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Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:49 pm to Displaced
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she married an a-hole. im sure she knows it too.
you've made your point a-hole. you are the perfect person. but some people after a while are happy with their wives but still can get some strange on the road if nobody finds out.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:50 pm to Joehat
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amount of hate is immeasurable and is probably soaking into your kids.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:50 pm to trillhog
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but still can get some strange on the road if nobody finds out.
Sounds kinda rapey.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:51 pm to trillhog
I'm not sure she can be held accountable if it is against her will.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:51 pm to The Third Leg
That should be the new Cajun revolution
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:51 pm to trillhog
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After how many years of marriage is it ok to cheat
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:54 pm to damnedoldtigah
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Let's go this route. My wife was the one who was unfaithful and lost a very comfortable lifestyle due to it. She also had to explain her behavior to our children. I stood there and made sure she admitted to them it was her fault. Thereafter, I filed for divorce and got enough lawyer to make sure all she got was her clothes, a vehicle, and some cash. I kept everything else and made her surrender full custody of the kids in return for not giving her aged parents a copy of the PI report. My kids will each got a copy of said report upon the execution of my will. Her selfishness destroyed a home and disrupted three other lives. She is now living a lot more humble in another state. She even had to gall to hint at coming back and I simply said no. The damage was too great to forgive. Yes, at some point those types of behaviors have consequences. Whether or not you knew about them has no bearing on whether or not they happened. Such an insinuation is just stupid. It happened and it changes things forever if ever so subtle. You do it once and think you will get away with it, you do it again, and again ...... and it finally catches up with you, and it will. If you are going to be married, than act like it. If not, then either don't marry or if married, get divorced.
Guess you showed her. She must be really regretting living that comfortable lifestyle now. When you are a bitter old man you can at least say you were the one with the most vengeance.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:56 pm to trillhog
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you've made your point a-hole. you are the perfect person. but some people after a while are happy with their wives but still can get some strange on the road if nobody finds out.
you still never answered the question of whether or not you would be ok with your wife screwing around on you while you were out of town cheating on her.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:56 pm to Robin Masters
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My kids will each got a copy of said report upon the execution of my will
Seems a bit excessive.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:57 pm to Displaced
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you still never answered the question of whether or not you would be ok with your wife screwing around on you while you were out of town cheating on her.
of course i wouldn't, but if i didn't know and never knew how would i know to care?
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:59 pm to trillhog
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but if i didn't know and never knew how would i know to care
this is the thing.
you cannot predict the actions of other people so saying you or she "would never know" is not possible.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 8:59 pm to trillhog
No cheating! The grass is NEVER greener on the other side-- or at least not most of the time 
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:14 pm to trillhog
quote:You got out of the thread what you wanted. Affirmation to cheat.
this is my thoughts but the response i got was come talk a married man of 10+, what she doesn't know won't hurt her.
Dude, I'm one of those guys that travel for my job. I don't stay in crappy hotels. I say in really nice places with a virtually unlimited expense account. I have turned down more opportunity to cheat on my wife than I care to remember. The thing is, and I know this is lame, but I trust my wife to be my best friend, to be there to support me when I'm sick, to raise my kids right, to know my most closely guarded fears and secrets and to share heartache and successes in our lives.
Would I get caught if I did cheat? Probably not, but I would never, ever feel as completely open and at ease with my wife ever again as I am able to have with her right now. Would it be worth potentially throwing away my continuous life with my kids? Hell no. Honestly, I work with guys that cheat. I have no repect for them. They don't repect themselves and they sure as hell don't respect their wives and kids. Their behaviors seem pathological, like, once they started cheating, they couldn't stop. I think of them as weak-minded.
If you do marry, before you cheat, if there is a reason for you TO cheat, just talk to your wife. Let her know the truth, that you feel this urge to cheat and you realize how destructive it is. Find out right away if the marriage is salvagable. If you go into a cheating relationship, then the only reason you are staying in the marriage is to avoid the discomfort and upheaval associated with a nasty divorce. If the relationship has deteriorated to this point, seriously... talk to her and decide before you cheat the status of your marriage and the value you place in maintaining it. You might be pleasantly surprised by how your wife reacts. Either she wants to save the marriage and things between you two suddenly improve, or she feels the same as you and you can part amicably, or maybe you two decide to have an open marriage. Either way, you owe it to her to not cheat.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:25 pm to trillhog
It is never OK, ever, under any circumstances.
What part of "forsaking all others" wasn't clear when you said "I do"?
If you'll cheat on your wife, you can't be trusted by anybody else in any facet of your life. You become a turd, a worthless turd of a man.
What part of "forsaking all others" wasn't clear when you said "I do"?
If you'll cheat on your wife, you can't be trusted by anybody else in any facet of your life. You become a turd, a worthless turd of a man.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:35 pm to trillhog
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:37 pm to trillhog
Women have side pieces more than men do. I bet a few posters wives ITT have lovers right now and they would never know until she told them.
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:39 pm to trillhog
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After how many years of marriage is it ok to cheat
Whenever she stops wanting to frick
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:45 pm to Finkle is Einhorn
quote:Whose fault is that, fat arse?
Whenever she stops wanting to frick
Posted on 6/3/14 at 9:46 pm to The Third Leg
121 months 27 days is the correct answer.
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