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re: Any of you have experience with Stepchildren and their other parent?
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:19 pm to CherryGarciaMan
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:19 pm to CherryGarciaMan
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FWIW, my gf goes to church every Sunday
There are lots of hypocrites who go to church every sunday.
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and has a heart of gold.
You never really know what's inside of some one until some one is put to the test and everything goes wrong.
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Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:24 pm to CherryGarciaMan
Get married and move many states away.
I don't understand why the mother wants to keep her ex-in-laws in her daughter's life. What kind of example are they setting for the child.
It sounds like the mother is addicted to drama and she will keep causing problems to satisfy that addiction.
And a policeman can cause a lot of drama for you!
P.S. Do NOT get involved with the ex in-laws. If they want to drag you into the situation, insist they handle it with the mother.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
I don't understand why the mother wants to keep her ex-in-laws in her daughter's life. What kind of example are they setting for the child.
It sounds like the mother is addicted to drama and she will keep causing problems to satisfy that addiction.
And a policeman can cause a lot of drama for you!
P.S. Do NOT get involved with the ex in-laws. If they want to drag you into the situation, insist they handle it with the mother.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:33 pm to CherryGarciaMan
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I would say that you need to understand that it isn't fair to her child if you and the child get attached to one another and then you decide to walk away.
Speaking from experience, this is the most important issue, and is the ONLY thing you have control over in this situation.
Don't stick around with the plan that dad will fade away in time - it may happen, but probably won't. If you can't deal with him being a part of mom's (and your) life for the duration, then get out, and do it now.
If you see a future, and are sure about it, then understand you are making a commitment to the baby as well as mom. Don't set the kid up for heartbreak.
Don't be that guy.
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:34 pm to CherryGarciaMan
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She is terrific.
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However, she was married to a dude who was and is complete trash.
Does not compute.
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:37 pm to CherryGarciaMan
As a child of parents who had step children...I suggest walking the frick away.
To much drama that will affect your relationship.
To much drama that will affect your relationship.
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:43 pm to CherryGarciaMan
Dude, if she dated someone that is as trashy as the guy you described, then either A) she is equally as trashy, B) has horrible judgement or C) her ex looks like Brad Pitt.
So which is it?
So which is it?
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:44 pm to Grateful Reb
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So which is it?
D) Hung like a horse
he can never fulfill her true full needs and desires.
big shoes to fill. walk away
Posted on 8/31/15 at 12:44 pm to Grateful Reb
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So which is it?
D) Both A and B.
Posted on 8/31/15 at 1:03 pm to CherryGarciaMan
I am married to a woman that had a daughter when we meet, who's (COP) worthless sperm donor was almost never in the picture.
If you do continue to date and eventually marry this woman, it will get worse. When he does see her you will now be the reason her mom and dad aren't together or at least that's what he'll tell her. Among other BS he'll tell her to divide you and the daughter and mother at times.
quote:If he doesn't get her when he is scheduled to now this won't be an issue.
How are holidays when you have to split time?
quote:Only when you are forced to deal with them and I was cordial and direct.
How do you go about dealing with the other person who couldn't care less about their "responsibility"?
If you do continue to date and eventually marry this woman, it will get worse. When he does see her you will now be the reason her mom and dad aren't together or at least that's what he'll tell her. Among other BS he'll tell her to divide you and the daughter and mother at times.
quote:Yes!
Is the logistics of everything stressful?
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