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:27 pm to
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Just got a call that she suffered a stroke.



My grandmother had 2 after she had dementia and she bounced right back from both so there is hope. Try not to be TOO upset because things may work out.
Posted by Andre
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:29 pm to
signed
Posted by Keys Open Doors
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:30 pm to
Until my grandmother was 89, she was very mentally sharp. Great memory and keen intelligence. In the past 18 months, it has mostly gone away. Her short-term memory is really bad. She forgets to take her medicine some days and eats less and less. She also refuses help for the most part. My dad and my aunt have each found 3 very good caretakers and she has refused help each time. She's also very disorganized now, after years of having extremely detailed and organized financial records, health records, etc.

It's amazing how fast these things can happen.

ETA: At this point though, her speech is still clear and coherent, although less detailed than in the past, and she still remembers everyone important by name and face. She forgot my cousin's name a couple of times but within seconds, she remembered it.
This post was edited on 5/3/14 at 4:33 pm
Posted by Purple Spoon
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Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:30 pm to
Its a terrible thing to watch happen.

Focus on the good times.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:33 pm to
I lost a great aunt a few months ago. Sweetest lady you would ever meet, but the last year or so of her life when the brain changes took effect, she started cursing-really vile stuff. No idea where she learned it, I guess everyone is exposed to it just going through life and remembers it subconsciously.
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 4:38 pm to
There is a lot of resources available for info and counceling and such.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 5:10 pm to
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Its a terrible thing to watch happen.




it is. The only positive, if you can even call it that, it that when they finally pass away its not as painful as most deaths since they don't have to suffer anymore. I am sure that isn't true for everyone but it is in my limited experience.

quote:

Focus on the good times.



That and try to spend as much time with them as possible. I regret not spending more time with my grandmother before she passed. My GF at the time was amazing and spent hours with her each day, I wasn't as good of a person as here and I regret it.
This post was edited on 5/3/14 at 5:11 pm
Posted by Negative Nomad
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Posted on 5/3/14 at 5:22 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 11:35 am
Posted by tennessee391
Member since Dec 2008
4885 posts
Posted on 5/3/14 at 5:25 pm to
My grandmother had it. My parents slightly shielded me from it so my lasting memories weren't of her like that.. but it was bad when I was around her. I remember one time on Christmas we took her some presents and she just kept telling us to "go to hell, I just wanna sleep"

Prayers for you and yours.
Posted by GeauxCJ82
ATL
Member since Nov 2009
288 posts
Posted on 5/4/14 at 1:02 am to
My PawPaw had it and passed away last October. Sucked so much that he couldn't remember me or my kids. My other Grandfather had it and just passed away in April.
Prayers for you and your family.
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